I absolutely agree that women should be free to make their own choices and accept responsibilities for them, but why do the feminists often underestimate women's choices?

For example , not many women choose to become politicians and CEOs and I imagine that's because a lot of women prefer to find less time consuming jobs so that they can focus on their families. The feminists instead of respecting the choices of women , they insist that women don't become CEOs because of some "patriarchal conspiracy" to hold women back.

Not only that but some feminists also seem to be looking down on housewives even if these women decided together with their husbands that this is better for the family if they stayed at home.

Also , some feminists seem to look down on you even if you say that you want to make your boyfriend a sandwich!