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Feminist writer swears off bad boys after 20 yrs...and other hamster musings

masterdong
September 8, 2013
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Title Feminist writer swears off bad boys after 20 yrs...and other hamster musings
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masterdong
Upvotes 47
Comments 46
Date September 8, 2013 4:15 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1lydjb/feminist_writer_swears_off_bad_boys_after_20/
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[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 57 points58 points59 points 12 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Now it's your turn "good guys". You lucky bunch. Another alpha widow past 30 for grabs...

I have an alternative title though: "Men I want don't want me anymore so I pretend I prefer betas"

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The entitlement/arrogance in this article is breathtaking.

Precisely, shows how "oppressed" women are. Hard to find more ego and arrogance that in post wall sluts similar to this one.

"I've been fucked by loosers and jerk offs who treated me like shit my whole 20s, usually after 2 warm Millers. Now I'm a lady, you will treat me right, wind and dine me and maybe I'll put out. It's great if you are successful cause I'd like to have children someday. No prenup, there is no price on my love."

Get in line gentlemen. We got something special here.

These idiot women have no idea how insulting they are to the "good guys". They offer them sloppy seconds when "assholes" are no longer interested in them, cause lets be frank, her taste didn't change and she's still a slut, only "bad boys" prefer younger tail.

[–]SupALupRT 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"No prenup, there is no price on my love."

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL. I think thats exactly called putting a price on your love. "If I don't have the right to half your shit take a hike." I hope this bitch becomes a crazy fucking cat lady.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I'll swoop her right off her feet like a proper gentlemen. Wine and dine. It will be all peaches. Until she relapses...

There's no way now I can trust a woman who had a past like hers unless she's a redpill advocate.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You don't think it's possible that a woman like that can come across this kind of information and have a paradigm shift? Like, at all?

[–]awshx 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Once a slut always a slut.. her capacity for love and pair-bonding has already been destroyed anyways.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus. You mean it's actually worse than I thought?

[–]luxury_banana 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Seems unlikely. They may understand what they were doing but the bad habits have already formed.

[–]SupALupRT 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html

You know, science and stuff.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago* (25 children) | Copy Link

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[–]CAPTAINxTRIPS39 points 12 years ago [recovered] (15 children) | Copy Link

For me, the hardest part of TRP to come to terms with was the fact that I won't ever be able to open up emotionally to someone whom I'm in a relationship with. It's making me a cynical person.

[–]real-boethius 23 points24 points25 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It's called growing up. Love won't save you, friendship neither, nor God.

[–]Kronos694817 points 12 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Exactly. The only one who can save you is you. You get fed up with being the one to help everyone else, with no reciprocation, and decide to help yourself and say fuck everyone else.

[–]Eloni 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Eh, I have at least one friend who would literally help me hide a body if it came to that, and who I'd do the same for, and three others who come close. Some friends truly are family you chose.

Though of course, again, they're the exception rather than the rule.

[–]erwgv3g34 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We live in a world beyond the reach of God.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I find it's ok to open up every now and again. As /u/fredflints said, TRP is useful in building a foundation of a relationship. After that you decide how much of yourself you put into it.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm just now going through this. This is scary for me. :(

[–]CAPTAINxTRIPS16 points 12 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

It makes you look at relationships entirely differently. You mind find yourself judging your parents, your friends, etc based on TRP ideas.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Already do. The name Red Pill is definitely appropriate.

[–]_chaosphere_ 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking right. I have been lurking this sub for about 5 months, and that's the big thing that hits me in the gut sometimes - that I will NEVER be able to have the love I was raised thinking was "proper" love. There is no equality and two-way street. The second you open up is the second they start looking elsewhere. Brutal but true. Fuck. I hate this shit, but it is reality.

[–]rkg-pua3 points 12 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Connecting with women emotionally is one of my greatest seduction strengths. As long it's framed in a non-needy way, and you're fucking her right, do not be timid about opening up a little emotionally...

[–]IDGAFwhatmyREStagis 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How do you mean? Like, telling her something intimate about yourself but not seeking her validation or reassurance? That seems like a tricky thing to pull off.

[–]SupALupRT 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Im still optimistic, I'm sure there are still some good women out there, they are just really few and far between. I'm thinking like Dumb and Dumber "So you're saying there is a chance."

Its both empowering and somewhat depressing when the red pill sinks in and you realize how shitty most women are.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This makes the past year of my life make so much more sense.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMarsupian 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I think you are drawing some wrong conclusions.

It's not that women don't want romance or an emotional connection. They just don't want some little bitch of a "man" to ask them for love or to show emotional instability.

That is where you went wrong, if you had just taken her and not show the emotional stability of 12 year old girl with daddy problems things would have been fine.

Women don't hate guys that are looking for commitment or an emotional connection as long as the guy is a fucking man about it. That means taking the lead, taking what he wants and not being a baby about showing emotion (doing so sparingly and while staying in control like any mature guy would).

Just because girls are not attracted to helpless dependent babies of man who ask them for love doesn't mean they are whores who are only interested in sex.

Men are the romantic sex. And I don't care what all the troupes in romcoms would have you believe about it being the other way around, it's not. I've always wanted more, I've always wanted to love and be loved and make all these grand romantic gestures to show her how I felt.

Grow up. When you know yourself, respect yourself and love yourself you will realize that what you described is not how a relationship works or should work. What women want is a fucking man, once you are a man you can make grand romantic gestures because the girl will know it's not you trying to buy sex or affection. She has to first know that you can stand on your own and don't need anything before she can trust your romantic gestures are not just you trying to get something you need.

That is the real reason the other girl stuck around so long. It was not because she didn't actually want romance and just wanted sex. It was because you showed her time and time again you didn't need her, that attracted her to you. If you had give her romance and commitment she would have loved you for it as long as you also kept showing her your willingness and ability to turn away at any moment.

To me you just sound like a bitter nice guy who thinks he is red pill because he "realizes" women are bitches. Grow a pair and stop whining.

[–]Kronos6948 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It more sounds to me like he's just swallowed the pill and is adjusting. He will learn these things in time. Remember, blue pillers can't be force fed the red pill. They find it on their own, and then the mindset slowly changes. The more you force feed, the more they resist.

[–]Sunny_McJoyride 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Why would you make romantic gestures if not to get something you need?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMarsupian -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Because you like to? Because it's fun? Because you want to express yourself? Hell I don't know. I just know that it's possible to do so without fucking up the relationship as long as you show her that you don't need her for anything and are perfectly fine with walking away and standing on your own two feet.

[–]Sunny_McJoyride 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But what makes the gesture romantic as opposed to just fun, or wanting to express yourself?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMarsupian -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I dont know. What does the dictionary say?

[–]Divinityfound 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I like to think romantic gestures are that: Gestures. You don't show ALL your cards, but you show at least one card to make a clear statement of your intentions, but still hold the rest of your cards back so you still have that air of mystery.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

some solid stuff right here, interesting and informative. Appreciate the input.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]through_a_ways 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck that's not taking responsibility you dumb cunt.

I think our cultural definition of "taking responsibility" has shifted in the last several decades.

You can see it in politics, show biz, individuals, etc. "Taking responsibility" means nothing more than verbally saying "I take full responsibility". When even the most successful of politicians do this, you can't expect normal women to not do it.

Gone are the repercussions of taking responsibility, or the social ostracism. It's just an empty phrase now, used to:

  • make one's self feel as if they're doing something
  • make others feel that you're doing something

It's a more upscale and respectable alternative to "my bad".

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She shows a screenshot on her phone where she is calling Mr. "DANGER!!!"

Yeah, she's sure done with him.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 16 points17 points18 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When you're flung off the cock carousel, I suppose you'd be a little butt hurt after you land on your ass.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nothing can be said that already hasn't been said. But you don't do something for 20 years if it was a mistake.

[–]teebiss 17 points18 points19 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women are utterly incapable of loving men the way we want and deserve to be loved.

[–]Top_Ozone 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Easy with the "deserve" language, lest we fall into the entitlement trap that so many of these women fall into. Earn the love you want; you aren't owed anything.

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[–]30years 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What's the Kansas City Shuffle, Mr. Goodkat?

[–]SupALupRT 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I realized I was Dick’s booty call pretty early on, but it didn’t stop me from earnestly hoping that it might develop into something more. That happens, sometimes, right?"

"I am not capable of being a booty call because I only ever sleep with men I like, and if I like them, I also like to convince myself that this booty call thing might be something more than what it is."

All my wut.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t seek out bad men. I just see the good in them, sometimes where very little good exists.

lol.

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