Our first conversation he told me that he had paid for 2 abortions while he was in college. They were his. Okay, I'm not here to judge. That was 15 years ago. Sounds like you have matured.

Three months later he told me he didn't like having sex with a condom on. That was our last conversation.

Now I am here to judge because what he really just told me was that he values his pleasure over a woman's safety (of her body, her mental well-being and her reproductive future).