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Rational Male : Male Space

scottishredpill

June 4, 2014
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Title Rational Male : Male Space
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scottishredpill

Upvotes 53
Comments 30
Date June 4, 2014 11:48 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/27a8nh/rational_male_male_space/
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Comments

[–]Scymnus 34 points35 points36 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Something I learned is that you should never EVER let females take over your social circle. They'll rip it to shreds with drama and destabilizing the male relationships. I've seen it countless times, girls come into a social group and suddenly all the guys feel like they have to one-up each other. They'll create drama to make the whole group focus on them instead of the goals of the group.

Having a few females around for pre-selection is always nice, but be sure that they are the timid ones instead of openly attention-whores.

[–]kempff 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, tldr: bible study, all divorced 50-somethings with kids.

Never again, only all-men bible studies from now on.

[–]comefromspace3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

when you don't keep your bitches in check that is your problem, not theirs.

[–]Scymnus 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think you're underestimating the manipulative nature of women. If they see you as a threat to their agenda they will do anything to crush you.

[–][deleted] 53 points54 points55 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I think this phenomenon (the female drive to infiltrate male spaces) is best displayed through that Dutch Survivor Island TV show where they separated the men and women. The women had everything to gain by joining the male tribe. The men were hardworking and motivated and resources abounded. In a word, the male tribe was prosperous. Meanwhile the men didn't have much to gain by joining the female tribe. The women were lazy and self-indulgent, and they had almost no resources (not even a hut!) In a word, the female tribe was stagnant.

When it comes to male survival it is better for men to recruit women to their own tribe than it is for men to join the female tribe. And when it comes to female survival it is better for women to infiltrate the male tribe than it is to entice men to join their tribe. Everything revolves around the male tribe.

Now I'm a proponent of evo-psych and I think most of the stupid shit people do can be explained through primitive fears and drives that served some purpose many thousands of years ago. I think women have a fundamental drive to install themselves into male tribes. This would have kept women alive a long time ago but now it just makes them annoying.

Now infiltrating male spaces is one thing, but I think we're all really annoyed by the feminization of these spaces as a result of female attendance. I think that this is as much the fault of men as women and is a result of gynocentricity. The women who have been most successful in passing on their genes have been those who prioritized their own safety, comfort, and well-being at the expense of others (especially men).

So when a woman infiltrates a male space and demands that the space conform to her, she is only following her biological imperative to A. Situate herself in a prosperous male tribe, and B. Prioritize her own safety, comfort, and well-being at the expense of the other members of that tribe.

It's great to have spaces like this where women hold no sway over the masculine atmosphere and those who do try to voice their opinions on how we should feminize our space get taunted and exiled.

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[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just grunt harder eventually they'll get uncomfortable enough and run way. /s

[–]Modredpillschool 19 points20 points21 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's great to have spaces like this where women hold no sway over the masculine atmosphere and those who do try to voice their opinions on how we should feminize our space get taunted and exiled.

But you can see their attempts.. over and over and over again.

Even men giving into outside pressures.. "hey guys, why don't we turn down the misogyny/language so people won't think so poorly of us."

Why do you think the stigma exists? We're men, doing what men want to do, and when all other attempts failed, women are using shame to try to break in and temper our discussion.

It won't happen though. Not on my watch.

[–]Modredpillschool 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh also I forgot.

When it comes to male survival it is better for men to recruit women to their own tribe than it is for men to join the female tribe. And when it comes to female survival it is better for women to infiltrate the male tribe than it is to entice men to join their tribe. Everything revolves around the male tribe.

♂

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[–]OsoFeo 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Just like any other male space, the manosphere is subject to all the sanitization efforts of the Feminine Imperative I’ve outlined in this post – by both women and men who still ascribe to feminine-primacy.

I've noticed efforts of some in r/MR to try to distance themselves from r/TPR. Presumably the unconscious motive is to sanitize the manosphere for feminine acceptablity.

[–]1FloranHunter 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Used to be MR rebuffed attempts by new members to work with feminists on feminism's terms since that has for decades meant nothing gets done for men and boys. Now? Those comments don't get lambasted. Fucking shame.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The big difference betwen MRAs and TRP (even though there is some overlap between the two).

MRA's generally whine like women and want things changed to suit them. Thus they want to appeal to everyone (including feminists to an extent by sanitized language)

TRP generally kick their own ass and lift themselves up to greatness. We are blunt as fuck... If we come across a woman who acts like a cunt we're going to call her a stupid cunt. Not 'bossy' not 'strong independent womyn(tm)', etc...

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Look at the pathetic shithole that is /r/seduction. "Always leave her in a better place than you found her". A sad shell of what it once was.

[–]comefromspace7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It goes deeper than that. There are no female spaces, not because of some oppression, but because women are not wired to create groups of shallow relationships. But then again all humans, including women, get a dopamine kick when they feel they "belong" somewhere. Women always wanted to be in male spaces, primarily because they admire and want to follow men. In contrast, women's groups are weak, with constant backstabbing, lack of leadership/hierarchy and in general they are not productive. Women socialize differently, they need validation, and are more persistent manipulators, but that occurs in 1-1 relationships.

The lack of male spaces in western culture is the raison d'etre of TRP. In fact, TRP is a male space, exactly because its antifeminist nature keeps women away.

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[–]comefromspace6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

pushing through their agenda.

A very unproductive agenda indeed. And lets not kid ourselves, when the feminist frenzy hits the wall and crashes, men will be called again to pick up the pieces.

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You assume that the feminists responsible were women.

[–]consumer_of_fungy 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good article as usual, I wish I can contribute some of my ideas on this topic but it's late and I need sleep. I'll link a fantastic piece on woman entering male spaces from an evolutionary perspective which may add to this topic.

Woman's Primordial Fear

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Reminds me of this book:

'The Way of Men'

http://www.jack-donovan.com/axis/2012/03/the-way-of-men-masculinity-explained/

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Reminds me if the time Jezebel made asses of themselves by bitching that the Daily Show had no female writers on their staff. The shot fired back was brilliant: Jezebel demands equality except for themselves where it's okay to have all female staff.

Women demand resources and security from these all male groups, nothing else. It's perfectly fine for them to gate themselves away from men but if men do it, it's like some kind of atrocity is being committed. Ideally, they set up a situation like most coed gyms today: 90% of the space is for both genders, 10% is reserved for women only, but both genders pay the same fees (so women are subsidized essentially)

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[–]ADrunkenmonkey 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Posting links to garbage sites like Jezebel is frowned upon because it gives them traffic and revenue. Links to sites like therationalmale are ok for the same reason.

[–]TheRationalMale.comRollo-Tomassi 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't actually generate revenue from links, but the encouragement I get from my traffic is priceless.

[–]2elysius 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What is a ROTC Unit?

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]2elysius 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks, and good luck!

[–]bama79rolltide 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"It’s an easy task to set men against each other when they perceive sexual rivals to be part of an out-group, and feminine influence in male space fosters this passive (sometimes active) infighting amongst men. Disrupting male bonding, or even the potential for it, limits men’s potential to unify in their own interests and their own imperatives. There are many in-group examples of all male space where this infighting and resentment plays out – it’s important to understand that male-exclusive forms of communication, testing, encouragement and shit talking, are in no way limited to just the locker room. Even guys in the chess club will give each other shit – at least until the Feminine Imperative inserts itself there."

That was the most important thing to read.

[–]1neveragoodtime 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Imagine a hamburger joint that allowed Chinese food to infiltrate it's menu. Would the hamburgers or Chinese be better from this cultural blending? Chinese food is good, hamburgers are good. But they have entirely different flavors, and I can't imagine it would be successful. Sometimes guys want a hamburger, it's not a rejection of Chinese.

And the "culture" slur is interesting, I thought all cultures were supposed to be equivalent in the progressive feminist view. But implying rapists share a culture with each other who get together Tuesday's for bowling, and making a moral argument that one culture is better than others seems rather ethnocentric. Perhaps ethnocentrism is the social equivalent of solipsism in feminism.

[–]Angelsrflamabl 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I do find a difference in mentality between women who want to be in the club and want to meet its standards... and women who want to change the standards so they can be in the club.

Though the "that is offensive to say!" shit has been getting to me. Calm the fuck down. I will insult every person in the room before I am done, and they will all insult me. Most of us will laugh about it. THe people who get butt hurt won't be invited back, gender be damned.

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