Found LTR and her Ex had texted.

66pisstrooperorder66 · 2019-11-18T10:15:51+00:00

You did well I think it’s over pal the fact she got furious at you seeing her insta means there is more content. You did well though left the situation I think stop responding if possible.

alexanderthegroovy · 2019-11-18T10:54:13+00:00

Talking to exes for ANY reason is a huge red flag - remember women use trickle truth.

Downgrade her to a plate and start seeing other women.

hoopingblob · 2019-11-18T10:52:30+00:00

Next her. Looks like she's hiding stuff from you. The moment you break up she will hoo on her exes dick I tell you.

whammyfeet · 2019-11-18T18:45:40+00:00

I would just let it be. She’s not your girl. Cowboy the fuck up and accept that. She’s out there pursuing and making herself available To other men. She’s talking to her ex. She’s not relationship material. It’s easier for me to say this being 36... but don’t commit to social media girls. Every social media and messaging apps is just a dating app. When your girl has whatsapp, Facebook, insta, snap, kik... she’s on 5 dating apps. There is NOTHING that ANY of these apps do that her phone doesn’t already do... aside from bringing constant and new men to her on a silver platter.

Just relax, let her do her, remove your commitment, be less available, the less time, energy, and effort, and attention to her. I’d redirect my effort toward working on my physique, career, my social/hobby life, and meeting other women. I’d dump a whole bucket of freedom on her head and give her nothing but dick, indifference, and fun. Everything between us would be light, flirty, and brief. I’d even encourage her to explore her options. In the mean time if she decides to delete all the social media shit and work on bettering her self and exploring and committing on how to be a partner worthy of your commitment then great.

JameisBong · 2019-11-18T12:05:22+00:00

Keep banging her, but she can't be your main chick. She shouldn't be anything more than a plate. Her reaction is everything you need to know.

Gaidsbola · 2019-11-18T13:02:58+00:00

Soft next. Demote to plate and game other girls.

volvostupidshit · 2019-11-18T11:14:53+00:00

It is over pal. The earlier you accept it the easier it is for you to get back up and move on.

kclanton80 · 2019-11-18T18:55:09+00:00

There is no way to know for sure if there is more to it. You messed up by not asking her to show the rest of her chats on the spot. Now she has had time to cover her tracks a bit.

Your basically going to have to guess as to wether she is being honest. That fact that she felt such shame kinda makes me feel like she has something to hide though.

MattyAnon · 2019-11-18T20:35:38+00:00

but she got angry

Because she has more to hide.

she then started insisting there was nothing ‘serious’ on it

"It's nothing serious" is what women say when they cheat and fuck someone else.

I didn’t respond and told her I’ll message her the following day. What to do ? Hard next or am I overreacting ?

Her explanation doesn't add up. There's more to it than this. She got angry because there's more that she wanted to stay hidden.

Aokp · 2019-11-18T13:35:16+00:00

First strike means plate, enjoy your new pussys she does not have to know

2019-11-18T14:26:58+00:00

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IAmEnlightened · 2019-11-18T16:38:07+00:00

She’s probably trickle truthing you. Even if she isn’t that behaviour is unacceptable. Get rid of her and fuck a few sluts to reset yourself and re gain abundance mentality.

KrissVectorEOC · 2019-11-18T10:46:12+00:00

How long have you guys been together and how serous is it? What are your ages?

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-11-18T19:24:27+00:00

Demote to plate or hard next. I'd suggest the latter.

volvostupidshit · 2019-11-21T10:24:00+00:00

If your stomach won't react every time you think about it then you can keep her as a plate. If it does then you have to next her for your own sake.

anicebigrodforyou · 2019-11-18T15:52:34+00:00

what a filthy whore. you know this now. treat her accordingly.

Gaidsbola · 2019-11-18T13:03:07+00:00

Soft next. Demote to plate and game other girls.

YouWannaPutMoneyOnIt · 2019-11-18T13:56:28+00:00

Why cut her off when you could downgrade her to a plate?

FiveStarTendieDinner · 2019-11-19T02:19:13+00:00

Ghost her ass. Fuck more bitches.

DWS33_ · 2019-11-19T03:21:30+00:00

hard next. i learned my lesson

Backthatpassup451 · 2019-11-18T23:01:44+00:00

You’re insecure bro. “I wanted to see what new iPhone was like” stop lying. You wanted to snoop through her phone.

NexusReflexX · 2019-11-18T23:52:38+00:00

Lol you went through her phone?

And dint bukkshit like you were seeing her phone cause its new.

Tousen71 · 2019-11-18T18:11:08+00:00

Dude, why’d you go through her phone?

That’s some hoe shit.

1) You’re RP (I assume) and are in a relationship, so ultimately purple pill. This means you need to accept your girl will at some point cheat behind your back.

2) When you go looking for shit, you will find it. You clearly seem insecure in the relationship if you went STRAIGHT to her messages (I’d grab my phone too, you weirdo) which means that your SMV is lower than hers.

At this point the trust is severely damaged. Either talk it out like adults or move on.

Whatever happens get in the gym, get on your purpose, and stop getting mad when your BP bubble gets popped for next time.

Title	Found LTR and her Ex had texted.
Author	Rp997
Upvotes	12
Comments	32
Date	November 18, 2019 10:10 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/dy1bci/found_ltr_and_her_ex_had_texted/
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