Flowers?

Scurvemuch · 2017-06-20T16:42:44+00:00

wait, so you only got head 5 times?

straius · 2017-06-20T16:45:12+00:00

Covert contract.

Don't try to buy favors or rewards for behavior. Her reward is your attention and time building intimacy, kino, etc...

Praise her for the BJs if you want to reinforce that behavior. Even if they're not up to snuff for your tastes, you still praise her to see improvement.

A combination of you being fun, increasing intimacy and looking hot will get you more BJs. Not material goods. That's for whores and gold diggers.

BluepillProfessor · 2017-06-20T16:44:53+00:00

Do you like flowers? If you want to get them do it! If you are getting them to reward your wife for being a good little girl then yes it is a mistake.

The_Litz · 2017-06-20T16:37:16+00:00

Because when flowers are out of season, BJ's will also be out of season.

2gunsgetsome · 2017-06-20T16:39:38+00:00

If you enjoy a good BJ, show her by enjoying that BJ! If you want condition some association with pleasure, get her off good after you're done and recovered.

Don't reward sexual activities with non-sexual "payments".

Also, don't keep score.

redmountainpill · 2017-06-20T16:43:18+00:00

I don't like to tie sexual acts to specific rewards. Then it becomes contractual. So what I do is reward generally good behavior with small gifts. The wife had been sweet, pleasant and sexy for a month, I surprised her with flowers.

thewholefnshow547 · 2017-06-20T16:58:53+00:00

5 flowers in 13 years is a very good average. Well done. You get good sex by earning it. You earn it with good game. Forget the flowers, perfume, jewelry, chocolates and cards, for this is the way of the man with no game.

Title	Flowers?
Author	BigB1901
Upvotes	1
Comments	37
Date	June 20, 2017 4:24 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/6if439/flowers/
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