Q4Women: How can I make women think that I don't just want to fuck them, that it's so much more than that, that I'm looking for companionship and love and family?

Willow-girl · 2018-09-30T00:28:06+00:00

How can I make women think

Wait; are you actually looking for the things you describe or just trying to con women into thinking that you are?

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2018-09-29T19:27:55+00:00

by continuing to see them after sex and then asking them to marry you?

Eartherry · 2018-09-30T02:26:49+00:00

The easiest way is to actually want that. Actually want more from a woman than just sex and you'll never have to worry about appearing any other way.

goatismycopilot · 2018-09-29T19:54:12+00:00

I saw this question and thought the purge had started.

TheBookOfSeil · 2018-09-29T20:04:33+00:00

Show them through your actions and don’t scare them off by talking about it too early?

Pope_Lucious · 2018-09-29T20:47:30+00:00

Probably by telling them that, then acting accordingly.

flamingoinghome · 2018-09-30T22:16:24+00:00

Do not have sex with a woman until you have agreed to be in an exclusive romantic relationship. Take her on dates and ask her to be in an exclusive romantic relationship; do not try and have sex with her before this conversation.

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immaculacy · 2018-09-29T22:29:52+00:00

Be a virgin, wait until marriage for sex.

As well as strengthening your relationship, making the sex special, and making her feel good because she knows you really want her and you're serious, waiting until marriage is an important psychological thing for women (and since the woman is happy the man will be happy too so it's good for both genders). (And this is just one reason by the way, there are a lot of reasons to wait.) The reason a diamond ring is traditional for giving the future wife is because it's beautiful, special, and also "useless." You can't use a ring. Same thing with flowers. That's why flowers and jewelry are gifts a woman loves from a man she is in love with. Of course we like them because they're pretty. But if it's a man you want to stay with and mate with, it shows he wants to invest in you, purely in you. Just for your happiness. Because it's a useless item, it only means you care about her enjoying it. You know how you could by a car for your significant other, and it's like ok haha who's the car for, you'll drive it too. (Or anything else that isn't a car but is useful, to be used.) It's nice but that's more of a family thing. It's not a courtshipping gift. A romantic courtshipping gift is something very nice and expensive but can't be used, like a diamond engagement ring. If you give her the wedding ring before you have sex with her she will biologically feel really whole and happy and she will know you really care about her.

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