Why does ignoring women work?

Copypastable · 2019-09-24T15:16:07+00:00

Attention to them is like crack. Men also crave attention but they generally can set that aside, no problem.

Women generally can't help it, so they end up doing dumbass things that can lose a man's commitment, like monkey branching during a relationship.

If you see women for what they really are, it's a lot harder to get under the pussy whip spell.

Plectic · 2019-09-24T14:55:54+00:00

The unassailable laws of supply and demand. Low supply of attention keeps its perceived value high.

KillaJewels · 2019-09-24T18:10:54+00:00

People naturally gravitate towards something that is perceived to be in high demand and low supply, because it is perceived as valuable. In this sense, value is retained and can only appreciate. It's why people spend big $$$ on limited release shoes, artwork, cars, etc.

So when she sees you ignoring her when countless other dudes are always super attentive, nice and always try to impress her, she searches for the answer.

Of course, to her, the only answer is you have so much more value than the rest. She instinctively picks this up, through her detection of your confidence. In the context of dating, this is one of the biggest reasons why confidence is so key.

jm51 · 2019-09-24T19:55:47+00:00

Like golf and a few other sports, the more you want to win, the worse you play.

precious-peaches · 2019-09-24T18:50:15+00:00

Because nothing is more repulsive than desperation. Keeping a cool head is key, works the other way around just as well.

LackToesToddlerAnts · 2019-09-24T14:58:25+00:00

Humans are wired to be accepted and acknowledged in general; we are social and pack mentality creatures and being accepted increases survival rate.

With that being said our brains pickup on things that stand out the most whether it be in patterns, behavior or looks. If at a party everyone likes you, is paying attention to you, thirsty over you except for this one person then you are going to pick up on it.

The next step is the brain trying to come up with a logical solution for why that is. Is it because he has a gf? Does he not like me? Does he think I'm not in his league? Does he not think I'm attractive?

This creates intrigue which is precursor to attraction.

vintageBiscuit · 2019-09-24T15:08:03+00:00

I second OP.

I recently found that in some group that majority is man, even tho I avoid being most funny clown or alpha male out of the pack - girls do come to me personally.

That might come with my shown experties and them building trust in me (applies to guys too). But this seems different comparing to BP days.

Domebeers · 2019-09-24T18:45:31+00:00

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Women crave attention. That's a foundational building block of game.

BurnoTaurus · 2019-09-24T20:02:23+00:00

Women are suscept to constant questioning. When you ignore a woman shes like "omg why is he ignoring me wtf?" The fact that you are ignoring her is a sign you arent immediately drawn in by her looks etc. This can come across as a strength. It can be a sign that you're the type of man who can actually judge quality. This is the key. Women are suscept to constant questioning. Which is why they need a man as an object by which to validate themselves.

A shitty man, a needy, desperate man, you cant trust his judgements. did he fuck me because im quality or because my legs were open long enough?

NobodyP1 · 2019-09-25T00:10:50+00:00

It’s the law of least interest. Whoever cares the least in a relationship or sale. Has the most power.

Think of a car salesmen. You go in see a car you want and getting excited over it. He knows you will most likely pay full price and won’t negotiate with you.

If you go in nonchalantly being i don’t know or I’m not sure. He will most likely negotiate with you.

This is something that is so true in both relationships and sales. I did door to door sales and had options of prices that go super low as well as prices that are super high.

Snowboard18 · 2019-09-24T17:02:56+00:00

Because I’d say about 95% of women get all of their self confidence and esteem from men checking them out and giving them attention, and when a man just doesn’t give a fuck about them it shows you already fuck a lot, and your giving off the vibe that your better than her(higher SMV) which women find attractive as fuck

Vermillion_Rx · 2019-09-24T19:19:31+00:00

I don't forgive you for asking this question. Just kidding, I'm just shitting you.

Because women get rewarded and validated 24/7 by simps of all creeds for just having tits, ass, a pretty face and breathing. When Chad comes along and says psyche, I ain't approving of you, she loses her shit and wonders why Chad isn't approving.

She goes into overdrive trying to get something she thinks she deserves, and who can blame her, she gets it in unlimited quantities all day every day. Imagine if every woman 24/7 just opened her legs for you on a whim and then one girl, even if she was less attractive than a lot of hotties you were with, said no. You'd be like "WTF?".

You'd probably try to win her over because no one has ever done that before and not because there's something inherently special about her compared to other women

keepstay · 2019-09-24T19:46:37+00:00

I am also new to the trp- question- so isn't this contradicting the trp principle of " approach..approach...approach" is the best way to get women? Isn't approaching a woman and asking her out/ asking for her number a sort of validation? Don't we then fall into the same bucket as the AFC?

So do we ignore or do we approach?...what is the right answer to this?

thefks · 2019-09-25T10:16:08+00:00

But what happens when we have both a confident female and a confident man? Both strong with their own independent lives and both knowing that they just share a partnership and not become part of each other.

Does it work on these women too? Is it still a game of "least interest" ?

SalporinRP · 2019-09-25T12:09:10+00:00

Because hot women are so used to 99% of guys blowing up their phone being thirsty fags that when a guy doesn't respond to their text it short circuits their brain and they start getting self-conscious.

Title	Why does ignoring women work?
Author	MrMoonwalker
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Date	September 24, 2019 2:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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