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Acting on Dread 1 and 2?

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FinancialLeopard5
April 24, 2019
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I was wondering if you guys can help me.
I'm on stage 1 and 2 of Dread and incredible as it may seem, I've noticed some differences in the wife.
Now, for example, I do not know if I should try to start sex or if I invite her to go out with our daughter, or to grab a coffee, etc.
For I am only speaking the essentials with her. Yes. No. Maybe. By the way, I'm talking much more "no". And feeling good about it.
How to act in these 2 initial months?

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Dread Level 1: Learn to recognize and start passing Shit Tests. Begin building a strong, indefatigable frame where you are not affected by her sexual denials. Your readings will inform you about the basics of Pickup Artistry and seduction. Begin leading your wife more and begin seducing her. . Read the sidebar on The Red Pill, Married Man's Sex Life by Athol Kay, No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover, When I say NO I feel Guilty, and the Book of Pook.

Dread Level 2: Develop an action plan to improve the major areas of your life. Develop the physical, spiritual, psychological, financial and personal areas of your life. Your journey begins at the gym where you need to lift heavy weights to exhaustion 3-4 times a week, working each muscle group at least 2 times a week. Read The Mindful Attraction Plan by Athol Kay.


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Title Acting on Dread 1 and 2?
Author FinancialLeopard5
Upvotes 9
Comments 26
Date 24 April 2019 10:48 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/236158
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/bh15en/acting_on_dread_1_and_2/
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[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando19 points20 points  (2 children) | Copy

I do not know if I should try to start sex or if I invite her to go out with our daughter, or to grab a coffee

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Whatever you do, don't try to combine all three - things could get very messy.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, don't try that with McDonald's coffee especially...

[–]FinancialLeopard5Needs a plunger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

LOLLLLLLLL

[–]hack3geRed Beret15 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy

I swear I’ve hit my level of faggotry for the day and I’ve only read 3 posts.

Did you really just ask if you should “try to start sex”? Or if you should have coffee?

How in the mother fucking hell are you even still alive? Does mommy need to remind you to breathe?

I know we say Lift, STFU and read but for fuck sakes - if you want to fuck her give it a go.

The worst that happens is you get all butthurt and go Rambo but at this point any action is better than sitting around circle jerking about if you can have a non fat latte with your wife.

[–]FoxShitNasty8312 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Or a regular latte with your fat wife

[–]FinancialLeopard5Needs a plunger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

thanks. I needed to read that.

[–]RStonePT6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

deleted What is this?

[–]FinancialLeopard5Needs a plunger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

dude... Hit the gym, read some books, take the time to figure out what the fuck you want, because right now you're in no position to be taking or asking for advice.

Thanks!!

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I have a hard time believing that you're reading the sidebar materials when you didn't even read the second or fourth sentences of the Dread Level 1 description:

Begin building a strong, indefatigable frame where you are not affected by her sexual denials.

Begin leading your wife more and begin seducing her.

I don't think I've ever seen someone actually quote the answer to their own retarded question.

[–]FinancialLeopard5Needs a plunger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

you're right. For strange that it may seems, I've just discovered the sidebar...I was seeing the "new" reddit version that doesn't have that side bar.

Youre absolutelly fucking right. Maybe I didn't interpreted the text.

[–]BirdManBrrrr5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Now, for example, I do not know if I should try to start sex or if I invite her to go out with our daughter, or to grab a coffee, etc.

You're overthinking this. What do you WANT to do? Figure that out and proceed accordingly. And not everything you want to do needs to include your wife, but could if that's what you want.

[–]FinancialLeopard5Needs a plunger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're overthinking this.

Yep. I noticed that.
Thanks.

[–]thunderbeyond4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The best advice you're ever going to get is when you post on the OYS thread at r/marriedredpill each week. I suggest you do that.

[–]0io-Tsundere3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Of course you should initiate sex. If it goes well, be more talkative and friendly and spend more time with her. If not, be friendly but less talkative and spend a lot more time out of the house doing your own thing. Mostly lifting weights.

[–]FinancialLeopard5Needs a plunger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

thanks!!

[–]CrazyLegs782 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Your wife doesn't change this early in the game. What is happening is YOU are beginning to change by realizing her responses to your new actions. Kinda like the neural connections your body makes when you first start lifting and get those "noob gains".

How are you going to have a satisfying sex life that meets YOUR needs if you never initiate? It is seeking external validation if you are wanting/waiting for her to initiate. Go for what you want! Sometimes you get it, sometimes you don't. If you like her behavior within the past day or two, then invite her out for coffee or whatever. If she has been a nagging henpeck, leave that shit at home and go do your own thing. Women are pretty fickle with emotion, so only base your actions off their behavior for the past few days.

[–]FinancialLeopard5Needs a plunger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I dunno if it's subconscious, but I have a limit to try to initiate sex with her. Maybe was all the "NO's". I get your point. Made me think.
Thanks a lot!

[–]dll1422 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

When you get where you need to be, she will pursue you for sex often. You will still have to initiate when you want, but her initiations and interest will pick up.

Don't try so hard... remember passive (healthy) dread is all about the following:

  1. Being the best (or working to be) version of yourself (mentally, physically, emotionally) you can be
  2. Having just enough unpredictability in your life that keeps her on her toes by driving her to pursue interest. Remember, women love mystery. For example, if she sees you getting in better shape and dressing better, her mind will spin and try to find out why. This is what you want... she is driven to solve that mystery, and it's irresistible to a woman.

Dread activates attraction & desire triggers in women. Relax and have fun with it.

[–]FinancialLeopard5Needs a plunger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That was a problem. I'm very fucking predictable....

[–]screechhaterRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Do you read what you write ?

Start it all off by read and then editing your POS post.

Lift. STFU. Read. Lift.

[–]FinancialLeopard5Needs a plunger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks. I think I was (am) desperate.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Perfect time to try out one of the new flairs /u/Countpudyoola created for us...

[–]FinancialLeopard5Needs a plunger[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Where I can find ? I have no idea how to use reddit...lol

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Don't worry, I already flaired this post for you.

[–]FinancialLeopard5Needs a plunger[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I've searched a lot of what is "OI" and "SGM". DIdn't find on sidebar. Can you explain?

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Use the search feature on /r/MarriedRedPill. And stop asking people to do your work for you.



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