Where does someone whose experiences are mostly in line with Red Pill theory go when...

sublimemongrel · 2019-12-12T18:06:21+00:00

Do you mean to find your LTR partner?

Wanted to ask this in the Blue Pill forum but they are even worse than the Red Pillers who at least let me make one comment before banning me. Blue's are so sensitive they have to pre-ban everyone, so Purple Pill forum it is.

TBP is not a discussion or advice forum, TRP has r/askTRP but they are generally against relationships although idk why they would not allow you to post such a question on r/askTRP but I am not really familiar with their sub rules so who knows.

This forum is a debate sub although your post looking for advice is fine here too.

2019-12-12T18:16:22+00:00

You can't. That's the red pill. You can minimize fallout but never avoid it. Must be able to walk away instantly.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2019-12-12T18:18:18+00:00

what do you mean by go? you mean where do you go on reddit? what do you need a community for to do what you want

decoy88 · 2019-12-12T18:26:41+00:00

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WestsideMoonWalker · 2019-12-12T18:32:23+00:00

... he does and has always wanted a relationship with what I will call the 1% of women, those who actually do want to be in a healthy relationship with a man.

Go talk to people. Find someone who you are compatible with. Presto! You found a potential long term partner. It's literally that simple. Isn't always easy, but the process is like, two steps.

TRP isn't gospel, and to a lot of people, it's pretty much just a massive crock of shit.

WIA20XX · 2019-12-12T18:45:13+00:00

CMV - a red pill guy can't have a healthy monogamous long term relationship with a woman without being a tyrant/sociopathic manipulator.

Yes he can.

The answer is that you date women, vet them, commit, have that relationship, but be prepared for a breakup, and be okay with being alone, okay with yourself.

It may last to your dying breath, or she may leave you at the first cough, or for some richer/more handsome guy.

That's fine. Loss is a part of life.

The idea that you're going to find some woman who will never change, love you forever, was always a myth. A fantasy. Pornhub before Pornhub.

That's the blue pill.

Now that you are red pill, and see the world as it actually is, you should be joyous not mournful.

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Bright_Itempas · 2019-12-12T18:00:44+00:00

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Emervila · 2019-12-12T18:15:33+00:00

Where does someone ... go?

You go your own way. TRP it's a guideline but not a fence. There are RP Christians and RP married people, RP is a spectrum very wide.

ToraChan23 · 2019-12-12T21:02:40+00:00

I don't see any place you couldn't go to find a LTR...

When you say "experienced life along the lines of the Red Pill theories", what exactly do you mean? Explaining this could help people give you advice

G77R23D · 2019-12-12T21:18:57+00:00

Make friends, and have them introduce you to their female friends.

TheJim66 · 2019-12-12T18:17:15+00:00

Use RP to generate attraction in a relationship.Just know that it's gonna be harder (since security turns women off ) and that there are no guarantees you will succeed.Basically try it if you want but be prepared to deal with divorce if worse comes to worst.Oh and VET!

Edit:If you aren't talking about marriage,the same applies.You can just leave more easily.

Edit2:if you mean pill colour,as long as you believe AWALT and the other theories it's still red imo.Its a toolbox,do whatever you wish with it but don't delude yourself

XtoDoubt · 2019-12-12T18:33:55+00:00

Spin plates. If one plate is consistently better than the rest bump her up to ltr. I literally did this.

Manny1400 · 2019-12-12T19:21:02+00:00

I've seen maybe 3-4 happy, healthy marriages in my entire life, among the 30+ couples I've been friends with

One of those is mine. Another consists of a very religious couple. Then we have the remainder, in which the husband and wife love and respect each other, don't cheat, etc.

In some cases, the husband married down, and the wife is of low quality. She is also controlling, problematic, and disliked by others. A bunch divorced, with the wife typically cheating.

The chances of you finding a good woman among the general population of hypergamous, normie, mediocre women here in the US is very small. You are going to have to go the religious route, or find a subset of people with different ideology and views. Even that isn't a guarantee.

So forget about bars, nightclubs, and coed volleyball.

Title	Where does someone whose experiences are mostly in line with Red Pill theory go when...
Author	Hiraeth74
Upvotes	7
Comments	44
Date	December 12, 2019 5:55 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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