Concerning a girl's N count

Apexk9 · 2016-05-18T07:58:46+00:00

Stop asking for n count just go in blind and enjoy the ride.

raceAround126 · 2016-05-18T05:52:35+00:00

Being angry about her having more experience is not why I care about n-count.

When a girl has tonnes of dick, they become sexually apathetic. That is they can happily give it up at a moments notice. Sex is meant to be bonding and explosive. If she's already let a bunch of dudes up in her, her ability to pair-bond is severely weakened. Furthermore, her likelihood to cheat in an LTR is very much increased. Added to that, she will never be as sexual with a beta she's locking down as she was with those "other bad guys!"

The final issue with girls having higher n-count is physiologically they are more receptive to STDs simply due to the nature of sex; added to that the culpability of women to their actions today, the chances of you getting something off her is increased ten-fold.

The anger as you have explained it is mostly false. However, I have been in a room with a girl who had an LTR and realized that her new boyfriend was fully aware that I got up to some dirty shit with that girl. I don't care how you paint it, he's investing all the emotional time into her for most likely mediocre sex - you could see it written all over his face. Meanwhile, I happily banged the ever loving shit out of her on the regular and threw her out before I left for work. There's no man on earth who could ever feel good about that. Not that I threw it in his face or whatever.

mordanus · 2016-05-18T15:40:23+00:00

Deep in our minds is a programming code that controls our emotions. The dna strand is not just a construction blueprint, but also an operating system as well. Just like a spider is born with the knowledge of how to catch food by weaving its ass floss, you are programmed with the ability to detect if a woman is worth your time.

That revulsion you feel when a woman talks about fucking hundreds of dudes is your subconscious telling you that she would make a terrible wife and life partner. It's a revulsion at the concept of them thinking that they can trade their used up cooch for all that you have to offer. The guys that don't get this revulsion either have nothing to offer (extremely low smv) or they don't even think of giving anything in return (pua, bad boys etc)

mrpCamper · 2016-05-18T13:09:43+00:00

It has to do with the fact that I'm in my mid twenty's and only recently lost my virginity. I know it's wrong to dwell on the past but sweet lord.. I missed out on so many sluts. Can't change that. Gotta look ahead.

Dude, I spent my HS years with one hot good girl who was a virgin. I was devoted to her. I was a big shot Football stud and wasted all those opportunities to be with my one true love. She fucked me over. Football scholarship led to the same story in college although I'm sure that one rode many a cock in her HS. Was mostly in monk mode through graduate school in order to make a life for myself and my future family. Meanwhile, my future wife was probably riding the CC hard this whole time while I wasted mine on a small handful of good girls that eventually lost interest and Chadded up.

So, it is what it is. I discovered the truth that is red pill in my forties and look back at the waste. Anger phase passed. THEN, I MOVED ON TO THE NOW!

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LoL-Guru · 2016-05-18T13:19:49+00:00

Be happy that they are honest. Rarely is low N count an indicator of self control but rather a red flag to dishonesty. If you find a low N count girl who is attractive she either has to be an ugly duckling who only recently came into her looks or has an uncharacteristic level of self control/prudishness. If she takes warming up and wants to get to know you before sealing the deal this is a good sign. If she jumps into the sac and or frequents alcohol you've got conflicting evidence. Acta non-verba.

Your anger stems from expectations that don't service you. At this stage in your life just be happy to get any action you do get; stop worrying about her N count and be happy with the experience. You don't fully understand that LTR's are not realistic given the constant flux inherent to young people's lives. Nobody is settled into a home or job. The prospect of trying to build a long term investment in one of your college lays is unwise and inadvisable.

I get it man, you want to find someone worthy of your time and worthy of long term investment for a return later in the form of a family. Times have changed; invest in yourself now and indulge in the experience of college.

Carbone · 2016-05-18T04:33:46+00:00

Keep searching, raise your standard. I found a Virgin in my mid twenty.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-05-18T14:48:13+00:00

Most of them lie to you anyway. Specially the ones who want to LTR you. Who fucking cares. N count is important if you want a girl to bond to you- and who the hell wants that anymore.

soccerbum312 · 2016-05-18T14:52:29+00:00

Why even talk about that? I've never brought that up. Don't ask, don't tell and focus on you.

uxeazy · 2016-05-18T04:34:10+00:00

Why do you care about her n-count?

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-05-18T15:32:29+00:00

There was this viral video of a girl blowing 24 dudes in a club. She probably went on later that night to fuck as many of these guys as possible, who knows.

Do you know what her n-count is today? She will claim 0 because none of those actions in the video counts. This is an example of why guys avoid girls with high n-counts.

LiquidZebra · 2016-05-18T19:07:32+00:00

Just 15? Is this what she told you? If so, this most likely means 45

Wintercrow · 2016-05-18T16:31:14+00:00

This is the Chasing Amy syndrome, nothing you can do about it man.

Sam1490 · 2016-05-18T20:41:46+00:00

There are studies done on women with high n counts are much more likely to divorce. I don't care for girls I fuck, but if she has any ltr potential it's a big deal.

kazizza · 2016-05-19T00:21:22+00:00

Seems like a doofus-ass reason to be angry. I mean, "absolutely beside yourself"? Try getting a damn grip on yourself.

"It's how I feel, can't change that." ... You sure you're not a woman?

ecosci · 2016-05-19T01:58:00+00:00

What most guys hate is when she says i dont do those gross things anymore with her ltr or marriage but did it all for the alphas and it has nothing to do with her age and maturity level she still will do it all for them but her best should be with the committed man in her life so if she holds back let sweetie pie know this and dont accept it, this has nothing to do with being jealous but respect.

MUTHAFATHAGENTLEMAN · 2016-05-18T07:29:19+00:00

IKR it's so unfair, we have to work while they just spread their legs. The anger is understandable, but don't dwell in it.

ChelseaSchmelsea · 2016-05-18T08:40:01+00:00

15 men when she's 18 isn't that many. She would have fucked approximately six men a year if she started at 15 which is very standard in this day and age. That's approximately one man every two months. People like sex. Getting an orgasm and some company once every two months doesn't seem slutty. It actually doesn't seem like very much compared to what people in their 20's do. Most women will have sex by the third date which usually happens in a month so you didn't miss out on anything. It's not like she was passing it around to strangers. So don't be angry. That's average.

fridaykiller19 · 2016-05-18T04:21:47+00:00

Haha we have a girl at work who is 17 and is on nr 25 my mate is currently dating her.

Title	Concerning a girl's N count
Author	alritealritealrite
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Date	May 18, 2016 3:48 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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