How can I talk to bf about red pill ? How to word it?

gin_berry · 2019-11-29T19:41:48+00:00

Talk about specific behaviors (yours and his) that you like or dislike, rather than presenting the entire ideology

Muchadoaboutcass · 2019-11-29T20:26:49+00:00

Why would any woman in her right mind talk to her boyfriend about the RP? Especially Men’s side RP. Why do you want to do this?

Are you talking about RPW because they’re totally different beasts.

iLiveInAHologram94 · 2019-11-30T00:06:46+00:00

I would start with just saying you like traditional relationships and gender roles

vintagegirlgame · 2019-11-29T20:54:34+00:00

How well do you know him? How long have you been together?

I openly discuss RP w my fiancé. He doesn’t reddit but he was onto RP style relationships before it was a label, so RP just added some interesting conversations to what he already knew.

For most women I would recommend what Laura Doyle says about “keeping surrendering a secret.” Men speak better through actions than words, so your actions that show new RPW behavior will mean more to him than discussing any concepts. If he asks about changes in your behavior, just say you’re starting to have a new appreciation for traditional style relationships and that you’re looking to become more feminine.

Keep in mind that you can’t “redpill” a man. It’s something he must swallow on his own and it’s a dangerous journey if he has any anger built up inside. The only way a woman can force him to take the pill is by being an out of control hypergamous heartbreaking bitch, and then out of his lowest low he can seek the pill.

jtriangle · 2019-11-29T21:38:59+00:00

The first rule of fight club is that you don't talk about fight club.

You're red pulled, he's not. If you do your job right and apply the theory gracefully, you'll both get what you want. If he doesn't respond well, he's not your captain, or a captain at all. Good news is, there are plenty of eligible skippers out there ready to be your captain if the one you're with won't.

Zegiknie · 2019-11-30T15:41:18+00:00

If he likes a certain 'trick', mention where you got the idea. If you discuss/gossip about realtionships, freely use the terminology and explain if he has questions. Just let it casually come up.

And I heartily disagree with all the people who think you should be secretive about this. Or keep male red pill a secret. If that info makes him respect or love you less, wouldn't you want to know and deal?

ZeppKfw · 2019-11-29T19:41:10+00:00

Just don't ever unless you 100% know he'll reciprocate in a good way. Start by telling him Redpill principles and make it bite sized and easy to swallow. By time he'll essentially be redpilled without telling him about redpill if you do it right.

cohost3 · 2019-11-29T23:41:17+00:00

I found a post that had summary of red pill women ideas, and showed it to my boyfriend. I asked him what he thought about and if that was the sort of thing he wanted. That worked well for me!

SaintVersace · 2019-11-29T20:05:39+00:00

tell him to read the rational male

Title	How can I talk to bf about red pill ? How to word it?
Author	GlamGemini
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Date	November 29, 2019 7:10 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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