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The last 3 girls I got physical with (in the past month) all had a last minute ASD when we were already half naked. What do I do about this? And where are all the sluts?

throwawayreddiduser

December 2, 2019

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Title	The last 3 girls I got physical with (in the past month) all had a last minute ASD when we were already half naked. What do I do about this? And where are all the sluts?
Author	throwawayreddiduser
Upvotes	21
Comments	20
Date	December 2, 2019 4:09 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/e4tfca/the_last_3_girls_i_got_physical_with_in_the_past/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/the-last-3-girls-i-got-physical-with-in-the-past.297438 https://theredarchive.com/post/297438

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[–]HeartbreakHotline31 points32 points33 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]smgtn9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

I'm an expert in this shit - I've had chicks in various states between fully dressed to completely naked refuse to fuck 😆 Here's the thing: they do that. Of course, you can deescalate and re-escalate like the other guys are suggesting, but it doesn't always work. On the other hand, some of them actually get off being taken by force, but in the age of MeToo that shit is dangerous. They can change their fucking mind in a split second, so now when I'm meeting a chick I'm mentally prepared to just about any shit she may try to pull.

Last case I had was completely naked in my hotel room - trying to dry hump me and just acting crazy, so after a few hours of that I said fuck this and kicked her out.

Your case however is a bit suspicious. Make sure you're not the problem, like bad breath or anything like that, any behavior from your side that could be considered unusual.

[–]throwawayreddiduser5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

I can go into more detail. The first girl said she was saving herself for marriage. The second girl got half naked and let me make out with her and feel her up for 30 minutes but didn’t want to suck my dick because she “doesn’t like the idea of doing it then kissing her younger siblings”. And she didn’t wanna fuck because she was “on her period”. But then when I wrapped things up, she said “but next time for sure” (I haven’t set up a next time yet). The third one didn’t even give an excuse, but she was totally fine with being completely naked and me touching her ass and sucking her tits, just when I tried fingering her she stopped me. She didn’t wanna do anything else either but she kept saying how much she liked me (we had met the day before). The last girl also said something after refusing to fuck which made me drop her, she said “I want to give you blue balls, it’s my signature”.

[–]smgtn16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can go into more detail. The first girl said she was saving herself for marriage.

She didn't find you attractive enough.

The second girl got half naked and let me make out with her and feel her up for 30 minutes but didn’t want to suck my dick because she “doesn’t like the idea of doing it then kissing her younger siblings”.

She didn't find you attractive enough.

The third one didn’t even give an excuse, but she was totally fine with being completely naked and me touching her ass and sucking her tits, just when I tried fingering her she stopped me. She didn’t wanna do anything else either but she kept saying how much she liked me (we had met the day before). The last girl also said something after refusing to fuck which made me drop her, she said “I want to give you blue balls, it’s my signature”.

I may be wrong, but it sounds like this one was one of those who want you to pin them down and fuck them hard. This particular type of chicks don't get turned on by gentle foreplay. Especially if she was naked and kept saying she liked you.

Another anecdote of mine from years ago. I met this chick from online in the middle of a night. Took her straight to my apartment, made her a drink, the usual escalation, etc. She would engage a bit, but wouldn't put out. I was tired and it was almost morning so I said I will drive her home. While I was driving I kept joking around, groping her and trying to get her pants off. She probably found my persistence amusing, because eventually she asked me to stop the car and fucked me in the car. She wouldn't do that on my big bachelor pad bed, but she did that in my god damn car. Like I said - chicks are fucking crazy.

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[–]Adorable_FecalSpray16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not enough info... did you still close w them or did you let the ASD de-rail you? Did you step back, withdraw attention and re-escalate / try again? (sidebar has info on this and how to handle it)

Personally I have very low tolerance for ASD (and shit tests), unless the girl is some bucket list item for me (3 boobs or maybe double amputee) I give her 2 chances, she still playing coy? Ok I’m out. I’ve got plenty of other things / girls I can be doing. I also set the tone / expectation from the first conversation so she knows I am more then willing to take my awesomeness elsewhere.

Sloots are all around, just have to keep working the womenz until you uncover them. But I don’t think one should expect all girls to be 100% compliant 100% of the time. It does take some work, that should be expected. If it didn’t take any work then every guy would be a Chad.

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