When a comfort test comes manipulation

freshona · 2017-12-22T09:25:14+00:00

Shed some light on the comfort test that comes with manipulation.

88Will88 · 2017-12-22T11:30:34+00:00

Be specific and give some examples or we can’t help

hystericalbonding · 2017-12-22T11:41:12+00:00

Newbies don't get comfort tests.

I'll be charitable and say that maybe it was a shitty comfort test. This thread explains the ideas behind it.

Rian_Stone · 2017-12-22T13:23:07+00:00

They all are

SteelSharpensSteel · 2017-12-22T11:44:57+00:00

When a comfort test comes manipulation <-- We all know what you're thinking about, Mr. Freudian slip.

I'll wait to see if you give a example of your comfort test.

bogeyd6 · 2017-12-22T13:30:09+00:00

The chance of you having a comfort test in the beginning is very very unlikely. Usually she is trying to guilt/manipulate you back to the status quo. /u/hystericalbonding posted a very good article written by one of the original MRP people.

UEMcGill · 2017-12-22T13:46:50+00:00

It's almost like there's a book on it?

Manipulation comes from people getting you to judge your own actions. Only you can judge your actions.

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2017-12-22T15:32:03+00:00

Manipulation means you fear a consequence. Why do you fear a consequence?

BobbyPeru · 2017-12-22T15:32:23+00:00

Like others said, not much we can do without examples. My guess is you’re misinterpreting.

screechhater · 2017-12-22T11:52:22+00:00

Everytime I get a comfort test in my mouth, it blows its load prematurely, then says “the checks in the mail....”

Just in case you have not taken notes and reviewed them, all interactions with the human race will be manipulative, especially with the ones running around with pussy.

How about that boss at work. Especially the dumb fuck that makes promises on your back but is so fucking stupid he tells you the day before shit is due ? Ya. It happens 24/7

Frame. Frame. Can’t say it enough.

Like I tell my 12 year old. Just because so and so is going to jump off a cliff .....

Seriously , step back, and take note, unless you are operating in your “frame” you are subject to manipulation. Just like shopping with a list

The reason this is coming out is because you are identifying it for what it is but it’s not always about comfort. But it is always about manipulation.

So what model, make, year, smart phone do you own ? What drove you to buy it ?

Now as for comfort tests- mom daughter, sister kiss on the forehead, hug - quick. Remember, they know what buttons to push, because they put them there, a long time ago

SO, LTR - a comforting word or two with humor, hug , kiss. Then back to your shit.

Don’t ever give the impression you are ok with shitty behavior, or you aren’t going anywhere. It needs to be an unwritten, unspoken rule and emitted from your skin, you have options. AKA abundance A little comfort goes a long way.

With the SO it’s not really just about you giving comfort in this journey. It’s also about time, touch and feel. She truly needs to feel she can reach out and get comfort when she feels the need.

Does an SO really want to manipulate a red pill aware, leading man ? One that she can trust ?

BobbyPeru · 2017-12-22T15:07:14+00:00

WISNIFG and NMMNG

Title	When a comfort test comes manipulation
Author	BostonBrakeJob
Upvotes	6
Comments	34
Date	December 22, 2017 8:02 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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