Threesome Attempt #1

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November 1, 2019
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TLDR: Got advice on here to just invite girls over for a threesome without telling them. Sort of followed it, It didn't work the one time I tried it, but it's still probably decent advice.

2 girls involved: HB6 and HB8

HB6 was one of my better plates. Great in bed, never cancelled on me, didn't mind driving 40min each way. We fucked a total of 11 times but lately she's been pushing for dinner or drinks beforehand to which I had yet to agree until last night. She had mentioned in conversation multiple times that she hadn't had a threesome but would be down for it.

HB8 was brand new. an old plate converted to friend recommended me as apparently HB8 was looking for uncut dick and I was the man for the job. Damn. OK. Thanks TRP.

Got HB8's snap about a month ago and requested some pics. Turns out she has a BF and was operating in secret so logistics were difficult but we decided on Halloween. Mentioned there would be another girl and she was cool. When she reaches out to you because she wants your dick, you pretty much have the mario star frame.

Met at a bar. HB6 was dressed up creatively, but not exactly that sexy. HB6 has a great body but the face is meh. She also doesn't dress to show off her body and probably isn't all that confident about it. HB8 shows up in the sexiest fucking pair of heels i've seen in a long time and short shorts showing off an ass I had no idea she had. I'd have placed her at a 7 based on the pics. Clearly she was considerably hotter than HB6.

We seemed to be hitting it off over drinks. Turned the conversation sexual after about 10min by talking about weird sexual experiences. Everyone was vibing. Went to play some games and got a text from HB6 saying "hell no, she's boring AF", and I immediately realized she was jealous. I isolated HB6 and she said "don't tell me you're going to fucking ditch me for that whore". I had all to do to keep from laughing at the absurdity of that statement. I responded with a quickly pre-calculated response of "She's down and you're not. She has priority". I must have delivered it with enough justification and conviction because HB6 got her things and politely told HB8 something came up and she had to leave. Got a nasty text from HB6 later saying she wouldn't be seeing me anymore.

HB8 was a little disappointed but I acted like it was no big deal and left with her shortly after. Basically dropped one plate for an upgrade. I would have been disappointed if HB8 wasn't as freaky but she rose to the occasion quite well. 10/10 would try again, happy with the outcome even though it wasn't exactly what I wanted. I have a few more ideas of potentials for a threesome with HB8 and I since i know she's down.


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Title Threesome Attempt #1
Author MotiMorphosys
Upvotes 58
Comments 25
Date 01 November 2019 07:37 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/293621
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/dq9651/threesome_attempt_1/
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[–]Jabbermouth46 points47 points  (2 children) | Copy

GJDM. Seems like your task (of achieving a threesome) was failed successfully. Now you have an even hotter girl who’s down for threesomes.

Godspeed.

[–][deleted]  (1 child) | Copy

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[–]MotiMorphosys[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Still haven't had an HB9 so I'd be ok with trading up again...

[–]-ThePathIsTheGoal-23 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy

Your failures are greater than most men’s successes. Keep it up brother.

[–]Zanford1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Alexander's Ptolemy?

[–]Onein1024th11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

anything you would do different next time?

[–]MotiMorphosys[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not sure, perhaps meet at my house and make some drinks myself and chill on the couch with some music on instead

[–]WIA20XX9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

The way you're going about this, is that you're tasked with finding a girl acceptable to your primary.

All I can say is good luck with that.

[–]MotiMorphosys[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

What do you mean by acceptable to your primary??

[–]Mzo20161 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

that your main plate doesnt feel offended by the other girl you bring

[–]Manu27uk15 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy

HB6 will come back

[–]blysol0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

2 days tops

[–]MotiMorphosys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wouldn't be surprised if she does. Also wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't. At this point in my journey I've finally internalized it's not worth worrying about

[–]Zanford1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Great field report. You held frame and earned an upgrade (who was a new notch) for it. You're probably right that the issue was new girl being hotter (and dressing to show it). The preselection probably helped you with new girl, even though Hb6 was less hot (and, as you said, Hb8 was yours to lose as she was a referral to your dick, so you hardly needed preselection).

And yes you should absolutely pursue 3ways with HB8. Since you established that frame from before even meeting her, it will be easier vs if you tried to talk an existing plate into it (the HB6 being an example). My best results with three-ways and one-sided-open arrangements has been when establishing that frame from first meeting.

[–]MotiMorphosys[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

If you've had success have you showed the girls pics of each other beforehand? I decided to avoid that as all it could do was cause objections I'd be less likely to get in the moment.

[–]Zanford1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think you are right, I don't think it would help. When girls see pics of other girls they are just instinctively competitive, and it's very easy to back out at that step...of course, they are competitive in person too, but in person they can be interacting and get into that warm fuzzy headspace, get touchy feely, etc. and you have more ability to guide the interaction. Basically, I suspect that the aural and tactile sensations of each girl to the other are a benefit, whereas the visual stimuli of the other girl is more of a competitive trigger (depends, though, some straight-ish girls do get visually turned on by other girls).

I never explicitly showed pics for the purposes of saying 'here's who the other girl will be'. The only time the girls saw pics ahead of time was when the threeway was me + a primary who had a couple's account on a dating site and used it to find a few thirds, and therefore pics were de facto the first step...and sites/apps is a difficult way to do it, much better to go through social circles or 'referrals' like you did. There are more other couples using apps/sites (or regular dudes offering relationships) than there are solo girls just looking to be a third. And most avowed lesbians on sites/apps are ghastly.

I've also never done the meet up at a public venue like you did (except in those same dating site/apps), the way most of my three ways happened (and it hasn't been a lot) were inviting ppl over who already knew each other (to my place or one of the girl's places) or when we were the last three people at the place after a party (and in one case the girls were roommates, so easy logistics. They later had a falling out but idk if that was related to our threeway, and not my problem anyway).

If you had already been at your place with the two girls, it's possible the HB6 would not have bounced, as it's easier to nope out from a public venue, and in public she might be more self conscious about the other girls' better looks. Ofc, since you were meeting HB8 for the very first time, it's probably better that you met at a public venue, she might've declined to go to the place of a guy she'd never met (or accepted but peggd you as weird). Hindsight is 20/20, but one option would've been to meet just the HB8 at the bar, then have HB6 join once you got back to your place. But if HB6 lives 40 minutes away the timing's tricky.

There's some chance HB6 will hit you up again (b/c she left due to you having hotter preselection and higher situational SMV). If she does and you're still interested, act like nothing happened and try to schedule a threeway with her and HB8 again. Have an unspoken frame that of course the point of meeting up with her again would be a three way, and don't let her try to talk you into seeing only her or something.

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Probably only works when the primary feels superior to the new applicant.

The big thing I noticed was that you saw through HB6's statements for what they were ==> jealously. And then you ignored them. This is a skill the beginners need.

You have high quality problems. This was a success.

[–]ChemicalGiraffe1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Whats the point of this? Its ASK TRP not story time trp.

[–]Yoasted5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Although you’re right. I think the occasional story like this good is motivational and something we can learn from. I guess his question after all this is what could he have done better?

[–]Asktrpthrowaway4207 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Humble brag

[–]thebadguy892 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly the main sub is kinda intimidating to post in lol, everyone who posts there is either a pickup legend or an elite EC or some shit.

Maybe we should have a sub for just field reports like this one

[–]Reprimanded_Duck0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I got my story post removed for this bullshit rule too. This subs mods are filled with inconsistencies.

[–]ReasonablyGoodMexica0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Hahaha. Too bad the post died, but I still got to keep the 'mario star frame' phrase for myself.

[–]MotiMorphosys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How does a post die?

[–]Time_Animal_-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

You fucked up by acknowledging the HB6 (see : HB4)'s jealousy. Your best chance was to ignore her and let her follow along. Instead she throws a fit to try to gain back control.



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