Properly initiating

ford_contour · 2015-10-22T23:47:02+00:00

If she's saying you're terrible at romance, yet fucking with you regularly and you're both enjoying it, even though you have a toddler, I say you're good to go.

If you still want to improve, find a copy of the Sex God Method, and read it for yourself, not just for her.

Also, related field report - once you lift enough and lose the gut, "let's go for a quickie" or showing a boner is considered plenty romantic. Married or not, guys in great shape don't need as much game. And when there's a toddler in play, there's not going to be a ton of time for kino.

whinemoreplease · 2015-10-20T21:46:23+00:00

The times of day when it's an option (toddler naps/sleeps or is occupied) are fairly obvious

doesn't seem like initiating from an alpha frame. seems like initiating from a toddler's frame.

mrpCamper · 2015-10-21T14:53:31+00:00

Ok. So, first of all initiating sex is what she wants. Now, the first time you do this, you may need to experiment. Here is something I did one of the first times. It's very blue pill to red pill like a turtle coming out of the shell but it works. I started with a snuggle so we were close and I just concentrated on what I wanted until it was go time. Then, I rolled us both over so I'm on top of her and pushed her legs apart with my legs. Both still in pjs or whatever. Then grind on her. She will say things like "I'm tired" blah blah blah but don't respond. just keep doing it until you get a hard no. Which you probably won't get. After a bit of grinding she'll be ready for more.

mediamole · 2015-10-21T18:06:57+00:00

I remember reading the recent story where the prepped a sex alter (rose petals, candles, naked dude on bed) for his wife who had just come back from a business trip. I could only imagine her trying to go from exhausted to sexy in 10 seconds.

Instead of approaching her with a rager, there's nothing wrong with earlier kino to get her thinking sexy. A slow squeeze on the arm or breathy whisper will get her into a different mindset before you go in for the kill.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-10-23T02:41:54+00:00

What ways do you guys use that do not come off as "asking for sex" or base like "let's go for a quickie".

I like to just make eye contact and lock the bedroom door with an ominous click.

Also while she is distracting herself talking to you start rubbing her in those places very lightly. When she notices and tries to protest, put your finger over her lips. Then take her by the hand and lead her into the bedroom.

Title	Properly initiating
Author	DocHollaDay87
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	October 20, 2015 9:32 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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