Girl at bar rejected me found out I was doctor, gave me number, what to do

Archwinger · 2016-09-16T14:59:33+00:00

You know exactly who and what you're dealing with.

Sex-only. Use condoms. Let her think there's kinda sorta maybe a shot at something more for as long as she'll keep fucking you with no strings. When she gets pushy or difficult regarding commitment and no-strings sex, or if she doesn't put out early on, just ghost on her.

Have her meet you somewhere for coffee or a drink. Already have your own drink by the time she gets there so that she has to go buy her own instead of you buying for her. Escalate like normal. Have a second location in mind to jump to. Walk in the park with a good bench for sitting/making out, hitting golf balls, whatever. Something where you can be close and intimate and touch her. From there, move to your place. If she's really down early on and you can tell, skip the second place and just go home.

If she's really difficult, just bail. Golddiggers can be a lot of trouble.

RPShitlord · 2016-09-16T15:04:35+00:00

Whore confirmed. Plate only, condoms always, dispose of it yourself.

FrameWalker · 2016-09-16T15:06:25+00:00

Whenever I see an incentive for sperm jacking I don't leave any soldiers behind. Carry in carry out.

balalasaurus · 2016-09-16T19:24:44+00:00

This is how the scenario will play out should you pursue it.

Right now, you are firmly a BB in her eyes. If you set up a date, she will put out as soon as the situation will allow to secure commitment. It will probably be some of the best sex you will ever have. Following that you will be subjected to ridiculous demands and put through outrageous hoops as she dangles her pussy in front of you like a magical carrot to a dumb mule.

Your game will need to be tight. You can fuck her and leave her but be sure to document everything and most importantly apply every kind of sexual protection you can think of. She sounds especially calculating considering that outside of hearing you being referred to as a doctor and you describing a procedure (which you could easily have been bullshiting), she made the switch from rejecting you to all out propositioning you.

I smell crazy, and I would be very careful around crazy.

omega_dawg93 · 2016-09-16T17:10:14+00:00

go in raw and donate the full DNA sample... have a kid, marry her, & fuck up your life for at least 18 yrs.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-09-16T15:58:02+00:00

Watch yourself with this one. Use your own condoms (lubed ones that will contain spermicide) so you know for sure the condoms are fully functional. Never trust a whore like this one. This is literally the text book definition of whore. She obviously just wants your money, otherwise she wouldn't have shut you down the first time.

itsbooming · 2016-09-16T15:38:00+00:00

Proceed to fuck her then when tired of her introduce her to your buddy "the brain surgeon"

nastynickdr · 2016-09-16T14:56:25+00:00

As long as you dont consider her for a LTR you are good.

knightSwolaire · 2016-09-16T16:39:58+00:00

Gold Digger. Plate only. However... I'm getting a bad feeling you're going to fall into LTR trap with her.

For your sake.. walk.

deadwoodcylon · 2016-09-16T18:07:39+00:00

If your game is weak, forget her and move on.

If your game is strong, plate her. But tread carefully.

RPthrowaway123 · 2016-09-16T15:36:19+00:00

Blow her off, she's a gold digging whore. Not the kind of woman you want to be involved with.

cazzah123 · 2016-09-16T20:51:23+00:00

Imagine if a girl in a big sweater and baggy pants started talking to you, and your like mehhhh shes not that hot.

Then later you see her in a bikini and shes a 10.

See the resemblance

inspiron3000 · 2016-09-16T15:15:52+00:00

Don't understand the question.

You're tall and got rejected.
I have no sympathy.

You find out that the girl is a superficial gold digger and now you are confused what to do about it.

You're seeking advice on whether to smash this girl or move on.
You haven't given us any idea on what outcome you are looking for.

I think you should call her up and propose marriage immediately.
Please act on this advice.

gekkozorz · 2016-09-16T16:43:40+00:00

Enjoy your success. Lots of cynics in this thread saying "dump that whore!"

Nah, no need for that. Is she a whore? Yes. Yes, she is a whore. Most people are whores; we all just have different prices. Question is, can you still have fun with a whore? Yes to that too. Experience is experience. Get it where you can. Sometimes you have to grind on your way across the main quest.

WITH THAT SAID, beware. You know what she wants. Her eyes are green dollar signs right now. She's going to whack you like a pinata get that sweet dosh out of you. "Forgetting" to bring her wallet on a lunch date--that sort of thing. Expect lots of "Oh hey, can you pick this up? Thanks" when you go out for drinks. Over-expensive jewelry and shoes will be required as "mandatory" with clam-access implied to be restricted unless such spoils are acquired.

Fuck all that. Be the cheapest Jew bastard she's ever met. She'll tag along with you for a few dates and maybe a half-decent fuck as she tries to get you on her hook. In the meantime while you're courting her (and not paying for her shit) be the Red Pill badass you've read about on these forums. Apparently your looks didn't impress her initially, but if your personality is intriguing enough, perhaps she'll start to dig you after all. You've already got the height going on, so you're halfway there already.

Just for the love of God, put your wallet away. There's no reason to sink shekels into a potentially shit investment.

[deleted] · 2016-09-16T21:57:04+00:00

Pump and dump baby. Don't get snagged on anything.

the_red_monk · 2016-09-16T15:13:34+00:00

should I contact or just lose the number?

Why not? What have you got to lose?

Side note: this is an obvious case of demonstrated value. The lack of subtlety from women never ceases to amaze me. As soon as you have status she magically changes her tune.

And if I contact how should I handle it?

Tell her you'd like to perform a physical? (jk)

Archwinger already provided sage advice on this, so I'll defer to his comment.

magical_artist · 2016-09-16T15:39:57+00:00

6'3" and a doc. Damn. Sounds like you're the top 20%. Make it work for you.

I'm 6'4", but going for nursing (it pays well out here). Would you recommend medical school? (I do respect the prestige of that MD over RN)

randarrow · 2016-09-16T16:09:57+00:00

You didn't say what you want to happen?

Do you want to fuck with her?

Do you want to fuck her?

Do you want to black list her?

flatox · 2016-09-16T16:56:32+00:00

You should have told her to fuck off, she missed her shot.

RedPillAccount69 · 2016-09-16T16:22:58+00:00

Fuck her once, then never speak to her again.

TheSupr3m3Justic3 · 2016-09-16T16:45:47+00:00

Fuck her, and never call her again, cover your ass for possibly baby/rape drama.

bittr_n_swt · 2016-09-16T17:49:01+00:00

I'm a medical student and it's something I don't like to share with women because of reasons like this...

Of course she's not LTR material. Hit her up and plate her only. Plate material maximum

[deleted] · 2016-09-16T17:53:17+00:00

She has dollar signs in her eyes

stephcurryftw · 2016-09-16T18:11:02+00:00

Pump and Dump with protection.

deci-mator · 2016-09-16T20:21:59+00:00

Enjoy yourself. But you must internalize that AWALT. Have an abundance mentality and do not get attached in any way. Always have your shoes at the door and your keys in your hands.

jovijovi99 · 2016-09-16T16:42:14+00:00

So she didn't like the cover but she likes the book? It's up to you however, she'll move on the moment she meets a richer man.

[deleted] · 2016-09-16T16:52:20+00:00

Pure fantasy post lol.

mzzmuaa · 2016-09-16T17:53:08+00:00

signed consent forms for each encounter. use the hospital MRN label printer to save time for future

DisgruntledWolverine · 2016-09-17T03:08:11+00:00

Schedule a date with her, then don't show up. Then text her "GOTCHA BITCH"

whatwhatinthebutt19 · 2016-09-17T00:01:30+00:00

Plate

Sir_Distic · 2016-09-17T00:25:46+00:00

Quite simply

Next her. Don't contact or anything. She's not worth your time. She'll simply try to use you for money.

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2016-09-17T00:42:57+00:00

Write it on the bathroom wall.

Apexk9 · 2016-09-17T01:02:57+00:00

Fuck her and never call her again.

Pretty much act as if she wants your dick. Make a move and if she does any resistance drop her.

[deleted] · 2016-09-17T02:02:40+00:00

When you text her ask what she was wearing that night or whatever to make it seem like she wasn't the only bimbo who gave you a number. If you do take her out never get exclusive with her. Never imply exclusivity and even if you are not seeing anyone else never see her more than two days a week.

Kalepsis · 2016-09-17T02:24:48+00:00

Grudge-fuck her once. Wear protection. Then never contact her again.

nigborg · 2016-09-21T23:59:04+00:00

Hey man, I totally respect what the other guys in this thread are saying, but I think they have it just a little off. What were you wearing that day/how did you look? A girl in a bar has a lot of defense up by default, aspecially one who probably gets a lot of attention. You probably came off creepy at first, then when she saw that you weren't at the bar by yourself/had friends, she realized she had the wrong impression, and decided she should come apologize. Did she apologize? What was her attitude like? It takes a big person to admit they're mistakes, I think you might have found a keeper. Give her a shot, take things slow, definitely do not have sex until the 3rd or 4th date, then if it turns out that she is sincere, then maybe you can consider taking things to the next level.

Cheers.

improvingme63 · 2016-09-16T18:53:11+00:00

Marry it /s

Title	Girl at bar rejected me found out I was doctor, gave me number, what to do
Author	drinkingdoctor
Upvotes	80
Comments	66
Date	September 16, 2016 2:52 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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