Fascinating GQ article: Interviewing the married woman of Ashley Madison.

Ajaxeler · 2015-04-17T07:50:17+00:00

I'm disgusted by anyone who cheats male or female.

exit_sandman · 2015-04-17T10:16:53+00:00

Interesting patterns.

women who are working full-time and earn good money are overrepresented (especially if they earn more than their partner)
women in their 30s and in unfulfilling relationships/marriages (sounds familiar...?) are overrepresented at AM
women filter out 90% of all men, while men are far less selective; those women who commented on the qualities of their lovers mostly mentioned their higher status (the exception being the one woman who prefered to have boytoys instead, which shifts her priorities from the social to the physical realm)

I probably have forgotten some things, but that's it for the moment.

meehan666 · 2015-04-17T08:51:46+00:00

"It was the hottest sex of my life," she says, beaming. "Porn-star sex." Why haven't they met again since then? "He's Muslim, and it's Ramadan, so I haven't talked to him for a few weeks."

Haha, as a fellow Muslim, I found that part quite awesome. I've done questionable things during my life, but never during Ramadan lol. Its so great how infidelity creates "understanding" between people of different religious and racial backgrounds.

SharkPrivilege · 2015-04-17T08:27:32+00:00

"But in the house, the only way it works is if there's a strong masculine and feminine component. You need to give your husband a blow job every day. He should feel like a king. Seeking it out in my sexual life is to make up for it in my real life. I want my husband to be dominant and more successful. I don't want to be the man in the relationship."

refutesstupidnotions · 2015-04-17T08:41:11+00:00

I find the writer's loser narrative annoying. I get it, he's a milquetoast. Please stop.

ianturpiesmoustache · 2015-04-17T08:30:59+00:00

Regarding the woman he interviewed, at least her husband knew what was going on (in a don't-ask-don't-tell kind of way), and was able to decide if he was comfortable with it happening.

As for the women who are using the site to flat-out cheat on their partners, they're scummy and gross. I hope their partners find out and tell them to fuck off.

sohamster · 2015-04-17T12:32:11+00:00

I am disgusted by the men and women. I am disgusted at Ashley Madison. Cheating is for losers.

PetticoatRuled · 2015-04-17T21:31:03+00:00

These are women no man can satisfy. They crave the excitement of the new and the heady sex that comes with it. The reason they are more selective with the men they choose for affairs is because they can be (because they're women).

There are men no one woman can satisfy. Same thing.

The women in this article are working full-time and in their 30s. But women in their 20s, 40s and 50s are also cheating. Housewives cheat with men in their social circles and neighbors. Working women cheat with work colleagues. Some just post on normal dating sites. Most won't go to Ashley Madison for their affairs.

ECoast_Man · 2015-04-18T23:12:40+00:00

I have thought about entering into this as a possible stag for married women. Not as a main outlet, but just for shits.

Any TRP men with experience here? Isn't there a cost and such? Does this actually work?

P.s. My background to thinking about this is that I travel all the time for work, and I thought it might be a decent way to get dates in a new city without all the work...

meehan666 · 2015-04-17T15:09:31+00:00

Is it wrong that after reading this, no matter how hot and heavy it sounds, as a man I'm more than a little disgusted by these woman.

With all due respect, yes. This should not disgust you, rather, this should be refreshing, as all this makes perfect sense. If you can't satisfy your partner AND they have the ability to do better, they will. It might take some time, but eventually it will happen. Why wouldn't it? You trade up when you can in all other aspects of life, why not "relationships" too? The only thing disgusting about that article is how pathetic and weak those "men" married to the cheater women were. They deserve to be humiliated.

Title	Fascinating GQ article: Interviewing the married woman of Ashley Madison.
Author	Moesislak
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Date	April 17, 2015 7:45 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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