Help me manipulate...

Zegiknie · 2019-11-19T10:26:35+00:00

Send him naughty pics while you are in the room with him.

Start touching him under the table at family dinner time. Just footsie, you filthy minded lot

Bend over a lot unnecessarily in front of him

Wear a perfume he likes and sit on his lap, wrap your arms round his neck.

Call him upstairs to help you with something. When he gets up there expecting a shit task, be naked or in lingerie in a disgraceful position.

Sit behind him and start rubbing his neck and shoulders, nuzzle him

You are welcome. Since I'm now getting divorced you might want to ignore my tips though.

szsunshine · 2019-11-19T18:32:44+00:00

Ask for help zipping / Unzipping a top or dress, ask for help putting on a necklace.

Eugenius666 · 2019-11-19T08:20:33+00:00

What is the endgame here? Romance should lead to more sex, right? Or do you want more romance just for the sake of more romance? I guess it all boils down to what you mean by "romance" and if it's a means to an end or not. Scenario 1 above sounds like an awful tease to me. Having to leave for work while my wife is standing there in hot lingerie would make me late for work. How about flashing some of that when he gets home from work???

HB3234 · 2019-11-19T17:43:09+00:00

Sometimes I "accidentally" get too much lotion out of the bottle when getting ready so I offer him the extra... gives me an excuse to give him a quick shoulder or hand rub (where he is always sore from a physical job). Any excuse for a lingering touch, really! Slow down the quick peck on the cheek, or sneak ina longer, more passionate kiss when the little ones are occupied.

rpMadler · 2019-11-19T14:46:46+00:00

I don't really have any good ideas to add, but I wanted to say how much I like the idea, not of forcing romance, but of deliberately creating an environment where romance can spontaneously happen.

Zegiknie · 2019-11-19T16:40:41+00:00

I do not understand why your post has been down voted like this. Considering how few people have anything to suggest to increase romantic opportunities in their marriage, you'd think it would be more welcome.

I mean I know it has the word manipulate in the title but seriously? Its a valuable question and related answers are useful in a marriage.

Sobinia · 2019-11-19T22:00:10+00:00

Here are some things that "tricked" a guy that was totally against me initiating intimacy (as far as I can tell now, he wanted sex to be viewed as something scarce and valuable, therefore becoming the "gatekeeper" of it), into starting sex with me - and thinking that he was the one who wanted it first:

Sending him pictures of sexy lingerie or a bathing suit I "just happened to buy".
Asking him where the clitoris is (during a conversation while we were alone), pretending that I don't understand him (he was Russian-speaking and my Russian wasn't the best back then) and asking him to show me its location. After that, I went to another room and closed the door, telling him that I wanted to finish a drawing. Five minutes later, he couldn't help it anymore, came into the room and almost demanded that I undress, because he was certain that I was "putting the newly found information into practice" (and he was really into girls doing so).
Doing sit-ups in front of him, panting (I wasn't in the best shape then and wanted to do 200 in a row, just like him) and taking my shirt off while doing so, because I didn't want it to soak in sweat. I had to go back home in it on the next day and didn't want the piece of clothing to stink while I spend a few hours on the bus. After getting to a point where I couldn't do any more sit-ups, I'd walk up to him (he'd usually stand besides me and count my sit-ups), put my arms around him and let my body lean against his. The fact that it made him feel strong, manly and "stable", me exercising for him and wanting to be beautiful, as well as being shirtless, warm and breathing heavily into his ear was usually enough to turn him on (not to mention pheromones).

paladine76a · 2019-11-19T13:01:54+00:00

Damn this is a tough one. I myself am not romantic at all. My wife knows this though. Made it very clear at the beginning of the relationship I hate being fake and trying to be romantic for a man is very fake. I just can't do it.

She struggles with it sometimes so I just try and spend time with her but I am very anti social at times. If your husband is anything like me I wouldn't suggest forcing it.

Intimacy is always best when it's natural. Not everyone is a romantic inside. Just enjoy the time together you have and make the most of those moments. There is no problem with making him set aside time for you though. Just keep it limited.

Title	Help me manipulate...
Author	Zegiknie
Upvotes	29
Comments	24
Date	November 19, 2019 7:52 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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