Masturbating...

HB3234 · 2019-11-11T17:25:50+00:00

You are young and full of hormones. Obviously keep track that you are not losing hours and hours to it, all things in moderation.

However, it is good to know your body. Know how to make yourself orgasm. If you know what pleases you, you don't need to sleep with a lot of people to learn what you like in bed!

Women's libidos tend to be more "reactive" as we leave puberty and get older. One of the ways to keep libidos lively and active is to masturbate. Sex therapists advise women with low libidos to masturbate before bed. So the more you masturbate, you may find you want it more and more; moderation is important here.

FightDragonGetGold · 2019-11-11T05:54:20+00:00

You yourself said it makes you lazy!

Go to the NoFap forums and read some journals. I asked a similar question a week back and have started the 90 day NoFap challenge... No Nut November lol.

It's actually made me realise a lot of hard truths about myself. What coping mechanisms I rely on - where in my childhood they stem from - and how to potentially quit them. Maladaptive daydreaming, and my addiction to fantasy, was a big realisation for me this week.

rthayerf · 2019-11-11T02:13:43+00:00

r/nofap the guilts there for a reason, you're confusing a natural bodily function to believe something artifical. I'll tell you what I wish someone told me when I was 15. Don't, just don't, or you've got a potential life ahead of you full of pornography addiction and unrealistic standards.

CultistHeadpiece · 2019-11-11T01:11:43+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5wYD1xMa5nRmfhhrBmOFRa5WjUjwrt6s

freudhadapoint · 2019-11-14T19:47:30+00:00

This is a tough one. As women, upholders of virtue in society, we cannot glorify instant gratification. But on the other hand, if I don't get off on a regular basis, I can't think straight to perform my role well for my captain. It's tricky, I guess it's all about balance.

Zegiknie · 2019-11-11T09:17:47+00:00

Well. I have always been masturbating, and orgasm often and easily, and am very happily married with a satisfying sex life.

My friend never masturbates, has never orgasmed. This made her resent sex once life got busier with kids, so her lovelife dwindled and her marriage is on the rocks.

Orgasms burn calories and have plenty health benefits. Better to be relaxed and just do it.

Pola_Lita · 2019-11-11T03:26:15+00:00

If you're not doing it to the exclusion of all other things or in place of things that are more important, I can't see a problem.

JaneAdamz · 2019-11-11T05:00:29+00:00

A woman masturbating is seen as attractive because it shows they are sexually available. Men masturbating is just indicating their lack of skill at getting a woman. But this is just the most primal way we view masturbation between the sexes. I don't think there's anything wrong with you doing it on a regular basis as long as you don't fantasize too much or watch porn because this might inhibit you from orgasming when you have sex.

Eugenius666 · 2019-11-11T02:44:48+00:00

If it feels good, do it. The important thing is you are comfortable with your own sexuality and you know how to get yourself off. That puts you leagues ahead of a lot of women. To know thyself, and to know what buttons to push, will only help you have better sexual relationships in the future. To me, that sounds pragmatic and healthy.

party_dragon · 2019-11-11T09:36:11+00:00

Do as much as you can. Also, try different things; not just in/out, not just vibrator, and not just lying on the bed rubbing your vulva against a pillow either... get to know your body ,how it works, what kind of triggers you have etc. will help you a lot when you're having sex with partner(s).

Title	Masturbating...
Author	Tepid_Teal
Upvotes	8
Comments	18
Date	November 11, 2019 12:10 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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