I've been lurking around mrp and I notices a trend, all the wives are total shitbeasts. They are just pushing their husbands around because they aren't alpha enough or whatever. What about my wife? She's super cool, relaxed and I don't take shit from her. The thing is, she gained 50 lbs immediately after we got married and slowly puts more on every month, and she whines about not having enough sex, but I don't find her very attractive any more plus I am running my own business so its easy to get absorbed in running it.
That's another thing, she's like a child in regards to time. We went on vacation and I promised I wouldn't do any work on vacation and now we're back I am trying to cram 2 weeks worth of work I'm one week and she's mopey and whiney about me being busy and I find it off putting and it makes me just not want to be around her. Not to mention she doesn't do anything around the house. Typing this out I am beginning to wonder am I the shitbeast in this relationship? Or do I need to just treat her like a child?
After we first got married I would go to the gym, do the laundry, clean the dishes, go to the gym, and spend 12+ hours at work outside. I was very verbal about it in hopes she would see how much I was doing and pick up slack but she never did. I would get text messages like "I was going to clean the house today but I just watched 10 episodes of HIMYM lol sorrrry! I'll do it tomorrow!" And I would respond showing my disapproval and then on day three when the house wasn't cleaned like she promised I would do it and yell at her, but not very constructively. I don't know, is MRP right for me? We don't have kids, and frankly I don't want any considering she's a child herself, which, indeed, does piss me off.