I'm under the impression from my reading that red pill men are betas and red pill women are married to betas.

Why would a man have to learn all these strategies to get women and invest so much time in the red pill if he was an alpha? Wouldn't it just come naturally?

The advice I read on RPW are things like don't disrespect your man, don't withhold sex, and so on. Red pill teaches that women only do that with betas - so by that logic aren't the RPW married to betas? If they have to try so hard to do all these things that women do naturally when they're with alphas? I know tons of hot young women who are naturally sweet, feminine, and submissive to their man - they don't 'strategize' it so - they're just in relationships with badboy asshole jerks who cheat on them and (in some cases) abuse them.

Similar to how I just read on RPW that they "prefer" men with low notch counts. Is it NAWALT? RPW are "proper ladies" who, unlike all other women, aren't attracted to ladies men and chad thundercocks? Or are they trying to tell themselves ego assuaging lies to feel better about being with low N count beta males? As red pill teaches that men with low notch counts are betas, because men who are able to sleep with a variety of hot women will do so, and men with low N counts are just men who can't get hot women.

I also noticed talk on RP and RPW about typical nerdy hobbies like anime, video games, and so on. Would a hot girl/popular guy be spending their time on reddit?

So again I reiterate my opinion/question: Are red pill men and women the losers of the sexual maketplace? If so why are you so condescending to others and spend so much time insulting what other people do? In real life, naturally "alpha" males and naturally feminine women are happy and fairly carefree, not bitter or condescending.

I believe in much of what 'red pill' says about human nature, but most of that is common sense and many people know about it and talk about it, without the terminology of 'red pill' and I'm not sure why 'red pill' is needed.