For those of you who have mastered MRP ideals, how often do you get BJs?

Persaeus · 2016-11-24T13:36:40+00:00

Do the work. Someone will suck it. May not be your wife.

470_2_700_nm · 2016-11-24T14:37:29+00:00

This here is a huge covert contract you are creating. "If I do this then she will fuck / suck my dick". Stop that. If you are doing all this to get blow jobs you are missing the mark. It's a nice by product... my wife is just getting to the point when I scull fuck her more regularly than before (which was almost non existant because I was a little bitch).

Once you get your stones back, become a man that women desire, your wife, or maybe some other thirsty slut will suck your dick. Remember, falacio is a mate guarding technique women employ. The best blow jobs I've gotten in my life came from women who felt they were losing me.

So stop building this covert contract. We all came here to get more sex out of our marriage, but once we got into the journey the ones that have succeeded realized it's more about you than her. You will too if you put in the work.

Read the sidebar. Lift. Go.

Westernhagen · 2016-11-24T15:44:16+00:00

You're not truly there until you get unsolicited BJs from female supervisors at work.

RCMasculinity · 2016-11-24T18:43:12+00:00

I'm going to say that from my own experience and lurking in various RP blogs, Twitter, Reddit and the line, that the overwhelmingly vast majority of us found RP because something was 'wrong'. Mostly with our shit-tastic starfish or pseudo sex lives.

IMO no one goes looking for RP answers because they look like Hugh Jackman and are tagging their HB8/9 Jennifer Lawrence lookalike wife every night.

But somewhere along the journey we learn that not only is it NOT about the sex, we learn that sex is probably the least important.

It is about reclaiming our own masculinity, and about putting OURSELVES first. For many of us, this is an incredibly alien concept.

A woman is an accessory to a successful man's life, should he desire it. A woman must absolutely not BE a man's life. Once you internalize that, and remove your wife from the pedestal that your Beta self put her on, a whole new world will open before your eyes, brother.

And we will be here for you. As brothers should be.

Olderpiller · 2016-11-24T15:07:08+00:00

what you are missing is that if you are sexually attractive to a woman you do not have to ask for a blow job. When you are Chad your cock is worshipped and she feels privileged to have it in her. But you are not worth having your dick sucked at this point. Stop focusing on the blow job and focus on the man in the mirror.

RPSigmaStigma · 2016-11-24T15:24:55+00:00

It's rarer than you might think, I struggle to actually find time too. Once your wife is back on track and she desires you she want it in her puss pretty much 24/7. BJs to completion are pretty much a period thing and once a month otherwise maybe.

You can get sucked tho as foreplay pretty much at will once your good. My wife gets on her knees three times a day to kiss my feet and it's a pretty nice transition for getting some sucking if I want it.

The reality is she wants to get fucked and that's ok. You gotta find time for you still even after things are good. It's up to you to get your dick sucked.

blarggggggggggg · 2016-11-24T18:23:57+00:00

I was getting 1 or 2 a year. I implemented a lot of red pill stuff slowly over the course of 2 years. I didn't get ripped or large muscles but I did get down to around 12% bodyfat for awhile (I had been over 30%). I started getting about 2-3 a month. One time 2 days in a row. This was also around the time she complained that I had lost too much weight. (perfect example of watch what they do, not what they say)

That winter, I did a shitty dirty bulk. I put on weight way too quickly and wound up around 18-20% bf, some muscle but more fat. BJs stopped around that time.

Correlation is not causation, but interesting nonetheless.

Sepean · 2016-11-24T13:55:41+00:00

Whenever I want. Until completion is mostly only during her period, but just licking and sucking for a while is most mornings, and of course as foreplay and between positions.

screechhater · 2016-11-24T13:50:28+00:00

Don't worry about it. Just fucking work your ass off.

ex_addict_bro · 2016-11-26T05:27:21+00:00

Tldr: but I want my blow job, moooooom!

I had a few blowjobs during past 6 month but the only girl who swallowed was married (and vegan). I didn't ask but maybe if I did, she would tell me that her hubby started talking about journeys and pills and she got so bored she decided to swallow my cum instead.

blue_to_red · 2016-12-01T20:44:39+00:00

ha, I have a long ways to go on this journey, but I got one at lunch time today. Wife was making a sandwich and needed to get into one of the cabinets in front of me. "Can I get in there?". I said "sure" and unbuttoned my pants. She gave me a quickie, then went back to making her sandwich. Took me totally off guard! Be attractive (not all about physical), be fun, be badass and women aren't that complicated.

[deleted] · 2016-11-24T13:20:26+00:00

You can expect that you will have your wants met, and so long as you aren't half assing or self sabotaging it.

I guarantee the answers you'd get will only make you angry, and focus on you right now

BobbyPeru · 2016-11-24T15:46:45+00:00

Hookers are your best avenue

Cheap ones

RedNorseSteel · 2016-11-24T17:02:08+00:00

Whenever I put my dick in her mouth I get a blowie.

SDSAM21 · 2016-11-24T17:30:50+00:00

I am far from mastering MRP ideals yet I can report for someone who is a year in, swatting shit and comfort tests, packing some muscle, leading the fam. My example is positive. When we were first married my dick was sucked the last half of the Chicago Bulls games (was a fan of Pippen, quit following after Ron Artest meta- idiot went after fans). Went beta with kids. Typical response was "people change." Now she gets BJ lashes every 2 weeks and slurps on command like a Japanese MILF.

Losingdadbod · 2016-11-26T05:30:59+00:00

Thanks for all the awesome comments. I'm going to get to work lifting, losing and learning the MRP ideals. Next Thanksgiving will be a good time to see how life has changed in the BJ frequency.

[deleted] · 2016-11-25T15:18:22+00:00

What an awesome covert contract you are writing for your wife. This won't end in disaster at all.

To be more helpful, you need to get the relationship back in your frame which it clearly is not. Go through the levels of dread methodically and slowly. Read everything and LIFT minimum 3 times a week. Once you start pulling her back into your frame, when you are clearly the captain again, deciding what the weekend plans are, handling all the shit like a pro, so she can look at you as a sexual object again, then you can whip out your throb rocket and shove it in her mouth. Until then you done fucked up for 20 years and now your fat ass has to take the time to get back on track.

[deleted] · 2016-11-24T13:20:17+00:00

She'll be on your dick like a limpet. That what you want to hear?

Title	For those of you who have mastered MRP ideals, how often do you get BJs?
Author	Losingdadbod
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Comments	32
Date	November 24, 2016 1:01 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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