So my slave girl was up for a few days this pas week and related the following to me, which illustrates the importance of developing skill at approaching women and gaming them.

She is committed to fitness and spends a lot of time in the gym. She also has a tendency to wear leggings and other tight clothing that shows off her figure. And ofc, in the gym, she wears gym clothes and there is no shortage of thirsty guys staring at her, offering to help her with weights, asking about thus or so exercise she's doing, etc.

I don't blame guys for looking at her; she has a rockin' body. When we are out together, it is not uncommon for men to look at her, longingly, and then realize that I've busted them and then get that "Oh, FUCK!" look on their faces, like I'm going to kick their asses - fear not, I just smile and wink.

So one guy has been coming to her gym for 5 months.

Five.Fucking.Months. That is waaaaay too long to wait to approach a girl.

And his move? "I really want to touch you."

That, dear friends, is a man who never learned how to Talk To Girls. Ever. And her estimate was that he was between 35-40 years old. He might as well have said, "I think about you when I masturbate."

Now, the guy had no shot - she has a particular set of needs, i.e. a strong desire to be a sex slave, and she is painfully introverted, and has thus only been able to confess this to one person in her life. Luckily for her, it was me. But still, that guy needs to make a stronger effort if he's ever going to get laid.

So the take away for you young guys is this:

-Don't be afraid to approach women. The worst thing they can say is "no" an you are no worse off than you were before. 95% of them will be polite about it, and if not, then just turn and walk away.

-There is no "One Special Girl." Don't obsess over that girl you see at the gym, or at Starbucks or whatever. Make your move. Stop giving a shit about outcomes.

-Go over the game film after. What worked? What didn't? LURN.

Further Reading:

Approach Anxiety: Faint Heart Never Fucked Fair Lady

-Take a Deep Breath, and Make It Count.

Abundance Mentality - Why It's Good For You.

-If You Really Want To Know, Go And Build It.

Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Outcome Independence or Welcome to Level 99 DGAF

-How to Rock Out With Your Cock Out.