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They finally admitted it...

RedPillWisdom
August 22, 2014
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Title They finally admitted it...
Author

RedPillWisdom
Upvotes 81
Comments 43
Date August 22, 2014 6:13 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ear27/they_finally_admitted_it/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/they-finally-admitted-it.228546
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Comments

[–]1kick6 56 points57 points58 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Biggest chunk of redpill wisdom:

People who have had many relationships prior to their current one can compare a present partner to their prior partners in many areas—like conflict management, dating style, physical attractiveness, sexual skills, communication ability, and so on. Marriage involves leaving behind other options, which may be harder to do with a lot of experience.

And this is perfectly logical. Even a bluepiller has to be able to bite on that.

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–]1kick6 15 points16 points17 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

What does a woman's unhappiness in marriage correlating with high partner count have to do with mine?

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–]semondemon24 12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I hope you get banned from this sub. You are very annoying.

[–]ModMachiavellianRed[M] 13 points14 points15 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He is banned. Thanks for all the reports.

[–]sway_usa 11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What kind of gold was he saying? I'm curious.

[–]TestosteroneFilled 22 points23 points24 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I'd put this pic in the sidebar even. It shows alot.

Here's the source .

[–]frag95 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm curious, why does the percentage increase when it goes from 3 partners to 4?

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's what we call a "statistical outlier". It is irrelevant, because it doesn't buck the overall downward trend.

[–]RedPillWisdom[S] 23 points24 points25 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They denied and equivocated and excused. The cock carousel does not affect anything, get over it stupid male...

But now, the truth is revealed.

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]RedPillWisdom[S] 11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Do what you want, just don't risk marriage with a party girl. When they start having to admit it themselves, the illusion is ready to collapse. We are approaching "Peak Slut".

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The report that the blog post was based on is worth reading through, too. One interesting thing is that their conclusions are based on the top 40% of marriages. In other words, the statistics that show the damage from female premarital sex are taken from the happiest marriages. It makes me wonder what the worst look like.

[–]humankin 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Seriously? That's immensely important. Did they completely ignore the methodology section or something?

[–]TRP VanguardtrpSenator 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Higher income. (Median income was 20-30K).

What? Seriously? That's like 12 bucks an hour.

[–]FaithfulJinn 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The average income in the US is 43k a year before taxes.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Hey that's good money for single moms! Its almost what she made as a stripper before the stretch marks.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

LOL Strippers make way more than $12/hr

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know, even the ugly flat chested girls do better than $12.

[–]JovianTrainWreck 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe I'm a pessimist, but I'm willing to bet this article goes mostly ignored or unnoticed. The general BP world has a facade to keep up after all.

As for all those present here, you may continue your slow clap.

[–]roe_ 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

The irony of HUS being linked approvingly from here is delicious.

[–]RedPillWisdom[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Mosey on over and watch the hamsters hamsting...

[–]fizolof 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Who's "they"? People have been aware of that for millenias. It's been only recently that feminism created the myth that slutting up means empowerment.

[–]b34nz 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

I almost feel as-if a lot of these are bonuses. I want her to compare me to others because I am superior in almost all ways to previous boy friends. If we break up, or I leave her, or she leaves me, I want her to look back and think "What have I done...". Add to that we are both in our 30's now, with each year her prospects continue to decline while mine rise.

So please, make a list. Compare often and thoroughly. I encourage it.

[–]xcaptnwigglesx 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If all of her partners are clearly inferior to you, you're dating below your ability.

[–]humankin 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Or she was dating below hers. The best deals are those that correct the market.

[–]xcaptnwigglesx 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, but it's either ALL of her previous relationships were below hers, or this one relationship is below his. Great point either way.

[–]humankin 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's true, it is unlikely. I'd hazard that OP's skill in finding a high-quality LTR woman factors in too. It's possible he has rejected all women that didn't have this imbalance by filtering on some proxy much as is proselytized here.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That's exactly what I like to hear. Sometimes its a week, sometimes a year, but they all have said exactly that. Its not easy being this awesome.

[–]Olipyr 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Its not easy being this awesome.

Yes, it is. :P

It's a lot easier than not being awesome.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Its a lot better being awesome. If I'm feeling bad, I go be awesome instead, NPH gave me that advice and it works.

[–]Ymeynotu 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But...but this kind of talk is crazy!

Theres no difference between the sexes, none at all!!!!

This study doesn't really say that the more likely a woman is to fuck a bunch of guys the less likely she will be good marriage material. Wait, it does say that!

Oh and that guys that fuck around a lot are unaffected? HoHoHo.

Obviously this is because patriarchy.

/s

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There you go, gents. If you "marry" these hoes, you're sick in the fucking head. Science is science. The more cock they take, the higher her expectations of future cock, even if that expectation is not humanly attainable. I guess if you're a black guy with a massive cock who sees benefit in wifing up a white girl, then go for it. All others...

DO. NOT. MARRY.

[–]Locastor 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You left out "colossally wealthy, more highly-educated at more prestigious institutions than she is, very desirable to other women" among other traits.

There is no pleasing them.

[–]Science_isthenewcool2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Can't wait to see what the blue pill makes of this ;) They'll probably just ignore it.

[–]Kaltano1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The more results of studies of this nature I see the more obvious it is that the societies that are socially restrictive of women's sexual behavior are structured by older men and women that are just trying to save younger women from themselves.

[–]solariant -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would not take that site too seriously. They also have a study which concludes "Egalitarian marriages [Where men and women contribute equally to housework and income] are more sexual".

[+]RufusFlywheel -27 points-26 points-25 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

But men can of course fuck as many women as possible before 'settling down' and it has no affect on marital happiness, right?

[–]RedPillWisdom[S] 36 points37 points38 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually, that is exactly what the article says. Reality can be a motherfucker.

[–]1kick6 21 points22 points23 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Directly from the fucking article you failed to read

Men did not report significantly lower marital quality as their number of sexual partners increased.

The truth...it burns.

[–]humankin 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Its possible that a husband's partner count correlates with the wife being unhappy but the husband being unaffected. That being said, it wouldn't make sense to hold out for that evidence before switching stance unless ones prior is pretty far skewed.

[–]Soultrane92 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Oh it has. It has a positive effect on it.

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