Advice on Active Dread

Sepean · 2016-06-24T22:16:37+00:00

If things are good, why do you want to use active dread?

cholomite · 2016-06-24T21:47:29+00:00

It's beta as fuck to let her know she's after your cock. You're an alpha, every girl is supposed to be after your cock. Why tell your wife about this one in particular?

Treat this female as a work friend and nothing more. I wouldn't advise getting drinks with her alone after work, unless you're cool with your wife doing the same with her hot male coworker.

Mention her in passing as it comes up, if you get work lunch together you can tell her about the good burger you ate or whatever, but don't ever lead on that you're aware she might want your dick. A female actively trying to spend time with you is more than enough of a message for your wife. She knows exactly what the female game is and what's going on in your coworkers mind. Any extra interjections or fluffing it up on your part will look desperate and pathetic.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-06-24T22:38:21+00:00

Lol, women are observant. If it happens, she will notice before you do.

Don't worry about it.

redpillnobody · 2016-06-24T23:58:40+00:00

You could also change the title to: Advice on Begging my Wife For Attention Like a Beta Pussy Faggot

Active dread will make you look like you're begging for attention. "Look at me, look at me, validate me because of X."

Passive dread is so much more powerful and does not have the side effect of being validation-seeking as fuck.

Relevant quote: "When you're in the end zone, act like you've been there before."

Alright so I'll be a little nicer. Active dread doesn't work well 99.999% of the time because it comes across as desperate and attention-seeking. Passive dread works ridiculously well because it comes across as natural and something that "just happens" because you're in public. The more you call attention to it, the less it means.

Chump_No_More · 2016-06-25T14:05:23+00:00

Is it a good dread tactic to let my wife know this girl is after my cock, or is it beta as fuck? I can see reasoning on both sides, but I want to get the expert's take on it

Dude, the fact that you're thinking about it is beta as fuck. The fact that you're asking us is beta as fuck.

Active dread is a beta move because you're in her frame... And be honest with yourself, the base motivation is a pathetic need for validation.

No worries, just take this as a sign that you have more work to do. Patience, Padawan... All in due time.

rpnow · 2016-06-27T20:06:29+00:00

Terrible idea. If dread isn't happening naturally, it's not really dread. "Women always find out." - Han Solo

Veritas76 · 2016-06-24T21:49:50+00:00

To let her know on purpose is beta as fuck in my opinion. It is like saying: "Look mom, some one else wants me... and you should too." or "Oh, someone else wants me, why not you? Please!?!?".

If you want to fuck that other girl, do it. If you don't, don't. It is not your wife's business.

Not an expert, just my 2 cents.

plein_old · 2016-06-24T23:51:19+00:00

omg I love this sub.

I agree with all the feedback: Beta af, Don't shit where you eat, Enjoy your light years better relationship. Done.

zbat · 2016-06-25T05:59:41+00:00

IT TUNES THE STEGARSAURUS 1896

stonepimpletilists · 2016-06-24T22:17:04+00:00

There is no reasoning on both sides. Depends what you mean by letting her know. If you have to tell her then forget it. If she sees it for herself at some event or other then that's a different thing entirely.

Also, don't be dicking down women that you work with unless you are up for finding another job.

ajmjmb · 2016-06-24T22:49:28+00:00

Ok. Very helpful and kind of what I expected. Much appreciated.

ajmjmb · 2016-06-25T00:20:32+00:00

Gotcha. I'd call that a consensus. Thanks.

Title	Advice on Active Dread
Author	ajmjmb
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	June 24, 2016 9:31 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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