Active Dread Question

JudgeDoom69 · 2018-11-08T02:42:31+00:00

What you're describing is an overt and transparent effort to induce jealousy in your woman. It will only make you seem weak and pathetic.

True dread comes from increasing your actual Sexual Marketplace Value. Demonstrate that you have value as an alpha male through peak physical fitness and being social leader, and the dread will follow naturally, without your effort.

Your little shallow attempts to make her jealous only expose your insecurities.

SteelSharpensSteel · 2018-11-08T03:02:58+00:00

Your goal should be passive dread, until you get to the highest dread levels. What you describe is both weak and obvious.

She will sniff out your lack of congruence pretty quickly.

The_Litz · 2018-11-08T03:00:20+00:00

'Planting' evidence is beta. In a way it is just another covert contract, she must get jealous and fuck you because you planted some texts to make her jealous.

You will get pissed because she didn't get jealous. NMMNG basics.

justpickanyusername · 2018-11-08T05:29:17+00:00

Look mommy. Mommy look! Over here! Mommy! Mommy?

No, that doesn’t work. She can stiff it out from a mile a way too. Just be awesome. The passive dread will do its own magic.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-11-08T13:54:41+00:00

Everyone here is giving you the standard boiler plate response for active dread.

This is your relationship to burn and only you know when using active dread is the right tool. You are your own fucking judge.

The fucking "rules" we have here are just guidelines.

If you truly don't give a fuck, and you love the man that you are, and you can envision yourself thriving with it without a first officer, and you have put in the work to become the man that can thrive without a first officer, then what the fuck does it matter.

Do whatever you want.

Active dread away and let the universes feedback be your guide.

Everyone is giving you the same advice for a reason though.

BobbyPeru · 2018-11-08T03:56:45+00:00

Active dread - no

Passive dread- yes

But, if you read all of the sidebar “and more,” you’d know that

Reach180 · 2018-11-08T14:33:21+00:00

I have had multiple women at work give me IOIs so, I have confidence that I can game chicks at work on cautious mode

Work IOIs, "hot girl" work friends....it's not real. Work game is mostly women looking for orbiters. If that's the only place you're getting IOIs - which I assume it is, because you've convinced yourself it's a BFD and are trying to leverage that as dread - then work on an additional venue.

johneyapocalypse · 2018-11-08T05:10:39+00:00

Don't be a sneaky rat. Earn your stars the right way. The real way.

When your balls are sufficiently dropped, the dread will come.

redwall92 · 2018-11-08T13:03:51+00:00

Facebook is not a valid source for dread.

Redpillbrigade17 · 2018-11-08T15:49:56+00:00

Bad idea. You’re overthinking it and it’s a beta move. Which means she’ll be less turned on, not more. If it happens by accident, while you’re busy pursuing your mission and goals, now THAT’S true dread-inducing and tingles-generating.

[deleted] · 2018-11-08T15:52:40+00:00

"You mean I can dodge bullets?" "No Neo. When you're ready, you won't have to."

mrpthrowa · 2018-11-08T20:04:10+00:00

No it’s not. Dread is accidental. Dread is a by product of being awesome, of enjoying life, not giving a shit and having a high SMV.

You concentrate on you. What you’re doing is living in her frame of this marriage is your aim. You are your aim. You make the marriage awesome by being awesome. Alas eventually you get to a point where the baggage either can’t keep up or won’t keep up.

At that point you just move on

You can only change yourself

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-11-08T16:25:41+00:00

I like it. I love the Game.

It can be effective if you “let” her find them. Not going to tell you how though. Up to you.

It’s social proof. Your wife can see other women finding you attractive and high value. Depending on your current situation, it can help.

Use any leverage you can find.

Title	Active Dread Question
Author	Rojo-Gringo
Upvotes	5
Comments	21
Date	November 8, 2018 1:59 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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