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The Rising Epidemic Of Cheating Wives Who Want “Freedom”

Doomsday_

April 13, 2014
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Title The Rising Epidemic Of Cheating Wives Who Want “Freedom”
Author

Doomsday_

Upvotes 115
Comments 46
Date April 13, 2014 6:22 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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Comments

[–][deleted] 33 points34 points35 points 12 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

poor guy. He thought he had life nailed then he finds out this thing.

It's always good to be reminded why marriage is a terrible idea these days.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Endorsed ContributorCrimsonCapsule 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

They want what all women want. Seems like the main difference is that they're trying to keep some alpha traits in their men by limiting premarital cock rides, helping their men hold frame, cooking, sex, and femininity.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Well-said.

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Edit: It's been said before, but it is worth repeating: RPW is a subreddit devoted to women's strategies for getting what they want. But if we acknowledge that men and women are different, and that their wants are different, we must also recognize that their strategies for getting what they want are going to look different as well.

I would encourage any Red Pill man here to spend some time lurking in RPW for awhile and see how women are also putting their own theories to the test and embracing their gender roles as they make new realizations.

[–]Upvote Me!trpbot[M] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Rescan, bitch.

[–]Roy_G_Biv 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Woops, wrong thread.

[–]assinmygenes 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I saw your posts over there while browsing yesterday. I'm pretty disappointed in their responses but you handled yourself well.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]assinmygenes -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Truth.

I was very concerned getting married even pre-TRP. Now I'm considering a legal divorce simply to cover my ass a little more. So far as I'm concerned she and I can keep the title, the rings, etc. I simply want the corrupt system to stay out of it as much as possible.

There are still plenty of ways for women to fuck men over, It's just a shame that men are duped into willingly allowing themselves to be fucked, often multiple times.

[–]Doomsday_[S] 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Some highlights:

wife recently told me that I have been in an “open marriage” for three years . . . Open marriage, as in, you date who you want and I date who I want, but let’s just keep it on a “Don’t ask, Don’t tell” basis. The only problem is that I was never apprised of the new, now 3-year-old, status of our marital arrangement. How did I just recently find out that I was in an open relationship you ask? Well my wife told me so.

my buddy found that his faithful wife of ten years, whom he had plucked from abject poverty and placed into Atlanta’s socialite scene, was madly head over heels crazy for the company’s… security guard.

An 8-year marriage of a deputy ended when he caught his partner in bed with his wife. Result: No shooting, just a divorce and three confused kids.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My personal favorite, his delusion is extremely strong here as he is desperately trying to cling what his perceived ideal life was.

My wife and I are currently in counseling. The scars of my wife’s recent revelations are rippling throughout our personal and business relationships at breakneck speed.

[–]thecajunone 19 points20 points21 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Hoes gonna hoe. Woman don't share our concept of loyalty. They will do anything in the heat of the moment then justify it later.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They also all have the uncanny ability to make their adultery your fault for some reason, absolving them of all guilt and responsibility.

[–]JD42305 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Either it's that you give them too much attention and it's unattractive or you neglected them and they needed the attention they deserve.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

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[–]yea_tht_dnt_go_there 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Were they admitting it or propositioning you?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

The way I see it, they were never "good" to begin with.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points23 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No no no... you don't get it.

They are ALL good girls, but the bad man corrupted them by "forcing" them to drink too much alcohol, etc. They had no control over being horrible sluts because hypoagency. Have some damn empathy!

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

BS. She knew why the guy was buying her a drink, and she knew where it would lead. Women or not, they're adults and are responsible for their actions.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jokes, nigga. Learn to get them.

[–]iseeyou1312 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep. A horse with a horn glued onto its head isn't actually a unicorn.

[–]RompeChocha -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Funny shit.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

In reality, a woman will test you all the time, and at any time.

She'll test you when she's happy. She'll test you when she's upset. She'll test you when she's your girlfriend, or your wife, or when she's just met you. She'll test you when you're alone, or with friends and family, or in mixed company. She'll test you when you're healthy or sick, wealthy or poor. She'll even test you in her dreams, and punish the real you for any missteps your figment made in her seemingly twisted mind.

The reason women do this is that they are driven to, much in the same way that you are aware when a woman's beauty begins to wane, taking it as a sign that she's getting too comfortable in the relationship and doesn't respect you any longer.

A woman needs to know that she's not wasting her eggs on you.

That's why the proper course of action is always strict discipline and well-defined boundaries. No matter what the woman's relation to you, your life will be better in the long run if you make a habit of disciplining your women.

A woman will do whatever you let her get away with. Don't give her an inch, unless you intend to have no further association with her.

[–]KentRichard 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All the time. At any time.

  • my flatmate just finished the london marathon yesterday, his girlfriend far from being in awe of a 3.30 hour time is testing him as i type, whilst he is tired from RUNNING 26 MILES, this means nothing to a women, its prime testing time.

[–]boscoist 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And I just found new meaning in the game Portal. GLaDoS represents all women with the perpetual testing initiative (or whatever its called).

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Women are initiating 70-75% of all divorces" "All of my buddies stated that their wives wanted to feel “ALIVE” and seek “FREEDOM” from responsibilities and marital obligations."

And women blame men for having committal issues? The divorce statistic should be an instant red pill for anyone.

[–]Dr_Acu1a 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The concept just fucking disgusts me. Then again, I was raised to have a shred of honor and loyalty.

[–]2johnnight 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am not angry, I am cold.

I want more stories like this. Ideally every wife should go "open marriage" on the husband.

It's the only way to get popular political support for the abolition of the current model of marriage as indentured servitude.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am here to liberate them.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I reserve the right to have zero respect for men who put up with this - author included.

[–]writeonbrother 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We live too long to expect life long monogamy. We used to die at 35, maybe 40. Just enough time to have kids and raise them. Just one of the reasons marriage is a bad deal and a terrible idea for men.

[–]boscoist 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

nope. average life expectancy was so low because of extreme infant mortality. people still lived into their 60s and 70s.

[–]watersign 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

marriag makes sense if you're like 30 something years old and making $9 an hour at some shit job. Those with assets, a career, a business..marriage is nothing but a LIABILITY!!

[–]MartialWay 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unless your wife makes a lot more, it doesn't even make sense then. When you make so little money, a couple grand on legal fees can be a massive hardship.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

My parents always said they had an understanding between each other that if one cheated, murder would be involved

You've had the answer staring you right in the face all this time.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your parents always said that murder would be involved if one of them cheated. They obviously felt VERY strongly about infidelity - to the point of saying possibly unhealthy stuff in front of their child, in my opinion.

Even if what they said was not completely literal - it still would leave it's mark on a young, impressionable mind. Hearing this during your formative years has likely had more of an effect on you than you may be willing to admit.

Many of us spend years trying to distance ourselves from our parents, thinking that we have chosen our path on our own and that our opinions and personalities have been uniquely cultivated. When, in reality, we end up more like our parents with each passing day.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm very much the same way. I think people that truly invest themselves completely into relationships have a special place of hatred in their hearts for cheaters. They represent a reckless, uncaring tearing-down of everything we struggle to build. Effectively, they're the 'reason' the sexual marketplace is the way that it is. If there weren't cheaters, people could trust one another, and the concept of 'value' on the sexual marketplace would change dramatically.

Cheaters are sad, ineffectual little people that completely lack discipline. Their ego is so fragile that they're willing to cast aside anybody for momentary gratification and affirmation. I think part of the anger comes from being downright betrayed, but there's also the disappointment of finding out that you wasted your time and love on somebody so clearly undeserving.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why would you want to keep that in your house?

Especially if you have children she will focus all her angst toward them, and because there won't be any obvious reason for the abuse those children will grow up accepting irrationality as normal.

You(or the state) can't force people to be what you what them to be, when nature calls, the social pretend game is pointless.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The caveman never really dies. He just gets frozen in the ice until it’s time to thaw.

Genius.

Poor guy though. I would divorce anyway. Her "I thought you were too" is nothing but a lie; she thinks he's dumb... and he is, because unless she's post-menopausal, he might get stuck raising the mailman's kid.

[–]fruitofmyloom 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well this fucking explains why I get hit on by married women ALL THE FUCKING TIME (no, not at clubs or bars).

It even makes me feel sad not for the man, but for me, that I know they just want to make themselves feel good by using me.

Whores.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm curious to know how they've determined that there is a rise in the number of women seeking extramarital affairs.

[+]Cats_of_War -8 points-7 points-6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't blame them. Everyone wants freedom from marriage. Most of the time marriage results in happiness for both husband and wife.

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