Why are many women not up for casual sex? (especially post wall women)

Talinor09 · 2019-02-17T03:24:34+00:00

Read some game books. This is last minute resistance/anti-slut defence. You have to give them an excuse, i.e it has to be your fault that something happens.

If it was say Chris Hemsworth in her bed do you think she would be worrying about her n-count?

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-02-17T05:02:20+00:00

See: Dual concurrent Mating strategy.

Women invented the idea of casual sex with alphas. They're not up for casual sex with with you. Your SMV, fame and notoriety isn't high enough, or they're just not attracted to you.

Commitment and loyalty benefits men more than it benefits women.

Startlivingfornow · 2019-02-17T04:16:43+00:00

They are up for it. You need to learn game.

Women want to fuck and be slutty while not looking like a slut.

Nomfwic · 2019-02-17T06:26:17+00:00

Failed to pass her LMR.

Do you even side bar bro?

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-02-17T08:05:44+00:00

What you've left out, is what you said/did between 'we can hang out in a friendly way' and 'fuck myself'.

Maybe you didn't counter her ASD and LMR well.

She's trying to have your time and attention, and seeing if she can do it without meeting your needs. She's basically pulling you into HER frame.

With the right tools, you can acknowledge the ASD, but still set a sexual frame.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2019-02-17T08:08:10+00:00

Girls at whall aind girla anymore. They are desperate women who need bux. A beta bux. As bux i mean comfort, security and kids. Its their last chance and they dont have time for guys who cant make up their mind. As you are young guy u want to just eant sex. And its totally fine. But they smell it. Its just their clock is ticking so loudly in their head at age of 30 that to fuck her casually you really need to be top notch alpha. Its just nature.

atticusfinch1973 · 2019-02-17T08:46:46+00:00

Post wall women are craving commitment but if you're attractive enough are even MORE up for casual sex.

Brush up on your game.

Just1515 · 2019-02-17T10:01:27+00:00

You just didn’t handle lmr well. 21 and a 30 year old? She wouldn’t have seen anything long term possible. Unless you signaled too many beta traits (doesn’t mean she wants to bb you but can mean she wont AF), you coulda just handled it.

Likely her froends influenced this somewhat.

I would have just said “i cant think of anything else to do right now” or such, and calmly said you were gonna go “x” instead and would catch her another time. Then you leave.

If she doesn’t pull you back in then thats fine too.

Now if u have two choices. Ignore her a bit till she initiates again and see, or flirt with a friend of hers in a plausible way. Be friendly or be seen alone with one by her.

Good luck

Vikingcel · 2019-02-17T15:49:41+00:00

That was just lmr.

ArchsofArch · 2019-02-17T07:39:45+00:00

Women reject kids, children, babies for all kind of reasons. Post wall women probably do the same. All women probably do the same.

zboo1h · 2019-02-18T00:30:39+00:00

They're all DTF for the right guy. That wasn't you for that particular hoe. Why?

Maybe she has unrealistic expectations for herself.

Maybe since she's an old hag she is looking for a beta to drain of resources and you gave her mixed signals.

Maybe this or that, whatever.

Stop concerning yourself with WHY when it comes to women, it's a waste of time.

Kick her out your bed and go talk to others.

2comment · 2019-02-17T11:00:29+00:00

If you're gaming considerably older women, that already sends a signal of desperation...

She definitely was dtf, if sbe's in bed with you, you just got tangled up in lmr.

feedthecatcomics · 2019-02-17T13:59:50+00:00

Your in bed with her. Your kissing. "I want you so badly." Touch and kiss more "Your so sexy" Touch and kiss more "Generic sexytime statement" Touch closer to erogenous zones. The other comments here are shit tbh :/

[deleted] · 2019-02-17T10:42:35+00:00

Can you provide her with a house, car, and baby? No? Then why should she waste her precious time? She don't wanna fuck you coz you have nothing to offer. Allowing her self to be impregnated by a spotty teen is not a good move.

Your cock is not that fascinating. Although many women are up for casual sex, you need to understand that without a connection, & the investment of time, energy and money - many are not.

You guys keep banging on about ASD crap, but the truth is not all women are lose hoes who relish the dick of a complete stranger.

TLDR: she don't wanna sex you coz she don't know you and you have nothing to offer.

Title	Why are many women not up for casual sex? (especially post wall women)
Author	Marcus-Licinius
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Date	February 17, 2019 3:18 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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