"I've hit the wall after years of riding the cock carousel and looking for a beta to take care of me and my kid."

nicethingyoucanthave · 2013-07-11T16:12:36+00:00

I don't feel like digging it up, but I recognize the photo she posted in that thread. She's been featured here before. She mentioned that she believes she is a "solid 8" and when some guys offered their (imho generous) opinion that she was more like a 5, she said, "if I believe I'm an 8 then I'm an 8."

EDIT: FOUND IT!!

http://reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1e5u6z/female_on_askmen_where_do_i_go_to_find_guys_to/

sometimesitburns · 2013-07-11T16:16:12+00:00

Boom:

So let me sum this up. You want a guy:

Who will take you your kid out to nice (i.e. expensive) places and trips

Is successful and rich

Has a high sex drive (to match yours)

Is attractive

What do you have to attract a guy? First the kid pretty much knocks you out of the running for most well adjusted single adults. Try aiming for divorced men, they might have less problems with someone who has a kid.

You said somewhere that you are ~24, well any guy who at your age is as rich/successful as you want is probably going to be a natural risk taker. Highly ambitious who knows what he wants and knows he can get it. These people look for someone similar - It sounds like that is not you.

You could try looking for someone who is older but older guys looking for a trophy wife typically want someone attractive and since you self-medicate with food, I'm going to guess you're not in peak form.

So to sum it up - you probably missed your chance to get a Grade A Primo guy. Especially since you have so many flaws that you need to work on (some of which you can't change - i.e. being slutty / having a kid) but you need to change the way you view relationships. Everything seems framed in what this person can do for you (either sex or $) With that kind of thinking you are never going to be able to develop a real conenction.

TL;DR- Fix self issues and it will have an impact on the rest of your life.

That's pretty RP (except for the ending which seems a bit soft)

[deleted] · 2013-07-11T15:31:08+00:00

And I'm fairly unhappy with myself over it and kind of stuck in this cycle of being "intimate" with men and wanting a relationship, but sleeping with people I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with.

I like how she frames her promiscuity saying that she sleeps with guys she wouldn't want a relationship with.

Bullshit. She sleeps with guys and they don't want anything more to do with her, not the other way around.

Good news is she came to the right place. Beddit is full of guys who have no self-respect. She probably got 5 pm's already.

JimmyTheIntern · 2013-07-11T16:16:27+00:00

Further down, OP admitted to being a sex addict and having gone to therapy for it. Multiple types of therapy.

Understand, from that perspective, the entire thread is a sex addicted woman who is reaching out anonymously looking for hope that she can have a fulfilling relationship some day without her unhealthy sex drive getting in the way. This isn't about typical female behavior or promiscuity, this is about a sexual compulsion that is basically ruining her life. This is a woman who can't seem to get the cock carousel to slow down and let her off, despite trying. Compassion and mental health resources are what she really needs, but people are jumping in to give her typical attraction and relationship advice like she's stable enough to be able to meet people and date, even though it's going to inevitably end in disaster until she completely addresses her own issues. Sad.

30303030303030 · 2013-07-11T15:42:38+00:00

Some "Good Guy" is about to score. She's tired of all the pump and dump. Get in line, good guys.

Knight_of_autumn · 2013-07-11T16:15:01+00:00

So I want someone safe that doesn't ... have a drinking problem or smoke. I keep settling for assholes who are alcoholics who smoke a pack a day.

LOL! How the heck does one define a standard and then "settle" for the exact opposite? "I keep looking for a nice, small compact car with good gas mileage but I keep ending up driving those damn big ass SUVs!"

I am new here at TRP, but this hamster shit is just...wow.

mescalineeyes · 2013-07-11T15:16:05+00:00

Unfortunately, the answer this woman is looking for wasn't invented yet: Time machine.

Edit: http://i.imgur.com/J3bQffA.jpg Oh boy. Well, sometimes if you have difficulties finding a man, a diet is the best course of action. That and dressing like someone who doesn't look like she's just about to get into high school.

Clauderoughly · 2013-07-11T15:49:46+00:00

I saw this i the comments

Well I have a child. So I want someone safe that doesn't do drugs for fun and doesn't have a drinking problem or smoke.

Any takers?

mykart · 2013-07-11T18:21:44+00:00

She admitted to being a sex addict and having BPD. This is the worst woman any man could be with and the guys who have some experience with these types know that these are "pump & dump" only.

Crackertron · 2013-07-11T20:25:39+00:00

http://np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1i2u3e/how_do_i_attract_relationship_material/cb0hran

Comedy gold.

chiffonade- · 2013-07-11T15:26:23+00:00

[–]lambs0623 2 points 1 hour ago But how do I attract that? I keep attracting assholes who treat me like shit and get rough really quickly. permalinksaveparentreportgive goldreply

apparently to some women "what i am attracted to" = "what i attract"

mind = blown

whiskey_bearfist · 2013-07-11T16:01:05+00:00

she just needs to find a beta to be her slave. she can still fuck whoever she wants if she is smart about it. or if she picks a particularly abhorrent beta, she can convince him he has a cuckold fetish.

Mitchell78 · 2013-07-11T22:44:19+00:00

She sounds lovely: single mom, cock carouseler, border liner, tattoos, ugly...

realniggasstandup · 2013-07-11T15:34:32+00:00

I never said anything about money or going to expensive trips or places or even successful for that matter. I just said I don't want someone with a drug problem (alcohol or recreational). That's a pretty big assumption and I never said that. And I don't think that saying I should look for divorced guys is fair either. Or that having a kid knocks me out of the running... that's really assuming no guys want children ever basically unless they already have one and that's completely unfair. I also don't understand your trophy wife reference. I never said anything about money. I said someone who wants to try new things and go places with me. Like fuckin' a convention an hour away or a trip to the beach (which is also an hour away) or trying new food like a sushi place I've never been... and saying I'm full of flaws is completely unhelpful. Having a child is NOT a flaw. What I said was someone who likes to talk, try new things and can give affection. Seriously. This is the most unhelpful, hurtful, rude comment I've gotten.

LOL

STOP BEING SO MEAN

toysjoe · 2013-07-11T15:01:13+00:00

Hope I did the flair right, I suck at that.

mighty_mogomra · 2013-07-11T20:38:07+00:00

I've been swinging for the fences all day with posts on that thread.

Life is good.

Hampster is going to hamst.

Nutz76 · 2013-07-11T16:40:39+00:00

Wow, that is one hell of a stereotype in action.

Trolly-McTroll · 2013-07-11T21:40:51+00:00

albums of her: 1 2 3

NSFW gonewild posts: 1 2 3

[deleted] · 2013-07-11T18:42:43+00:00

She is bet. Desperate men are her only salvation.

daykid · 2013-07-11T21:24:37+00:00

u/braveathee linked this thread in a comment in that thread. Welcome to the shittiest game of phone tag in the world.

I bet he thinks he's doing god's work right now.

3rt41 · 2013-07-12T07:59:43+00:00

This is beautiful... aaaaand here is the "Leave me alone!" line everyone was waiting for!

EDIT: I've gotten a whiplash of response telling me no one will want me unless they are a divorced man in their 40s because I'm basically a dirty whore. I was asking for advice on how to attract the right kind of person because what I'm doing isn't working. Not opinions as to why I'm such a terrible person and how no one wants me. At this point, please just leave me alone.

Die in a fire bitch.

realniggasstandup · 2013-07-11T15:30:44+00:00

She's not going to attract any "relationship material" beta. Even the greatest betas would deny her.

wynningston · 2013-07-11T19:40:00+00:00

my boy nutz tellin it like it is.

Title	"I've hit the wall after years of riding the cock carousel and looking for a beta to take care of me and my kid."
Author	toysjoe
Upvotes	41
Comments	76
Date	July 11, 2013 3:00 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1i3054/ive_hit_the_wall_after_years_of_riding_the_cock/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/ive-hit-the-wall-after-years-of-riding-the-cock.233900 https://theredarchive.com/post/233900

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