So im talking to this guy whos really great and checks a bunch of boxes for me (respectful, trustworthy, hardworking, loyal) but he puts me on a pedestal and comes off as a doormat sometimes. there have been times during conflict that ive been rude when i shouldnt have and if that were me i wouldve just peaced out and walked away, but he doesnt. but he also does this thing where i share things with him and he doesnt have much to respond with and i cant tell if hes just introverted/not interested/not intellectually capable. It sometimes makes me feel suffocated and i can tell he likes me more than i like him and sometimes i want to break it off because i dont know how to navigate the relationship. i kinda freeze up when hes still nice to me and wants me even after everything and idk if im just crazy and ungrateful for this man!