'The Fear of Being Alone Has Ruined Modern Dating' huffingtonpost is attacking MGTOW and Sandman

IoSonCalaf · 2015-06-11T17:24:38+00:00

"Have you made an effort to look as good as she does?" This was my favorite line. The author just assumes that women look better than men.

ubercoolhipsterguy · 2015-06-11T22:18:27+00:00

1.People who are afraid to be alone are ruining dating.

2.???

3.It's the fault of men who don't care about being alone.

I think the Hamster wheel spun so fast on this one that the axle snapped and the wheel ran over some stray dogs down the street.

MattyAnon · 2015-06-11T17:42:32+00:00

He told me horror stories of his and his friend's attempts to strike up conversations with women, often received with rudeness, humiliating responses, and in one case, a blood-splattering punch to the jaw.

The HuffPo editors actually allowed that information to be read? I'm heading outside to check for pigs in the sky.

FortunateBum · 2015-06-11T21:40:09+00:00

This is not natural, it is learned.

The ironic thing about this argument is that it says women have chosen to be "beautiful" and subsequently chosen to act bitchy.

If a woman didn't want to be a bitch, she could not wear makeup, dress down, and then just be a nice person. According to this argument, she's chosen to be a bitch. You have to ask why a woman would choose that. Once you've answered that question, you have to ask why all men aren't MGTOW.

In other words, you've got 90% of the female population who've chosen a life of outright sadism, and people wonder where MGTOW comes from?

If society eased up on its pressure for people to couple, I don't think we'd be having this conversation. This social expectation keeps people frustrated and unhappy, so why do we allow it? If we ditch the idea and free ourselves from the pressure, maybe there will be fewer pickup artists, less gender violence, and fewer frustrated single men.

Oh, you mean like MGTOW?

I don't even know what to think anymore. People talking in circles within circles within circles. It's like people just write propaganda to write propaganda. It's propagandas all the way down.

wakethfkupneo · 2015-06-11T22:09:11+00:00

Rightful shiny knights will never learn there's no bad publicity. The more they send people to clever guys like Sandman, the more people will be outraged and/or intrigued, then discuss with others, which then also get intrigued and on and on.

Meanwhile on Google Trends: http://i.imgur.com/xQa44O9.png

MattyAnon · 2015-06-11T20:57:39+00:00

The article is full of "men are wrong" as well as "women are only like this because society".

MTGOW? Wrong and "vile" in her words.

Women? That's all hamstered away under "Women's social pressures".

Electric_Romeo · 2015-06-11T23:42:19+00:00

The founder, known as Sandman

I didn't know we voted Sandman the MGTOW president. He is a person expressing his views and you may or may not share his views.

sits safely behind his computer screen and proclaims his bitter, indiscriminate hate towards women, according to his videos I've watched. Sandman says that all women are manipulative whores and liars; he slut-shames, fat-shames, and age-shames women

Ad hominem, ad hominem, ad hominem. If Sandman was so terrible then finding an example of this despicable behaviour of his cannot be so hard, yet she provides none. Go try and prove Sandman wrong; you'll find out that Sandman is right 95% of the time....

aptway · 2015-06-11T21:44:16+00:00

The first comment destroys the article- well played, sir:

It's important to consider perspective here. Men may not consider the tricky social position women find themselves in: we're the targets of constant male attention, desire, and sometimes aggression."

Maybe it is time for women to consider the tricky social position MEN find themselves in: expected to make the first move, but unless they happen to look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney or drive a Porsche, it can be downright dangerous for a man to try and pick up a woman without being charged with sexual harassment - because let's face it ladies: IT AIN’T EASY approaching someone when you DON'T look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney and are NOT driving a Porsche. Ah, you’re the “targets of constant male attention and desire ” … but then when you wear skimpy skirts and plunging necklines, if the guy stares he might find himself in jail or socially humiliated by some harridan yelling at him for “being sexist and staring at my body” And if it is in the office and he dares actually to say “That’s a nice blouse” that the woman spent a week finding to make sure it would show her off to perfection… well, when the man notices and says so – he might find himself in trouble with HR or with the boss. And why? Because he isn’t Brad Pitt or George Clooney. Because if he WERE one of these guys - at the office, on the street, at the swimming pool – the ladies would be only too happy to be noticed. Approached. Stared at and talked to.

It is the ordinary schmuck with ordinary looks and an ordinary haircut and an ordinary bank account that bloody well better be careful of what he says, and when and to whom.

Because in the end, it is ALWAYS the male who is at fault, right?

Like the writer says: PERSPECTIVE. How come so few women have any?

I’ve got a great suggestion. As of today, NO man is ever to approach a lady or try and pick her up. HE has to wait to be noticed, and HE is the one who gets to be wined and dined at HER expense. Then at least she can no longer complain that “He got me drunk…”

Then the women will only get the attention of those they WANT it from.

Problem solved.

Except that it isn’t, because women will still want all the advantages without any of the disadvantages. They want perfection for themselves, and if the guys aren’t happy, well, who cares?

Like I said… perspective.

Kill_Your_Ego · 2015-06-11T20:39:03+00:00

She has nothing to offer a man so the only thing left for her to do is attack men.

beachbloke · 2015-06-11T18:02:45+00:00

ITT, Woman admits all women do messed up stuff to men, blames it on men. That's some hamstering right there.

tomysotomayorfuxboys · 2015-06-11T20:01:48+00:00

We're not bragging, but we know that men will always want us and we usually have the choice whether to couple or not, especially if we're good-looking.

This is true, but looks fade with age, and when looks fade the pickings of men will get much slimmer.

This, and the influence of media that seems to reward and normalize bitch behaviour can create legions of women who say, Yeah, I'm all that, and you have to work for it.

There are tons of women who have nothing to offer but demand everything. I wonder how they'll feel when they're old and men don't want them anymore? Its not like they're bringing anything to the table besides their looks.

CoriolanusRevisited · 2015-06-11T22:42:41+00:00

The only truth she said overtly is that nightclub cold approaching in your 40s is a losing proposition, gents

[deleted] · 2015-06-12T15:03:59+00:00

What do you have going for you? Have you made an effort to look as good as she does? What could you improve?

Bitch please. You don't want to play the "who has invested more time into their personal development" game with me.

AmazingAndy · 2015-06-12T04:11:58+00:00

it seems strange to excuse female behavior because its learned, whist attacking male behavior which is also learned as a consequence of female behavior?

8n0n · 2015-06-12T08:20:31+00:00

Interesting how her chosen platform to attack someone else for comments from 'safely behind his computer screen' is sourced safely behind "her" computer screen.

Title	'The Fear of Being Alone Has Ruined Modern Dating' huffingtonpost is attacking MGTOW and Sandman
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