The talk is coming

BobbyPeru · 2018-02-24T02:19:55+00:00

Plan something fun on the night she wants to have “the talk,” - with the boys.

Tell her you want to have a talk, and reschedule it for a different day/Time.

Get her in your frame. Set a time and an agenda for discussion- don’t tell her what you will talk about, but be fully prepared. Come to the meeting with a “if you don’t like it, the door is right there” attitude.

In short, take control of your destiny. Right now you are like a little boy waiting for mommy to dole out your punishment, hoping it won’t be too severe.

SteelSharpensSteel · 2018-02-24T00:30:09+00:00

When a woman says "We need to talk", that's powertalk. There are a ton of resources at your disposal on TRP, Rollo's blog, and even MRP.

How's your Google-fu? You going to find them?

screechhater · 2018-02-24T03:39:03+00:00

LTR Womanese-We should talk = please, let’s talk then seal out our differences with a good fuck- you initiate - then I don’t look like a slut.

MRP - Rambo - boy wonder takes shit out of context, not understanding resolute stoicism combined with IDGAF attitude of “sticks-and stones may break my bones, but your spilling of feelz will never hurt me” sprinkled with unfazed happiness not influenced by cunty behavior, is the only course

Course, since “Ramboy” sprinkles some dick moves on the LTR he is wondering “What do now ?”

nastynickdr · 2018-02-24T11:48:05+00:00

she left 3 days ago but she stills needs to call each evening to chit chat

So what? Use those 3 days as a soft next. Dont respond.

Look, you are still in her frame. You are afraid of "the talk", while you should be focused on your mission. You should have more important things to do than being worried about your LTR (who isnt even your wife) spewing her fee fees on you and possibly breaking up with you (which most likely isnt the case, she justs wants power/control over you).

Your mindset should be always be "This is who I am. If you are not happy, theres the door". Always. Do not make any compromises. "If you dont do/change xxxx we are over". No, fuck that shit. Start catering to her demands and soon you turn into a lifeless career beta with no friends, no life, no hobbies, skinnyfat and depressed. "Why do you prefer to hang out with your friends rather than staying with me?" "You workout too much, is it to impress other girls? Stop it!" "I hate that beard, take it off" "Jiu jitsu is too dangerous, quit it". "If you want more sex you need to xxxxx more". "Im unhappy because you never do xxxxx".

Remember you are the oak, whatever she says/does/feels cant affect you. She can join you in your awesome ride or she can take a hike. Dont let her change you.

Now I am little confused how to react to the talk when she comes back.

Do not bring up "the talk". Shes free to to do it if she wants. Then if she brings it up, let her vent, do NOT make any compromises. Remember the mindset is "if you are not satisfied, you know where the door is".

BostonBrakeJob · 2018-02-24T00:20:01+00:00

Let's talk about frame, instead. And namely why you've decided to live your life within hers.

If she hinted at, or flat out said she needs a break...then live your life like a single man for the next 3 days, if that's what you want to do. If she didn't and you're just hamstering, then knock it off and do what you want for the next 3 days. If she wants to talk, that's on her. If you have something to say, say it. It's really not that complicated.

creepcycle · 2018-02-24T03:33:41+00:00

If she keeps calling you, even on "time out", in my experience that means The Talk will be a list of things she wants you to change.

bogeyd6 · 2018-02-25T03:04:14+00:00

She told me that she loves me but sometimes love is not enough

ILYBINILWY

Pretty simple. She needs you to chill while she works it out with her current boy friend.

Title	The talk is coming
Author	spanishthrower
Upvotes	2
Comments	16
Date	February 24, 2018 12:10 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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