CMV - men can't have good sex with just anyone

DrunkGirl69 · 2016-03-22T22:08:44+00:00

I can guarantee you there are men that exist that just want a warm hole to fuck.

LUClEN · 2016-03-23T03:00:51+00:00

I'm inclined to agree, but I think there may be a lot of men who can.

Reminds me of an old two and a half men bit

PurplepillBro · 2016-03-22T21:34:18+00:00

I'll challenge this part:

First of all, there has to be an emotional connection. I'm trying to fuck a human being, not some warm pile of flesh. There needs to be some kind of real feeling there, or the sex won't be good. I want a partner who will be intimate with me.

This isn't a prerequisite for "good" sex. It's a prerequisite for "excellent" sex or for "meaningful" sex or for "intimate" sex. But a man can have "good" sex without an emotional connection. All that most men really need for "good" sex, i.e. satisfying sex, is a woman who is physically and sexually attractive to him.

DrunkGirl69 · 2016-03-23T01:09:31+00:00

First of, what do you consider an emotional connection? Because their are always emotions tied to sex, like pride, passion, euphoria, happiness, etc. Just not necessarily caring or kind emotions.

Second, you are missing the main difference of male vs female sex drive.

It's very common for a man to look at a woman and based on her physical appearance, get an erection and have a desire to have sex with her. It's much much rarer for a woman to be sexually activated via visual sighting of a specific man.

rockinhard130 · 2016-03-22T23:32:56+00:00

If a woman is hot or attractive I can get it up. Hell there's women that are overweight but if they are kinda cute, I like their attitude and they aren't a bitch and are eager to please, I can deal. My cut off is ugly/nasty or FUPA.

DaphneDK · 2016-03-23T02:12:00+00:00

First of all, there has to be an emotional connection.

In two split seconds I fall in love with everything that is even remotely homo sapies, female and attractive. Prostitutes included. Problem solved.

tallwheel · 2016-03-23T06:03:33+00:00

The fact that plenty of men do use prostitutes proves that plenty of men have either given up on getting "good sex", or their standards for what makes good sex are different from yours. Plenty of dudes who are constantly masturbating and haven't fucked a real woman in years are quite happy to have an ugly woman down to fuck or a prostitute charging a reasonable price.

Ekaj_B · 2016-03-23T06:04:51+00:00

Also, just because I orgasm doesn't necessarily make the sex good. Just like when I don't orgasm (about 30% of the time) the sex isn't necessarily bad.

dicklord_airplane · 2016-03-23T15:36:10+00:00

Id say that for most dudes, average or mediocre sex is far better than extended celibacy. Sex is a constant, nagging need for most men, and getting some crappy sustenance in your belly is way better than starving.

dopesk1 · 2016-03-23T03:25:57+00:00

From experience, For me theres zero point in fcking anything less than an 8/10

[deleted] · 2016-03-23T05:12:00+00:00

I'm not sure if I'm changing your view because I'm not sure I understand it. But I had sex with someone without knowing her name (so no emotions) that I would call good sex. She was probably a 6, but I don't really do numbers. We were just both horny and keen and both had a lot of fun. If I'd seen her again who knows, it might have been shit.

COPCO2 · 2016-03-23T15:24:34+00:00

I don't like one night stands. Stranger sex has never been interesting to me. I'd rather have relationship sex.

Arlybigstickk · 2016-03-25T00:31:59+00:00

This is so complex that I'm beginning to think that you're a lady with a dick. If the bitch isn't star fishing over there, then yup, we make a good match.

Apexk9 · 2016-03-22T21:36:08+00:00

It's because of your sexual style. A Dom will have no trouble ducking anything.

Since you like emotional connection (I agree it makes sex better but I rarely get emotions so it's a catch 22) what I do is I just duck them as if I was emotional invested with lots of passion etc and it usually manifests in the brining out what I want.

But I can duck anyone and enjoy it unless she is a star fish. She has to want to fuck me but I build that up.

You don't kow what a girl will taste like until you already fucking so that's moot. You'll know her smell when you first kiss her neck.

You won't know about how she moves or talks until you're fucking moot.

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Title	CMV - men can't have good sex with just anyone
Author	PurplepillBro
Upvotes	10
Comments	44
Date	March 22, 2016 9:26 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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