I left the house

2ndal · 2018-02-15T20:00:38+00:00

Men are bad at covert communication, and women are bad at overt communication. So realize when Red Pill men are instructed to withdraw attention when their wife is acting undesirable, you're advising covert communication that they're very likely bad at. This is why we talk so much about "covert contracts" -- we're trying to speak covertly and then getting upset when our wives don't respond. Of course they don't respond, because we're bad at it.

Which is why so many guys stumble in here, saying their wife shot them down for sex, they fucked off out of bed and tried to do something else, and their wives accused them of being "butthurt." This is why it goes as poorly as a woman saying, "no videogames, no sex." Both situations -- the woman giving her husband an overt sexual ultimatum and the man ignoring his wife after he was turned down for sex -- invites feelings of manipulation, hostility, confrontation.

Should you withdraw your attention if your wife is behaving in a way that doesn't deserve your attention? Of course. What you should not do is clumsily bring your attention level from 100 to 0. Your wife is not entitled to your attention, but she is entitled to feel upset when you suddenly withdraw your attention after a pattern of years of giving her attention unconditionally. And if you just swallowed the Red Pill, as I said, you will not have the frame to deal with an upset wife who is pissed that you're changing the rules.

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So yes, for you unplugging guys, your wife will turn you down for sex, and you'll be so tempted to leave the room and otherwise withdraw your attention in direct response. Don't do this. Take a deep breath, remain stoic. At that very moment, continue to do whatever activity you were currently doing. If you were watching a shitty TV show with your wife, finish watching that shitty TV show. Use that time to take stock of your life, to ponder how things got here, spending your evenings watching TV shows you don't like, with a woman who doesn't seem to like you very much. Start thinking about a plan to change that situation, and what kind of goals would indicate you're succeeding in that plan. Then, when the TV show is done, excuse yourself to go to the bathroom, then go to another room, and start writing down some notes for that plan

--jackten

red-sfpplus · 2018-02-15T19:12:03+00:00

I am Italian and am married to one.

Best course of action is to fuck her the moment you see her next. No talking, not even hi. Just go in for the fucking close and dont take anything short of a slap to the face or ball kick as a no.

Can I make it any more crystal clear? Do you understand?

Edit: Your first part is pretty solid, but your male hamster is running like a motherfucker in the last few points. Chill that shit out. Have confidence that you executed things fine.

man_in_the_world · 2018-02-15T19:13:53+00:00

How to handle accusations of affairs 101

470_2_700_nm · 2018-02-15T19:33:30+00:00

I thought this was beta dread at first. I was wrong, you went to work.

I think the biggest thing to do when leaving the house is anything to do with you, whether it be building value at work, working on other relationships, or even reading.

I used to hang around wondering WTF and get all pissed.

My life is too short for that. There is a world out there for me to grab by the pussy.

Westernhagen · 2018-02-15T21:06:59+00:00

she was worried because there was a TV show she watched last night after I left called “He lied about everything” with some doctor that had 3 wives

Hope you said, "Don't worry, I'm not married to any of my other women!"

BostonBrakeJob · 2018-02-15T19:14:31+00:00

Sounds like her hamster hopped on the wheel for a run. Good job staying in frame and not engaging. Next time, try pulling her into that frame and fuck 'er raw.

simbarlion · 2018-02-15T22:14:31+00:00

Okay, not sure exactly what to call what happened last night.

The right thing, perhaps slightly rambo

I didn’t engage her in an explanation or argument. I walked away and went to bed.

Perfecto

I didn’t sleep well but made it through the night.

Too much GAF. so give less fucks

she apologized to me and said she was worried

So It worked

Dude, don't think twice about it. You did the right thing, although maybe a bit OTT for just a soft no. FWIW I do this at least once a week at the moment. I go skateboarding, one of my favourite bowls is lit up like a xmas tree. I don't know what she thinks i do, but i don't tell her. I also have a single friend (male) I can go hang with. You were only gone 1 hour. Wait to u/rian_stone gets onto you, he will tell you to leave and dont come back till the morning.

screechhater · 2018-02-15T22:18:49+00:00

Let’s look at Dread.

At Level 4 - it’s time and attention withdrawal for bad behavior and good- giving time and attention.

You should be playing 4 like an accordion

This is tough and yes, you may need to display a little more manhood in your actions.

Again. Your name is a little giving of your frame and how she immediately influenced you and your response is weak.

What you need to realize, is that some guys give good advice. And, some not so good. My advice to you and all, is to show absolutely no reaction to a no to sex The rejection literally has no bearing

You become indifferent

The IDGAF attitude is essential but must not go too far overboard

In a perfect world, all your work pays off. This is not a perfect world. Just keep working

I was turned down, or ignored last night and this morning was the same. We will see what happens tonight. I like to fuck, I really do.

With all my work here, I realize I just plain like to fuck all the time. When I’m busy, like 20 hour days, I kind of back off a little, but I still like to fuck.

I like to fuck so much I realized, I married her because she was about the only woman that could keep up. As kid one came along, it was ugly until she went cock crazy again then all good until about three years ago. But, again, I like to fuck. She is learning again, she married a fuck machine. She wants to keep me.... she will be DTF again.

If she decides to not want this, she knows that I will move on. I am that callous. And, she knows this.

So, say I, do you see yourself as an unaffected soul indifferent to her rejections ? Are you a tough as fucking nails bastard that is not affected ?

Or, does the sun rise and set on her ass ? At some point OP, you must face yourself and decide, is she worth this as you become unaffected by her rejections ? Or, is there something in your past affecting you and your reactions to her rejections ?

How drunk have you been ?

My biggest question Sir, is do you honestly want to be controlled by her rejections ?

My current situation is just like many others, and since I am working out 2x s day, Mrs Screech is seriously asking why ?

Why not ? I state, I’ve done given what it takes to build a business, my kids have what they need and I am back to taking care of me.

So, when do you actually take care of you ? When do you go to work on you ? When do you remain so cast iron that s no elicits you right into the shower ? Or, sitting down with a book ?

It’s only pussy.

ich_bin_doch_geil · 2018-02-15T20:07:40+00:00

Why leave the house? You are so deep in her frame, you don't even feel that the house is YOURS as well.

That was a super blue pilled beta move, and reads like you had a temper tantrum because Mommy didn't give you what you wanted.

Grow the fuck up. OYS - part of that is learning to gracefully accept that things wont always go your way.

What you did? Ha. Next time you see your wife, pull down your pants and ask for a spanking. She should take your allowance away as well. That kind of response is more in line with your behavior.

Title	I left the house
Author	TurdDoctor
Upvotes	3
Comments	21
Date	February 15, 2018 7:04 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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