So...I'm spending some time with my family and my wife's sister's family.

The other guy is pretty cool, I guess he is pretty natural red pill (even though i've started noticing he submits alot)

The sister however... she really tries to bring people down, she acts as if she's above everyone else. Or it could be she acts this way towards me, I don't really care.

So I chill on the sofa reading a book, and she opens two doors (it's -20 C outside with strong nortwind blowing) "to let some fresh air in". It geta pretty cols in a minute so i close one door, get back to reading, it's still cold so I close the other door.

Now she storms in that "the air inside smells badly, put on some clothes if you are cold".

Uh oh - notice the imperative in her statement and complete disregard for my interests.

I close the door again, now her man chines in "just for a minute, to let fresh air in"

I say the air is fresh and close the door.

Now, I do care about this guy. What was a beter way to hand ethe situation, keep the frame, ignore the bitch sister but not be rude to the guy.

The problem is, since he amplified her, If I reasoned with him, I'd ultimatelly enter her frame. And that's the way she operates, so I would just fail the shit test...