Men, I need your help!

I'm coming here because it's entirely possible (actually quite probable) that I've got a blind spot in my marriage and I need some help seeing it.

Since I found TRP about 2 months ago, I haven't been able to identify a single shit test that my wife has thrown at me.

  • When I want to go do something, she says, "Have fun!" and means it. She never (and I mean NEVER) gives me shit for doing my own thing.
  • She never berates me (and I mean NEVER).
  • Sex whenever I want. Actually, it's more like sex whenever SHE wants because her libido is higher than mine. (Side note - one of the biggest take aways of TRP is that I've discarded the blue pill romance/slow tender sex bullshit for much more caveman sex/SGM, which has been awesome!)
  • We almost never argue. When we do, it's a discussion more than a fight. More often than not, she has a valid point that makes me re-consider my stance.
  • I do all the bills and manage the household finances.
  • I can spend money however I want. She never questions it.

Help me, gents. Where should I be looking for shit tests? If she truly isn't throwing them at me, does that mean she isn't testing my frame? And if not, why not?