Just started - and still a wimp

bogeyd6 · 2017-05-08T13:18:48+00:00

The first step in stopping the behavior is to shut your mouth. Keep your money in the bank and consider that the seed to your fuck you money. How do you stop seeking approval? That is a tough journey. My guess is it starts with first just stop doing things. Simply your life into reading the books and going to the gym.

Holy shit I think I discovered something new. Lift, Read, STFU.

prarrott · 2017-05-08T18:40:29+00:00

Why don't you type out a post seeking this place's approval and see what happens?

sixdownsevenup · 2017-05-08T11:48:30+00:00

Read. Lift. And for fuck's sake fix this ->

and above all: I don't have a clue what I really want.

Until you get clear on that, no one can offer any real assistance.

Sure you're not a troll?

InChargeMan · 2017-05-08T13:53:16+00:00

$500 is nothing, like change you find in the seat cushions. You need to learn discipline and don't let the money dictate that you need to buy something. You plan for things you need/want to buy and work to secure the funds. Also, "things" don't make you happy. Except for jet skis of course.

addictedtoyourface · 2017-05-08T14:54:55+00:00

Give this a read:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ykmhu/the_guide_to_accepting_yourself_even_when_women/

This is my go to when I start to give too many fucks.

justpickanyusername · 2017-05-08T15:52:20+00:00

You sound lost still. You may just need to chill and think about everything that you have read some more. It sounds like your eyes have been opened, but your still too groggy and you still have all of that junk in your eyes after waking up and can't see clearly yet. Not wise to start trying to knock down targets if you can't see what your shooting at. Keep lifting since you need that regardless of anything else you will need to do in the future. It is as foundational as anything else you will find in here.

I would caution on moving forward until you really know what you want out of life. Otherwise, you will just flounder and probably cause more harm than good. Re-read the prerequisites and take notes this time. Particularly towards building your MAP. When you have those holy shit moments when you realize where you have been a faggot figure out how to fix it and add it to your MAP. Prioritize and move forward.

Not sure what others in askMRP will think of this as we frown upon victim pukes, but you may need to provide some backstory. All of us are here for similar, but different reasons. Knowing where you have been provides the starting point for where you need to go.

Life_advice_me · 2017-05-08T10:49:25+00:00

Read and lift. You have a long way to go. Take it slow. Expect pushback from your wife. Do not talk to her about RP or the manosphere. Expect lasting changes in your relationship to take months. Fix your finances, and if you want to ask stupid questions like how do I spend $500, you should consider gender reassignment surgery. I'm seriously wondering if your trolling me.

Title	Just started - and still a wimp
Author	trowawayMarried
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	May 8, 2017 8:02 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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