I searched a couple of subs and didn't see any mention of sexting the wife. I understand texting for anything other than logistics is generally frowned upon but what about sexting? Do you any of use use it with your wife? Has it been successful/unsuccessful? Any tips, suggestions or advice?
In the 10 years I've been married I have never sexted her but have dropped subtle hints (ineffective) at times. This morning I'm sitting at work with a raging boner so sent the wife a short message about fucking her later tonight. She seemed surprised and receptive and I went radio silence since. The dead bedroom is much better lately and I'm owning more shit so this move today felt right. I'll report back tomorrow on how this played out.
UPDATE: No sexy time for me last night. As soon as we got home I got the preemptive "I'm tired, I'm bloated, the dog ate my homework, blah blah blah" and then our 2 years old was throwing tantrums all night. Had to endure an emotional shit storm of complaints and got hard denials that night and this morning.