Are boyfriends mostly a status symbol for women?

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November 23, 2019
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What’s been your experience?


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Title Are boyfriends mostly a status symbol for women?
Author OlderRedBrother
Upvotes 96
Comments 52
Date 23 November 2019 01:59 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/296301
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/e0band/are_boyfriends_mostly_a_status_symbol_for_women/
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[–][deleted]  (4 children) | Copy

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[–]MultiMidsets47 points48 points  (2 children) | Copy

It's F U C K I N G CRAZY.

[–]cracksniffer666[🍰] 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's the way I feel about it. Go see my recent post on this sub. I understand it, but I'm still baffled by it. It seems like I'm walking through a haze

[–]Metalcrazyx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There is another option. If prostitution is legal where you live, and you are stacked with cash, and you value your free time / hate drama, it's a logical way. Plates can get pregnant, some of my buddies almost got their bitches pregnant even with condom on. A hooker won't baby trap you, probably won't accuse you, and it's time efficient

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Right.

[–]kclanton8061 points62 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yup women flaunt their man like the WWe championship belt. All to make their girlfriends jealous.

[–]cracksniffer666[🍰] 22 points23 points  (4 children) | Copy

Lol watching Smackdown now.. True though. If you "aren't good enough" for one of them, their 20 friends will know in the next 24 hours to stay away from you. If you happen to be funny or charming, you'll be wrangled into everything to do with their friends. It's never about you as a man/person. Some men need to face that.

[–]jm5126 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's never about you as a man/person.

This is from an old post on WRP, I may be paraphrasing:

*A woman wants a man who is awesome and treats her good enough.

A man wants a woman who is good enough and treats him awesome.*

[–]cracksniffer666[🍰] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy shit. This is extra true.

[–]Hungboy69694202 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I mean men do this with attractive women. We show off how hot she is

[–]cracksniffer666[🍰] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

It doesn't define our self-worth though lol

[–]Massap24152 points153 points  (6 children) | Copy

It’s their ultimate validation

[–]NobodyP165 points66 points  (4 children) | Copy

If the guy has a relatively high SMV that’s 100% true

[–]Hungboy69694202 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I mean if she's a hb3 she's gonna flaunt her bf who's a 5.

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[–]hrm08940 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A 3/10

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

/thread

[–]RedLegendx73 points74 points  (6 children) | Copy

That’s what I felt way back when I was ignorant of the red pill.

My very first LTR wanted me to hang out with her everywhere, it literally started to feel like I was her trophy, she wanted to show me off to everyone and everything.

[–]Hungboy696942028 points29 points  (3 children) | Copy

Literally had an ex tell me how she brought me to a bar when we first started dating to show me off to her friends

[–]NeedRealityShock17 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy

They do it to spite their ex and make him jealous. Simple as that.

These bitches are petty beyond any normal guys imagination. Never have I felt more like a tool.

[–]ovrload8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Just pump n’dump never invest much emotional energy into a female. it isn’t worth it bro

[–]NeedRealityShock8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dunno man, pump n'dump never did anything for me. I'm Bluepill the Cuck Maximus.

Anyway, I'm old enough to choose my poison.

[–]LordFa910 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

I know how that feels. Gal i was dating for 2 months told everyone i was her BF and kept talking about me to her social circle

[–]Hungboy69694201 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Love when they tell their friends about the things you do to her in the bedroom

[–][deleted]  (5 children) | Copy

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[–]giantfireplace14 points15 points  (4 children) | Copy

That’s the beauty and the tragedy of the redpill. You can understand these things only to have them happen to you.

There is no winning the game, it goes on forever.

[–][deleted]  (2 children) | Copy

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[–]giantfireplace0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Go back to playing video games and let the adults talk you cuck

[–]RedHoodhandles46 points47 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yes. Absolutely. So wtf? Some answers here.. Get that fact straight, once and for all:

Women are sex objects. Men are status objects.

Since somebody brought it on point a few days ago, you can even shorten it:

Women are sex. Men are status.

[–]krunchtimer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Women are sex objects. Men are status objects.

Great point.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy

MRP guy here.

If i could tell one thing to the younger generation of men it would be to not date a girl seriously till 25+ and maybe that’s even too early.

[–]Qba19945 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Im 20 and my GF 17 told me that she loves me (yesterday). It was kinda cute, but I didn’t think of it as I would if I were still bluepilled. I just kissed her at forehead and said “ahh..;)”

You suggest just enjoying the moment and not thinking about spending future together?

[–]WolfofAllStreetz8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ah the young me. Enjoy the moment but whatever you do don’t get anyone pregnant or marry her.

Work on you, your career, money, fitness and mental health and you will never worry about getting girls. Don’t ever put a woman before your own interests.

[–]Hungboy69694200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Understandable however a gf is often the best way for a young man to improve sexually

[–]Haytch12346 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Its another box to tick off.

[–]AshyBoneVR49 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes.

If at all possible, they want to feel like they have the power and all the options. As soon as they feel otherwise, the shit tests start a flying and they try to branch swing as soon as possible.

[–]TheStumblingWolf3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I once read that for women picking a boyfriend is like picking a job. Every candidate has a list of positive and negative traits, and they weigh these to make a decision. I remember my ex wife always asked me what things about her made me love her. Like she wanted specific reasons and I always said "I don't know, I just feel it".

[–]VisiblePlan6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

having an alpha guy is her life goal, so yes, it is.

[–]acp_rdit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just another fashion accessory, like her purse or shoes

[–]alexanderthegroovy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes.

[–]Filmguy0001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It depends. If the guy she is with is physically attractive or exceptionally wealthy then yes. However if it is for other reasons such as temporary validation, attention or for resources (he helps pay bills, buys her things that she needs, helps support her child) then no.

[–]botanicalroots1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Having a quality mate Its a boost to their fragile selfworth, and validates her sole purpose of their existence (reproduction), It also a guarantee that their physichal intimacy needs are fullfilled.... women need constant sex for not going crazy or depressed

[–]flipdoggers5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

God damn guys. No. Masculine and feminine energy are attracted to each other, this is a huge part of the sidebar.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

what is this about masculine and feminine energy are attracted - you have something to say but I'm not deciphering it

[–]flipdoggers1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Have you ever been in a relationship? Have any of the people on this page???? I shouldn't have to explain this shit lol. How do you feel when you hold a girl in your arms? How do you think she feels when she's held by you?

[–]masterpiece001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If their boyfriends are over 33 years old, part of the top 20% and a man of status then yes, they are status symbols for women.

If they are beta providers while she is still fucking other men before getting the above man than they are a plate for women whom she is embarrassed to mention to family and friends.

[–][deleted]  (2 children) | Copy

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[–]empatheticapathetic1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You think your girl is impressed with your application of morality?



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