Reading The way of men right now.

Amazon link : http://www.amazon.com/The-Way-Men-Jack-Donovan/dp/0985452307/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1410885485&sr=8-1&keywords=way+of+men

One of the best book and I was reading this part this morning and it blow my mind ... the other part of that rant about society is motivating as hell but it will be for another time.

''We are pretty good, however at imagining inventive ways to masturbate our primal natures with ''safe'' virtual, vicarious and abstract pleasures. Our society has almsost no tolerance for unsanctioned physical violence.

Children are expelled from school for fighting, and something as historically common as a weaponless, drunken brawl can land men in court or in jail.

As coalitions of females pandering politicians and fearful men organize to child-proof our world, to ban guns and regulate violent sports, men retreat to redoubts of virtual and vicarious masculinity like video games and fantasy football because it's all they have left.

People are also seeking out other non-violent forms of simulated risk and ''safe'' adventure. From skydiving and bungee-jumping to guided mountaineering and adventures races, men and women are coming up with more and more to simulate the primitive human experience.

Women and men have similar drives in different degrees, and what I've noticed while participating in 5ks and CrossFit and the ''Warrior Dash'' is that after the novelty of it wears off, attendance often becomes increasingly female.

While some women participate competitively, many more women enjoy these experiences socially and emotionally, stopping along the way to cheer and encourage their struggling sisters.

I get the sens that many husbands and boyfriends recognize the masturbatory, ''feel-good'' nature of these activities and shrug their shoulders, wondering why they would run through the mud in ninety degree heat for no good reason.

From an evolutionary standpoint it make sense that women would tend to prefer and be more satisfied with ''safe'' and ''fun'' risk simulation, while men would long for real competition, real risk, and the potential of real status gains.

The carefully orchestrated exercise rarely compares to the fantasy of virile action and meaningful risk.

In video games, at least men experience virtual death ''

http://imgur.com/QVEgNpM

And a good comparison chart of what we are becoming ... we could compare bonobos and our 21th century society but it would only be a copy-pasta ...