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Young Woman Seeking Men to Buy Her Dinner...

downistehnewup
October 24, 2013
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Title Young Woman Seeking Men to Buy Her Dinner...
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downistehnewup
Upvotes 41
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Date October 24, 2013 6:12 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
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Two college students (male and female) have sex. The next day the woman writes to the man: "I had a wonderful time, but I'm sorry I led you on, I'm not ready for a relationship". One year later: She files a charge of "non-consensual sexual contact" through the college disciplinary system.

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[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger 23 points24 points25 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

What's really, really sad is that men who know they're not going to have sex or any kind of meaningful connection with this internet blog writer (who publicly brags about using men for free meals), still agree to go out and buy her dinner, because they're so needy, so desperate, and so self-depreciating and hopeless that they know this is the closest they'll ever get to the real thing. And some of them even secretly hope, in the back of their fragile little minds, that because this is technically a "date," they might actually be the one who charms and impresses her and gets some love and sex. None of them realize that by agreeing to buy her a meal, they've already lost that battle before it's begun.

[–]semigod__ 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

yes. but i belive in free markets and their stupidity/naivety must be punished.

[–]korben_manzarek 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

really sad is that men who know they're not going to have sex or any kind of meaningful connection with this internet blog writer (who publicly brags about using men for free meals), still agree to go out and buy her dinner, because they're so needy, so desperate, and so self-depreciating and hopeless that they know this is the closest t

What? She has a dating site profile with a fake profile and says she's a cop. I don't think people reading her blog are the people that end up taking her to dinner. They ask her for dinner (well, she insists to have dinner) because they believe they have a chance.

[–]Mengs87 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just the men in Toronto. Rooshv wasn't kidding when he said Toronto is a dating holocaust for men.

[–]semigod__ 20 points21 points22 points 12 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

waiting for the guy who invites her to dinner and orders expensive wine, then leaves restaurant before dessert.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I want to be that guy, not the pussy who didn't go through with it, the one that actually goes to the bathroom and never comes back

[–]lovelustus 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I wish she lived in the bay area, i would for sure bring this stupid bitch to a michelin star rated restaurant and peace out. What a vapid waste of oxygen, i guarantee this girl is boring as all fuck.

[–]pro_skub 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wish she leaved here in my city too. I'd have a good laugh, believe me.

[–]mach11 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

already almost happened. scroll down.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

where? Cant find it.

[–]mach11 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

http://restauranttipsfromaserialdater.tumblr.com/post/57915463116/can-i-get-some-good-conversation-for-dessert

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The only one she was attracted to as well, I'm not surprised though.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That could have easily been hamstered after the fact.

[–]phaseonx11 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What more proof do you need that TRP is the TRUTH? Lol.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

This is hilarious and has a few decently red pill moments.

Oh and I know you think I’m really pretty but no one likes a doormat, so even though I’m really liking that you let me eat your portion of oysters and you let me eat half your entree, it’s time to man up, have a protein shake & stop letting women walk all over you.

Or this one:

Friend: have any of them been good looking?

Me: fuck no, pretty ugly actually mostly 2 & 3’s bro

Friend: well that’s too bad I guess

Me: not really, 2 &3’s will pay for anything...

[–]1Zackcid 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Or the line right before that when her friend asks if she liked any of them. She answers: "Not a single one".

Immediately after reading that, I made the connection and knew that the reason she didn't like them was because of the dates themselves. The mere fact that these betas are willing to give her free meals tells a lot about their SMV. She knows very well that a confident Alpha would never swoop so low.

[–]redbluepilling 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The one guy that was going to leave her with the bill is the only guy she actually liked.

He stuck around though, so I doubt it ended that well for him. Half the bill and wank.

[–]Mengs87 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus, this is why sane men visit prostitutes.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I approach the restaurant when I see it. Uh oh. Oh no. Please no. He has flowers. Not just one rose (because we all know that would be classy) but a whole bouquet of roses. Is it just me or do I smell tacky, forced smiles, and transparent “thank you, you shouldn’t have’s”. Reel it in Romeo, there is a reason the art of the sonnet didn’t make it to the dating culture circa 2013. Here’s the challenge, enduring the next 2 hours whilst drawing unnecessary attention to ourselves curtesy of these beautiful flowers you’ve brought me.

Her reaction to being given flowers. I love how this blog is like the confirmation of everything we preach here.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

They're nice to their face when it's convient but it's really betas women can't stand. An alpha they will always at least respect.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I just want to point out that whenever I asked my parents for dating advice, my mother always told me to bring flowers.

Always.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The thing is that buying flowers isn't the end of the world and might even be welcomed in a relationship when it's done for the right reason (I.e rewarding good behavior) and you've already established an attractive alpha frame. This guy has already been begged as beta for agreeing to buy her lunch. Now he just piles it on to the point of nauseum with the flowers. And what has she done to deserve flowers anyway? Agreed to let him pay for lunch? How generous.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

While her actions are crappy on a personal level, she's actually doing the world a favor.

She's honest about how much contempt pretty girls have for losers. Hopefully some will see this and will start questioning their views on inter-sexual relations.

As a fun aside, she go called on her shit by some dude, and said she was attracted to him. Yay TRP!

http://restauranttipsfromaserialdater.tumblr.com/post/57915463116/can-i-get-some-good-conversation-for-dessert

[–]1Zackcid 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wish more girls were honest like this. It's like, when you land on these blogs/articles, you can tell that it'll either be brutally honest or very PC with a bit of truth. This girl truly doesn't give a shit and she's thought about her money-sucking hobby long enough to accept it and not have to censor herself or feel guilty, so she spits the truth.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]manchoi44 21 points22 points23 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

While what we're seeing in her blog is "honest", I wouldn't call her method honest at all.

[–]finalfantasybrownies 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That and she's almost bragging about it.

[–]MahlerNinth 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I wonder if she knows about whatsyourprice and the bastion of overpaid/trust fund betas on there, who figure that their bank accounts and high bids will make up for their complete lack of social skills, character and looks.

[–]elheretic 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She is aware enough to secure a guy like that before she hits the wall. She will be pretty wealthy after divorce as well.

I respect mercenary women like her.

[–]1thedangerboy 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I really can't fault her for what she's doing. I don't like her and she will soon gain a reputation if this page stays up though Toronto does have about 30 million people in the greater area. That said, she's bowling with the bumpers up. She is about a 6.5 but could be a 7 even 7.5 if she's your taste and is wearing great attire, and she's going out with 2s and 3s. She might not get away with this with a guy that is close to her (a 5 or 5.5) but can do this as long as she remains above a 4.5.

[–]1Zackcid 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Toronto does have about 30 million people in the greater area.

Canada's population is around 35 million.

[–]1thedangerboy 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oops, I mistyped. Toronto has about 10 million of Canada's 30 million. Brain fart on my part, good catch.

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

she's going out with 2s and 3s.

That's like 80% of men, to be honest.

[–]redbluepilling 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There's okcupid blog data showing that womens' ratings of guys is nothing like ours of them. Women fall on a bell curve for us, the most being in the middle. For them, what should be the average falls more towards a 3.

So, yeah. What we'd consider a 2 to 3 for a guy, she'd consider -2. These guys that took her to dinner were normal average dudes, just stuck in fantasy world dating.

[–]korben_manzarek 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Is this a 6.5 on a scale where you detract 1 point for every feature that you don't like? Are her elbows too pointy?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

What's sad is all the men getting mad at this blog. It would be like if I made a blog that said, "Will pay for drinks if you have sex with me".

this is exactly what we want.

I'd much rather have women be honest about this kind of stuff. Her vagina is her bargaining chip. we know it, she knows it.

Dudes sitting here getting mad don't make sense to me.

[–]redbluepilling 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Taking your drink issue, it's the same as any woman scamming drinks from guys, just on a bigger, blogged about scale.

I can't fault her. Guys need to wake up. Plus I'd be a hypocrite. I've scammed girls out of drinks, and it's devilish fun.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It's not a scam, It's a trade:

His social status(wealth, power, skills) for her beauty and sex. if they don't procure their part of the trade then they fucked up, should learn how to do business.

real talk, if i was a bitch, i'd hit up betas for free drinks and dinners every day. you know how you keep a chubby bitch around for test dummy purposes because they have no self esteem or self respect and let you do whatever you want?

i'd do that shit with dudes. just each day a different beta for different things.

[–]redbluepilling 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

A scam is a trade initiated with the intent of a significant unfair advantage. If she's actively going up to guys and asking for a drink, it's a scam. If guys approach her and offer, it's more of a trade like you describe. Regardless, I have no issue with either. I'd buy that bitch some water.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's not a scam because guys can say no.

You're doing exactly what feminists do: remove all responsibility from your gender.

I stopped buying bitches drinks the day i realized i could fuck without doing so. Haven't gone back. If these dudes wanna pony up and buy her shit hoping it'll get them laid then by all means, let her reap the rewards.

[–]redbluepilling 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You're doing exactly what feminists do: remove all responsibility from your gender.

Hey now, don't do me that way. In my first reply I clearly said:

I can't fault her. Guys need to wake up.

Also,

I'd buy that bitch some water. -- The water's free, she aint getting shit from me.

People can say no to a scam, and guys should be able to see such a blatant scam if the first thing she asks of him is a drink. You are right when I do what feminists do and remove responsibility from women. They aren't responsible. I don't fault them for doing what they're programmed to do. But yeah, that's part of the acceptance part of RP, seeing it for how things are, not trying to change the system, but work within it--taking responsibility for our own fuckups guys keep doing.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Women will take from you whatever they can get. They will test you religiously to see if you're a real fucking man.

Dudes who get mad at women for being women make we want to punch them for not getting the irony.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Between Jdate & Tinder I’m raking in the contacts. Have I been keeping track who is who? Not even slightly. “Do you speak Hebrew?” uhhh..who wants to know? Do I know what you look like? Ummm….if you’re not the guy with the motorcycle I definitely forget…

On why standing out is so important.

[–]phaseonx11 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol, these poor bastards. She needs a reality check real bad... She'll get one when she starts hitting the wall I guess, if not sooner.

[–]Mr_Andry 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I have no problem with this. She's gaming the system, and isn't that what we so often seek to do as well?

edit: Ok, I'm liking her more and more. She gets caught on date 3 and rolls with it!

[–]lovelustus -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I love how she uses Jdate, Christianmingle, Okcupid, Match and tinder. What a truly pathetic individual.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I use Okcupid/match/tinder

Does that make me pathetic too?

Its not what you use, its how you use it friend.

[–]lovelustus 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No i was more disgusted that an individual who isn't jewish or christian is leveraging those social networks to use men for free meals and yes if you do the same you're pathetic.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why?

No really. Go into this. What makes internet/text game unmanly to you?

[–]redbluepilling 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm pretty sure he just implied that those sites are fine, but he takes issue with what she's doing.

Which, frankly, she's gaming men to her advantage. I don't fault her and would rather have this malicious honesty out there in the world. Guys need to learn. But instead, they'll see her as a terrible person as opposed to seeing the real issue...the failed attempts at wooing her. It's not like it's impossible to show up with game and have her fall for you. Hell, one guy did when he was going to shaft her with the bill. RP. All women get free meals, this one just does the service of putting that out there and derives her own positivity out of it (as opposed to just food and boring, failed conversation).

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