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Example Reframed victim puke

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August 21, 2016
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X thing happened

Went to pick up rental car with wife. It wasn't the car we needed for the trip because I reserved the one she bitched about instead of the one I knew was right.

I felt X

Anger. At myself. For having been a pussy who would do what a woman wants just because she bitched about it. (Reservation was made several months ago pre current progress.)

did Y

I got to the car, saw it wouldn't comfortably fit the people we are meeting and would still guzzle fuck tons of gas regardless. We needed a VAN - not an SUV. I pointed that out to her without blame (waste of my energy) and then walked back to the rental car counter while she acts up and tries to shame me into doing the wrong thing by attempting to embarrass me in public. She failed. Bonus was that the clerk was a woman.

This was good/bad/ inconsequential in retrospect because:

Good because we got the vehicle that was required for the task at hand. I ended up having to pay more for it because of the change. Lessons cost money. Especially marriage ending lessons but that's an established fact.

Later she says "I'm sorry if you're sorry" and I reply "I'm not sorry" and she says "you don't think you have anything to be sorry about?"
I say "no" She says "then I take it back" I say "good, are you done now? Let's go"

I think the root cause is (insert your failure here)

I changed my mind to please a woman back when I made the reservation. It's plastered all over The Way of The Superior Man but maybe I hadn't fully internalized it until now. If you're new, do NOT read that book first. Start with Blue Pill Professors book or Book of Pook.

Plans moving forward:

Make god damned sure I am doing what ever the fuck I want while taking my first mate's opinion into account but never blindly following it like a faggot who wants a blow job from mommy.

Given how big a fuck tard I was even 6 months ago. I know I handled this damn well. 6 months ago, I might have done what she wanted just so I could escape the unwarranted shame and berate her about it the whole time and then wonder why she wasn't DTF.

Honestly I would not have mentioned this at all because I try to own my shit these days but at the suggestion of /u/Scurvemuch and given the flood of weak ass posts here, I thought it would be a worthy contribution.


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Title Example Reframed victim puke
Author sh0ckley
Upvotes 12
Comments 22
Date 21 August 2016 01:17 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/207217
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/4yscyx/example_reframed_victim_puke/
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[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (10 children) | Copy

Damn fine work there brother.

As a reader, see if you can see the difference? 0 faggotry

[–]sh0ckley[S] 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

The new asshole you ripped me is holding up well... so long as I don't tear up over this unsought validation and cause it to rust over.

Fucking New Guy readers might also note this excellent example, from 66 days ago, of what (Trademark pending /u/Scurvemuch) "Pussy McFaggot" would do and say:

https://reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/4oagmp/she_acted_unattractive_denied_her_sex

6 months ago, I could not even do 10 push ups. Now I can almost bench half my body weight after I dropped 45 lbs.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Has anybody else noticed that the men who can kill their ego, own their shit, and take severe criticism with an eye roll and a nod are the guys who do the best with MRP? By far the best.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

which makes one wonder... how they got here in the first place.

[–]anythingincRed Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You ever just look at a beautiful pussy? Cum and just lay there in the afterglow with her spent body next to you, head on your chest..."I like this, I want this to last forever..."

It is difficult as fuck to not just do or take whatever seems to be the easy way to placate it and keep it around. It is not just the easy way..it seems like the right way...little did we know that is the surefire way to lose it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

you know , yea I did...

And then I started looking at two at a time...

the dopamine rush needs to be recognized.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

thanks for the reminder of how I got that tag...

Stone ripped you a good one... I just pointed out that you were likely wearing panties.

[–]sh0ckley[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Pink lace were my favorite.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I'm partial to crotchless

[–]sh0ckley[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

But then I can't tuck my balls where no one can see them ...and run from the shame.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh... when did you get those back?

oh right... right after morning workout

[–]jigglydee1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Heh, reminds me when I bought a new car a few months ago. Took the Mrs to see two makes that I had researched and picked out. She absolutely loved one of them and wanted to buy it straight away, although it wasn't really meeting our family needs (too small). I took into account the features she adored. Next week, went and put a deposit on the THIRD, different make all together, was the one that met the family needs, but she'd never seen it. Rang her to say congrats, we are the proud owners of a new car.

Needless to say, she was pissed when she saw the pics, it wasn't the one she saw, different car altogether. She remained moody all the way up til we went to pick it up from the dealer in a few days time. It didn't phase me cos it was the right decission, it was car that we needed, more economical, more roomier, and had covered off on 95% off the features we were both looking for, and more. She remained moody.

It wasn't until she actually went there, saw the car, sat in it, she finally saw the light. Had I gone with her decission, we would have ended up with a car that I wasn't 100% happy with, would have cost more to run, and would have been less roomier. Logic trumps emotion.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

What that pays, says... you know what I mean?

[–]jigglydee0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That too.

[–]CasperTFG_8080 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I'm stuck with a car I fucking hate because i let my wife make the decision on that 2 years ago. 2 more years the lease is done and it's a constant reminder.

[–]jigglydee0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Give them options, but always make the final decission. Brownie points if you can get her to believe it was her decision all along.

[–]CasperTFG_8080 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The BP cleared my mind enough to realize that she ear fucked my beta vagina brain good. Convinced me it was my decision to get the SUV we got.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nice post. Nice layout makes it an easy read and highlights the lessons. Value.

[–]redearththeory0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Frame test passed. Nice work. Being able to handle this type of situation is part of learning to lead. She doesnt trust you to lead yet, you're trying to execute your plan, shit goes wrong, she attacks, you hold frame, you get a decent outcome, the plan continues. Do this a few times and the attacks get less aggressive. My wife now just makes a neutral comment like "maybe we should have checked that earlier" which is fair enough.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Nice post. I feel validated that you used my format. Having said that... seriously good job.

I expect the next FR from you to include oral and or anal from ?wife plate? whatever.

+1

[–]sh0ckley[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's why I used your format.

Oral this morning when I got back from the gym. whatever.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

+1



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