Although the intended audience is primarily TRP, anyone is welcome to answer these questions.

1.) As asked in the title, what are you most afraid of, growing ugly or becoming useless?

2.) Would you rather receive a compliment on your appearance, your abilities, your character, your personality, or your accomplishments?

3.) What would you like your partner to love you for the most?

4.) How would you like to be described by other people?

There is a curious idea I've seen expressed by a few men inside and outside of TRP. The idea is that women are loved for who they are. Men love women primarily because women are beautiful. Her appearance is part of her. She doesn't have to do anything to be loved. Similarly, society values women simply for having ovaries. Her ovaries come by default, so society intrinsically values women just for being women. Again women are valued just for being themselves. In contrast, men are only loved and valued for what they provide. Resources exist outside the person, so it makes sense that TRP would take this to mean that men are not loved for themselves in the same way that women are loved. Sometimes this is accompanied with envy of the woman's position. New comers to TRP are told not to expect women to love them in the way they want to be loved, i.e. the way that men love women. This is framed as a hard pill for men to swallow.

This perspective seems bizarre to me and perhaps other people because of how we would answer the above questions in comparison to members of TRP. My guess is that members of TRP establish their self identity differently than a non-RP might.