I’m currently in an LTR with this girl. She says she loves me, she’s extremely sensitive and can be a nuisance at times like all girls, but besides her emotional outbursts she pretty well does everything to my liking. Just a little back story. I did something that really upset her, “that was legitimately my fault”. She was upset for a week and testing me hardcore and her trust was rattled I could tell, I remained positive and simply ignored her BS about it all, we were together last night and she was still acting that way and she came out and told me how upset I made her and apologized and told me all this stuff “I’m not going into all of it”. But all this stuff just made me extremely happy, things I’ve never heard a girl say to me before, I didn’t legitimately cry, I maintained good eye contact and a straight voice with her and comfy but stern posture and body language but I couldn’t hold back a few tears of happiness just kept falling. As stupid as it sounds this is what went down. I know I read never cry in front of your girl but I wasn’t sad or mad, it just felt good. Have I gave up any of my masculinity doing this? Is this bad or a loss of frame in any way?
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