What's the benefit for the man if he commits?

Hammocknapping · 2019-08-31T15:07:15+00:00

I agree that it varies greatly from relationship to relationship. In my husband’s case, he got to retire in his early 30’s, which was 7-10 years earlier than he would’ve been able to retire on his own. In large part, that is because I am able to provide him with great health insurance because we are considered domestic partners. In order to meet those requirements, it required a good amount of legal commitment (living together, being the beneficiaries of each other’s life insurance policies, shared bank account, etc.)

Unlike any of his peers, my husband gets to spend all day doing whatever he wants and pursuing his hobbies. He does a lot around the house, but it is by choice and not at my insistence.

I still help around the house, do all of the cooking, cover all of our day to day expenses, and I’m available for sex whenever (and however) he wants it. While I have no doubt that my husband could get all the sex he desire without commitment, he knows when he has sex with me that I am disease free and that I’m not going to get pregnant and trap him with a baby.

silvernikki · 2019-08-31T14:53:47+00:00

The same thing we all get, I guess -- some kind of assurance that he won't be alone if/when things get tough.

Makrii817 · 2019-08-31T13:46:03+00:00

What benefit is it to a woman to be in a committed relationship with a man? The answer of course is that it varies from relationship to relationship. In general, they both get a teammate who understands them, who cares for them, and provides support. Sure, they both could take care of themselves if they needed to, but humans are a social, pair bonding species and it’s nice to have a teammate. My husband gets the benefit of being the only man I’m intimate with, and someone who cooks for him and takes care of the house, and also provides most of the income while he’s in residency. He provides support to me in all these things and is handy around the house, and eventually when he finishes residency will be able to contribute time and money to our house as well. In that situation, what do I get from being in a relationship with him? I’m perfectly able to provide for myself financially, I can cook for myself and take care of a house by myself. But I love him and I believe in him, and he is my partner in all these things so even though I could do it alone, I don’t have to.

dirkberkis · 2019-08-31T14:46:55+00:00

Companionship, intimacy, the general feeling of not being alone in the world waiting to die... i dunno.

caneyfan · 2019-08-31T15:50:34+00:00

If you’re a man that has had his experience with dating and living the single life it does get old after a while. While not in all cases, it is natural to want to actually connect with someone on an intimate level. The problem is more often than not the nagging ratio vs made to feel special dynamic shifts once the novelty wears off and that dance also gets old. But at the core of it is we yearn for a deep connection with someone that makes us feel special so to squeeze a little more joy out of the day to day grind. The benefit is much more emotional than logical so it doesn’t make much sense when you look at it from a cost/benefit context. We’re all hoping to find the ever elusive unicorn...do they exist?

StepfordInTexas · 2019-08-31T17:46:25+00:00

Someone who knows him to come home to.

That’s what my husband says. When he’s with me, it feels like home.

That feeling of being able to completely relax and be comfortable isn’t something you can get with a plate.

Rhyat250 · 2019-08-31T15:23:33+00:00

love ,sex and companionship

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[deleted] · 2019-08-31T13:45:47+00:00

Ummmmmmm....

XJR555 · 2019-08-31T15:39:16+00:00

Lol there isn't one.

Wolfssenger · 2019-08-31T16:09:57+00:00

It all depends on what you withhold until commitment. If you withhold nothing, then nothing and there's no reason and visa versa. Striking the correct balance is one of the things a rpw needs to learn.

ApuAllAlone · 2019-08-31T16:28:48+00:00

Children is the biggest reason.

gamer-girl-peepee · 2019-08-31T16:00:43+00:00

If he dont commit - She prob won’t commit back??

Title	What's the benefit for the man if he commits?
Author	chez_blunts
Upvotes	1
Comments	20
Date	August 31, 2019 12:40 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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