Women treat dating apps like chat roulette, agree or disagree?

mallardcove · 2019-03-25T01:19:10+00:00

A lot of truth to it. But at the same time it doesn't hurt to try.

Many men don't even try. I think every girl is open to meeting up with the right guy they come across on a dating app. You have to be that guy. I've been successful on Tinder and Bumble. You have to stand out and be different, not just in photos but in how you have conversations once you match. Most guys are too predictable, slow, deliberate, and boring.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-03-25T06:18:48+00:00

I've had success...but this has been my own personal conclusions...take what you will...

Fuck internet dating. There is something, to me, that just doesn't gel with my frame. Every effort to take a better photo, come up with an 'opener', say the right shit, all makes me feel like I'm hugely approval seeking. That's all time and effort I would rather spend on improving my value and smv in real life. Time for mission.

After the shit I have done, seen and survived in my life, I flat out REFUSE to try win the approval of some random bitch, comparing me to a bunch of guys who wouldn't have 1/4 of the frame I have.

Now, some guys will tell me I'm coping, or blah blah blah. Zero fucks given. I KNOW that if I took better photos and took the perfect selfie of me falling out of a plan, shirtless, with cash streaming out of my pocket...I'd get laid.

You know what also gets me laid...being one of the few mothefuckers with a REAL LIFE frame strong enough to approach and have women. I can do so much more in real life, and you gotta play to your strengths.

I don't Tinder, so its up to me to have a solution to creating new options. So I attack real life.

I grew up in the 90's, before this crap came about. I feel bad for dudes who have social media ingrained in them.

IF you have the right pics, and women are hitting YOU up, read OmLaLa's Guide to Tinder. Give it a search. He rocked it.

Otherwise...build and build what you can do in real life. That'll make you, much more than Tinder. Return of Kings, cousin.

anonymouz333 · 2019-03-25T03:40:19+00:00

True. I just had a tinder match that I forgot about we matched like last week ago it said, she messaged me today with hey boo

And I replied with some witty shit, and she continues back and forth with one word or short answers not being fun so I was like

What you trying too do? She said what?

I say You're being boring so I thought you was just trying to fuck

Then she sends me a paragraph like when did I say I would have sex with anyone blah blah blah shit test

I reply back with a simple ok

She replys, like what

I reply , what

She unmatched lmao

Bitch wasn't bout too use me for validation

(I held frame like a g)

HurricaneHugues · 2019-03-25T05:18:26+00:00

I wouldn't know. I unmatch if they're not receptive and with the shits.

Scorchyy · 2019-03-25T14:07:35+00:00

Check tinder subreddit and you’ll realize it within seconds. But we can’t blame women, it’s literally impossible to talk to 100 different guys and do a decent conversation, one word answers are already very time consuming when you need to send them to 20 different people

Thotasaurus_Rex · 2019-03-25T02:39:26+00:00

Disagree. I find it very easy to get girls to meet you irl.

mrpoopistan · 2019-03-25T04:15:24+00:00

I tend to take a "pain in the ass" approach to chats. I've found that weeds them out pretty quickly.

Then again, I am a pain in the ass to deal with, so it's mostly truth in advertising.

thebestpossible · 2019-03-25T12:52:59+00:00

Dating apps are mostly entertainment for any woman of quality

bcool87 · 2019-03-26T00:43:47+00:00

Tinder seemed to fall off a bit when I hit 30 (I'm 31 now), but Hinge is still a goldmine for me. When I compare my conversations to many of my friends (and we're mostly a socially aware bunch), it's night and day. They're being far too serious, far too literal, and far too slow. When a girl says "hi how are you?" there's no way I'm answering that seriously. If a girl asks me my sign as part of some arbitrary screening process, I'm not answering that seriously either. I just have fun, out banter the so called fans of "witty banter" and get to the number and logistics ASAP. Should online dating be your only pipeline? No way. But it's been a steady supplement for at least half a decade now for me.

throwitdownman · 2019-03-25T19:03:00+00:00

What the fuck has the sub degraded into. Women treat dating apps as a way to find attractive men to have sex with / date. It is, and always will be, the primary reason people use dating apps. It’s why it’s called a dating app.

If you think women are on there solely to chat, you’re batshit insane. The chatting is FILLER, it’s the way to pass time before she swipes someone she wants to fuck. It’s like saying people buy video games in order to play the mini-games. Fuck sake, the mini-games may be fun but people buy games to play the actual game.

You might as well make a post saying ‘most women go to nightclubs, dressed skimpy, and have girls night outs solely for attention, not looking to hook up ’. Some of you belong in that incel sub-reddit. Insane.

Title	Women treat dating apps like chat roulette, agree or disagree?
Author	soundnpound
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Date	March 25, 2019 1:09 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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