If mothers are primary care givers, and women make up most teachers, how does TRP exist, unless it's a natural reaction to circumstance?

Hello All,

My first OP here, so bear with me if I ramble a bit - but, I'll try to be succinct, if I am vague, please just ask clarification questions :)

So, here goes;

Primary Care Givers

As we know, the primary gender that provides care to children through their developmental years, is female. This is apparent in the mother being the main care giver in the home (why else would they usually get the kids in a divorce?), we also know that most teachers in the younger age bracket of children are female too.

Previously Learned Information

We also know that the way a person consciously reacts to stimulus in life, by using previously gained knowledge from experience, and lessons taught by those around you as a child. (Put hand on a hot kettle, you can assume that kettles for the rest of your life will likely burn your mitts if you grab them, for example)

Scientific Theory

People are also able to, use previously gained knowledge and a scientific approach to propose a theory and test it. This is shown within, for example, the theory of relativity, which was from mathematical assertions from known areas, applied in a scientific way with other assertions, to produce an end result. The starting point for all these scientific theories are from a starting known point, and then a theory is proposed, and tested to see if it works.

Natural Reaction

Naturally, animals/humans react is base ways to stimulus (these reactions are usually within the scope of keeping the species alive, when a learned experience isn't able to be used. These natural reactions are designed to stop us jumping off a cliff (which you can't experience to develop a notion that cliffs are bad, m'kay?) We also naturally react to certain stimulus to breed strong offspring, because learning that sex can happen isn't likely going to happen unless you have a natural drive to do it. This would be why females of a species tend to try and breed with the strongest male, for example.

Basis for below assertion/conclusion

Using the above notions, how can a man brought up in such an environment, develop anything other than a Blue Pill mentality about women, unless, the Red Pill theory is based within nature setting rules for the way we react to things?

My conclusion:

If women weren't behaving, or reacting to stimulus (alpha male, rich provider, etc), in a way that Red Pill theory dictates, men wouldn't have been able to set out what we know as Red Pill Theory.

Aaaaaaaaand, Discuss....