Q4W: Why is it not OK for men to judge you by your sexual history, yet it is OK for you to ridicule and humiliate virgin men?

hyperrreal · 2017-10-14T15:05:06+00:00

Removed - this is a ridiculously leading and circlejerky post.

Electra_Cute · 2017-10-14T13:31:43+00:00

Go ahead and judge me by my sexual history, I do not care and it is irrelevant. I never ridicule or humiliate virgin males, I actually have a little crush on one.

And why do those who claim that masculinity is 'outdated' and 'toxic' also make fun of men for not being able to get laid?

I have never done that either.

Do you think it would be more optimal to ask the people who actually do claim these beliefs and have said these things?

philomexa · 2017-10-14T14:08:08+00:00

Go ahead and judge me by my sexual history, just know that your opinion is worthless/ignored/forgotten because you are a non-entity in the hierarchy of Things I Give A Shit About.

However, I reserve the right to judge anyone, at any time, for any reason because I'm a human and this is what we like to do (judge people).

I don't presume anyone will care about my judgements either, such is the nature of not giving a fuck about the peanut gallery.

eta: people judge people because they can, outside the youthful and the weak, no one gives a shit about these judgements.

rulenumber303 · 2017-10-14T14:18:51+00:00

In each circumstance I'd have to know the exact situation to know whether it is fair or not. I mean I think it isn't fair to proactively ridicule a virgin man just because he is there and he is virgin, but if some virgin guy is trying to lecture sexually active folks about what sex is all about and he's getting it all so wrong and is acting incredibly self-important and compounding every error by defending it then laugh laugh laugh away. Similarly it isn't particularly fair to throw eggs and insults at a woman in the street because she casually fucked your friend then fucked your other friend and then fucked your cousin without taking the chance to tell any of them she has fucked the others thereby leaving them all to work it out later, but it is totally fair not to invite her out on a date.

[deleted] · 2017-10-14T13:32:41+00:00

It's ok for men to judge me and for me to judge them. I don't feel any suffering at other people's words, only suffering at my own actions/inactions.

Why do you care what people think? Go do your thing and get what you want.

sublimemongrel · 2017-10-14T14:36:47+00:00

Who ridiculed and humiliates virgin men except for other men? Can you give me some examples of women doing this, because I can’t think of this ever happening IRL in front of me.

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goatismycopilot · 2017-10-14T13:40:34+00:00

I don't ridicule men for being virgins. I don't care if they can't get laid either.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-10-14T14:08:11+00:00

"ok" to whom?

goatismycopilot · 2017-10-14T14:27:08+00:00

One thing I find confusing is how often the "fairness" or "equivalency" arguement gets used here to complain about stuff women or feminists apparently do or say when TRP does not give a flying rat about fairness. Okay some bitchy mean chick made fun of a male virgin somewhere. I don't get it.

Lolashaulke · 2017-10-14T14:58:20+00:00

I don't care if you judge my sexual history. I make my own decisions and I'm willing to stand by them. Look, you're going to find douchebags everywhere. There are always going to be people who will take every little thing as an opening to make fun of someone. Those people aren't behaving well, plain and simple. You'll find that sort everywhere.

crackrocksteady7 · 2017-10-14T13:41:57+00:00

You can judge based on whatever

Why do you care? Why do you let dumb feminazis affect you in any way?

Littleknownfacts · 2017-10-14T13:39:34+00:00

I don't care if men judge me by my sexual history. And yes I will continue to make fun of anyone deserving to be made fun of.

Title	Q4W: Why is it not OK for men to judge you by your sexual history, yet it is OK for you to ridicule and humiliate virgin men?
Author	FingersInMyEyes
Upvotes	1
Comments	37
Date	October 14, 2017 1:23 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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