Has anyone here transitioned from normies/“nerdy” chicks to higher SMV ones?

Psychological_Radish · 2019-07-05T17:42:47+00:00

Sounds like you're pedestalizing club rats/party girls. Why, I have no idea.

kojimasbeard1 · 2019-07-05T14:06:22+00:00

Second this. Trying very hard to make that transition.

MattyAnon · 2019-07-05T16:39:00+00:00

Has anyone here transitioned from normies/“nerdy” chicks to higher SMV ones?

Good question....... I'm probably getting weird and nerdy chicks rather than "high value normal" ones..... but I don't think I want this to change.

Joeboard · 2019-07-05T18:03:01+00:00

Stick with the nerdy girls

zboo1h · 2019-07-05T19:01:52+00:00

You're doing that thing where you pretend that hot girls don't take shits and fart and stuff. They're the same as the "nerdy" girls my guy. You're shooting yourself in the foot by pedestalizing certain thots above others.

bumbuff · 2019-07-05T14:27:15+00:00

I made this progression to a degree. For me, I started pulling your 5s and 6s—then I hit the gym hard, upped my bench to 250 from like 150 (over time), and now I get the success with 7s (to me my 7s are hot—lots of ppl use 7 to mean average) that I used to get with 5s.

thenewyorkmind · 2019-07-05T19:22:01+00:00

You’re probably scared of approaching dimes along with 80% of guys. The 20% guys are true alphas (genetics/upbringing), have bank, or they simply have abundance mindset.

teveza11 · 2019-07-05T21:09:35+00:00

I never liked nerdy chicks, but I did transition from pretty girls who were kind of bad girls into more of a model type girl.

[deleted] · 2019-07-05T20:25:23+00:00

You are attracting the right chicks.

The ones you are trying to attract are the sluttier party ones who, after being railed my numerous chads, have unrealistic standards

[deleted] · 2019-07-05T20:54:33+00:00

increase your smv

BigDickEnergy123 · 2019-07-06T01:26:42+00:00

"These normal chicks are fine for now but I want to move up eventually."

"I just mean they study a lot because they are in difficult academic programs"

You may not realize it now, but short term you're moving up. Long term you're moving down.

Where will these nerdy girls who focused on difficult academics be in 5-10 years as opposed to the girls who partied their way through life?

Ridabewa · 2019-07-05T18:59:57+00:00

Time and patience. Keep working. I’m with you. You’re getting looks from them now - that’s a start. Girls are a lagging indicator. We’ll get there 😉

NeuroBoss31 · 2019-07-05T19:09:31+00:00

Took me 10 years. Just treat them like regular people.

Mensphysique12 · 2019-07-05T20:10:00+00:00

Yes, just have to max your SMV and be social. This sub likes to think there can just be nerdy girls then club rats. But in all reality there are super hot girls that are top tier and men fight for them constantly. These are the super hot girls from rich families, educated, everyone knows who they are, etc. That’s probably the top in most cities but you have to bring you a-game.

[deleted] · 2019-07-05T21:35:48+00:00

I know what you're talking about.

When i first started gaming, In like my first year of game, I'd 95% of the time only ever get attention from girls who were kind of not that socially adept. Like it was almost always the low confidence, not low self esteem but just shy plain chicks that I'd get. Some were not even bad looking but they were just kinda boring people.

What i noticed is that you can get those girls when you have very little game cos they might just like you anyway for trying.

To get the girls you want, the savvy ones, the cool ones the ones you can bring around your friends, That requires game. Not maaaad game. just game. frankly you probably don't have game. You probably just throw shit at a wall and see what sticks. That's what I did for my first year of game.

In simple terms you gotta actually BE the cool fly guy to get the girls you really want. Girls who are an 8/10 and above, the ones who are social, overall attractive people and have options.

I know exactly what you're going through, it used to annoy the fuck out of me that I could never get the girls who I actually enjoyed talking to.

but what it comes down to is that you're not worthy of those girls yet, you attract what you are my friend. Until you become the cool social confident guy inside and out, atleast to an extent, then those girls will eventually see through you and lose interest.

Keep practicing game and keep working on INNER GAME that's the key. Then you'll start getting those girls and keeping them around. and funnily enough you'll realise they weren't really all that in the first place, they just had tolerable personalities as opposed to the "cool fun alpha" personalities you thought they had. I've found very few of these "alpha" chicks to actually be cool after spending a few hours with them and after sex, turns out they're pretty regular too. Only like 2 times did I meet these alpha girls and think "wow she's awesome". and the second one became my GF.

so in conclusion, you're just in one of the early stages of learning game that everyone goes through. Keep practicing, keep working on your inner game (key) and you'll get there.

[deleted] · 2019-07-05T23:12:03+00:00

Working hard on it. Another one to save- thanks man.

lukesterboi1 · 2019-07-05T20:56:11+00:00

You mean chasing after girls who probably grind on 10 different dudes every Saturday night?

No thanks

Title	Has anyone here transitioned from normies/“nerdy” chicks to higher SMV ones?
Author	SameArmy
Upvotes	34
Comments	60
Date	July 5, 2019 1:32 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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